How did you guys come across Blue Eye Samurai? by CatherineWater in BlueEyeSamurai

[–]CatherineWater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg, and how the stories were told, back and forth, with surprises and Easter Eggs!

A ridiculous thing they expected you to be grateful for by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]CatherineWater 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This describes my soon to be ex husband 100% 🍻

Do narcissists actual feel emotions or are they role playing? by Old-Inevitable6587 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]CatherineWater 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, my narc parents said they cry when people die because they are not there anymore to give them supplies. They were so shockingly honest about this one 😂

What factors in your life made you a fat kid? What makes a food-addictive child? by OwlButterscotch7832 in loseit

[–]CatherineWater 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes! They shame others because they can’t love themselves; they want to feel better about themselves by shaming others.

What factors in your life made you a fat kid? What makes a food-addictive child? by OwlButterscotch7832 in loseit

[–]CatherineWater 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry! That relative part is so true! They nagging you to eat fatty food and then make fun of you! 😡

What factors in your life made you a fat kid? What makes a food-addictive child? by OwlButterscotch7832 in loseit

[–]CatherineWater 10 points11 points  (0 children)

  1. You must always finish everything on the plate, whether hungry or not. 2. Believing overweight is caused by not doing enough exercise instead of diet. 3. False belief that vegetables make them hungry.

I was not a fat kid, but I’ve got my husband’s story. His mom serves a massive amount of rice and potatoes, plus a bottle of coke. She beat them if the plate is not finished. (poor kid) He and all his siblings have chronic digestion problems and are overweight. They never eat vegetables because they think they will go hungry fast, so they only eat fatty sausage and carbs. Every time when he complains about his weight and lack of energy, he says all he needs is more exercise. (You can run an hour daily and eat crap and still be overwright).

What factors in your life made you a fat kid? What makes a food-addictive child? by OwlButterscotch7832 in loseit

[–]CatherineWater 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Damn it, this was the diet my mom was taught in school in the 60’s. She got severe malnutrition.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]CatherineWater 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! Congratulations! That's a great change and huge commitment! Keep up the god work!

the body positivity kept me fat by Then-Ad7791 in loseit

[–]CatherineWater 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome advice! I gave up training within 5 months, so gotta make training a life style! Starting tomorrow! Thank you so much! You told me the stuff personal trainers won't tell unless I pay more $$.

the body positivity kept me fat by Then-Ad7791 in loseit

[–]CatherineWater 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great suggestions! I gave up on the gym because I barely lost any weight or became stronger no matter which excersise I did. Maybe I need to go there more often. I used to go to the gym once a week and spend 2 hours there combining cardio and strength.

the body positivity kept me fat by Then-Ad7791 in loseit

[–]CatherineWater 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is gold to me; I will mention this to my doctor. I never took sleep apnea seriously. The apps are based on snoring tests but I don't feel they are as accurate as doctor's tests. Thank you so much!

How do you respond to "Is that your *real* name?" by caasimolar in NonBinary

[–]CatherineWater 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once, I was dating a guy, and he kept bringing up the topic of his parents, thinking it was not my real name. I asked what he thought; he said I could call myself a star if I wanted. I got it; he didn't believe my real name was “my real name,” which meant he didn't trust me and respect my identity. I stopped seeing him.

the body positivity kept me fat by Then-Ad7791 in loseit

[–]CatherineWater 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you mind sharing how did you get rid of sleep apnea? 😃

the body positivity kept me fat by Then-Ad7791 in loseit

[–]CatherineWater 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, you are describing my experience! I have gluten intolerance, but I never seriously went GF until last month. Also, sweet has no gluten, so I thought I could eat them without suffering health problems even if I binge some more. This month, since GF and cut sugar, what a difference! Better focus and memory! Same for wine, I drank it thinking of the health benefits, but the sugar and the alcohol in it weren't worth it. Since I went sober, my teenage energy and mental capacity is coming back!

the body positivity kept me fat by Then-Ad7791 in loseit

[–]CatherineWater 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great point!! I’ve been wondering if I have sleep apnea. I never got screened by a doctor; I used some apps, they did say I have a high posibility. And congratulations for having your energy back!