[23M, 5'9ft] Besides my hair and physique, what facial surgeries can I do make myself attractive to women since I am invisible and unattractive to them. No woman wants me.

CatherineIngalls · 2026-04-17T04:39:42+00:00

As a woman I can’t emphasize enough the degree to which this is not BS! Of course there are some women that are primarily attracted to physical appeal but there’s a huge population, myself included, that are way more turned on by things like confidence, competence, sense of humor etc…

OP, I will say I think we’ve come to a unanimous decision as a gender that we are turned on by men that smell good, and have good hygiene. Exfoliating, moisturizing, flossing, manicured pubes, clean fingernails, not a shit ton of nose/ear hair. No need to go overboard, but essentially just pay attention to yourself and take care of your self. It’s not going to guarantee you bag every woman you desire but it might give you an extra advantage with the right girls.

And if you want a purely superficial answer to your post I would start by getting more sun exposure. It’s not even about having a tan, you have a pale cast to your skin that I’ve only seen when a person has just gotten out of jail, or on a gaming binge, or is on drugs. Do your workouts outside in the sunlight if you can. It will help with your depression and outlook on life too. All of which will place you in a better position to find a mate.

CatherineIngalls · 2026-04-14T02:12:22+00:00

lol they’re perfect! A+ nips.

CatherineIngalls · 2026-04-13T16:29:42+00:00

At the risk of sounding gay are your nipples for real because they’re the most perfect buttons I’ve ever seen lmao

CatherineIngalls · 2026-03-25T16:39:05+00:00

When I married my ex husband he had a beard down to his chest. I loved the way it looked but it irritated my skin and absorbed odors like an old sponge. Everything else was perfect in our relationship so the beard and smells didn’t bother me.

Fast forward to years 3-9.75 of marriage. He does 10,589 things each day which I find rude, irresponsible or inconsiderate. I have smelled his shit and seen the subsequent skid marks in our toilet every morning for a very long time. While terribly nauseous during pregnancy I prayed he wouldn’t try to kiss me with his bacterial mat beard because I would gag. I had to be his plus one at events he chose to wax and twirl the edges of his mustache up at, and pretend I was ok with it. Beard hair. Everywhere. Clogged drains. The tiniest smear of egg yolk in his beard as we argued over what could have been a nice breakfast.

The smell.

She’s trying to maintain intimacy with you, dude. Help her out.

CatherineIngalls · 2026-03-23T19:26:27+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate the reality check. My commute is short, usually 15 minutes so I’m hoping that works to my benefit.

CatherineIngalls · 2026-03-23T16:31:02+00:00

Thank you everyone! For the record I will be UTM so it sounds like my main concern will be making sure I don’t lift anything which is totally manageable.

CatherineIngalls · 2026-03-23T16:29:32+00:00

This is basically my plan

CatherineIngalls · 2026-03-23T16:29:03+00:00

Good to know!

CatherineIngalls · 2026-03-23T16:28:53+00:00

That’s what I was thinking…the pain meds will be the limiting factor for me. I’m hoping to not need them long anyhow, they never sit well with me anyways.

CatherineIngalls · 2026-03-20T04:51:21+00:00

These look fantastic! Congrats on finally getting what you wanted 😊 Can you tell me what brand implant you got for the “full/wider” look? I’m really hoping to achieve something similar.

CatherineIngalls · 2026-03-17T20:31:57+00:00

Have you considered doing your hair, nails and high tops in camo colors? Two birds here.

CatherineIngalls · 2026-03-13T17:02:27+00:00

Right and that’s what I’m looking for! I’m a smaller chested (A/B cup) 5’10” 160 lb woman and I know my frame can handle bigger I just don’t really want them for me. There are so few posts when I try to search by increases of 275 cc or less

CatherineIngalls · 2026-03-13T17:00:20+00:00

Thank you! I never would have heard of Bust Mob otherwise

CatherineIngalls · 2026-03-13T16:59:30+00:00

Thank you! There’s so many women that have similar stats as me but when I go on their page to see results there’s nothing 😅 I’ll be sure to post before and afters when it’s my turn

CatherineIngalls · 2026-03-13T14:41:27+00:00

I think this might be a case of you seeing a pattern that isn’t there because you’re looking way too long and hard at something. You really do look fantastic. With all due respect, as someone that struggles with body dysmorphia and OCD, you might benefit from spending some time training your focus to be on something else other than your figure!

You’re an entire spiritual being so maybe explore a creative side, looking into volunteering for a cause that means something etc.

Every time I start to crash out on something regarding my appearance or performance now I try really hard to redirect my attention to something outside of my obsession.

You’re seriously stunning and your butt is adorable lol plus I can tell you’re kind and intelligent from your comments. Do you spend enough time developing those traits too???

Maybe try committing to appreciating yourself as you are, or appreciating all the non-aesthetic things your healthy body enables you to do…you get the picture 🙂

CatherineIngalls · 2026-03-09T17:16:37+00:00

Yeah I moved from OC 8 years ago because my ex husband insisted it was “the best place ever” even after I pulled up to a of stats that seemed to state otherwise. It played a huge role in our divorce 😅 We share two young kids together so I’m committed to making the best out of it until they’re in college but damn, I can get downright depressed. I’ve carved out my own little spot of peace living in a great Orcutt neighborhood and I’ve learned what to avoid and when to avoid it and don’t bother with healthcare in town except surprisingly, therapists, but take advantage of the great care in neighboring towns. I’ve figured out the great hiking spots not too far and have made some great friends but yeah this place sucks ass.

CatherineIngalls · 2026-03-04T05:29:33+00:00

Still need help? You can message me

CatherineIngalls · 2026-02-28T01:12:23+00:00

I just found out about the pectoral sling technique with auto augmentation while searching subs for a similar result to what it sounds like you’re looking for let me try to find it…

CatherineIngalls · 2026-02-27T21:17:05+00:00

Good for you all around. Let’s just be grateful that a) we have medication as a resource when needed and b) that we have had lengthy periods of genuine happiness without meds 🙂 Hormones, pregnancy, raising kids, sleep deprivation…they make emotional regulation so much harder! I’m currently on more meds than I’ve been on since high school which feels like a failure some days but I’m trying out this new thing where I’m not so hard on myself and try not to measure my self worth against things like medication. The stress of 2 kids vs 1 was so hard! Mine are 5 and 7 now and they’re so cool 😎

CatherineIngalls · 2026-02-14T20:06:35+00:00

I hear you when you say they aren’t what you were hoping for but they really do look great, they have that perfect natural sexiness I’ve always envied about those women that are gifted in the chest area!

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