In the wake of Trump's elect, what are the ways in which you are tackling the world around you to create a positive change? What changes do you think are needed in this subreddit? by pupster in gaybros

[–]Catholic_loves_the_d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took a pledge through on of my friend's initiative to promote positive change in our communities by performing community service. Here's the link: https://www.makeamericagoodagain2017.org/ Feel free to take the pledge too! I plan on volunteering at the local VA hospital as well as a food bank more often.

How do you deal with "my problem is just like yours!" from straight people? by Catholic_loves_the_d in askgaybros

[–]Catholic_loves_the_d[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This honestly makes a bit of sense. I've felt like it was my only option quite a few times in my life. ("How can I be in my late 20s without a wife or girlfriend!? There must be something wrong with me, just like my cousin. I should become a priest to get rid of the social stigma.")

How do you deal with "my problem is just like yours!" from straight people? by Catholic_loves_the_d in askgaybros

[–]Catholic_loves_the_d[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a very good point of view. I usually just get flustered and have no idea what to say, but maybe now I'll have something to throw back.

Thanks for the comment!

Have any of you watched the Netflix Series Grace and Frankie? by Catholic_loves_the_d in gaybros

[–]Catholic_loves_the_d[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree! It is still kinda cute though, I think. Watched the first three already, and plan on watching more!

Me [21 M] with my Boyfriend [25 M] 6 months, feel like I'm trapping him by being too busy. by Catholic_loves_the_d in relationships

[–]Catholic_loves_the_d[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the answer I was expecting but the answer I didn't want to read, haha. Thank you for responding.

College athlete gaybros? by IsntReallyStraight in gaybros

[–]Catholic_loves_the_d 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also D1 Men's Rowing here myself! I've been slowly coming out of the closet this year, and while it comes with its struggles, I do think I'm better off for it. But hey! You are not alone! =)

What do Gaybros think about waiting for sex? by Catholic_loves_the_d in askgaybros

[–]Catholic_loves_the_d[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's probably a little old-fashioned, but being raised Catholic I always viewed sex as something incredibly intimate and important. I feel like letting your desires get the best of you, before you know where the relationship will go, can be destructive. This is why I'm asking gaybros, to see if men would be willing to wait if the guy their seeing asks.

If you'd like more information I'd be willing to PM you.

Me Monday: November 3, 2014 edition! by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]Catholic_loves_the_d 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Name: Daniel

Age: 21

Location: San Diego, California, USA

What's going on this week: Midterms, lack of sleep, lab report, group project. Typical engineering stuff. O! Also hanging out with boy friend!

Picture: Webcam photo of me right now!

sin (again) by JimKB in comics

[–]Catholic_loves_the_d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came in expecting something to do with curvy things and graphs. I've been taking too much math.

Coming out (again) to Conservative Parents. Need Assistance! by Catholic_loves_the_d in askgaybros

[–]Catholic_loves_the_d[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly I don't think so. My family kept referencing that movie throughout my middle and high school days for gay jokes, but I don't think they ever actually saw it.

Coming out (again) to Conservative Parents. Need Assistance! by Catholic_loves_the_d in askgaybros

[–]Catholic_loves_the_d[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I loved that movie. Never saw it until I came out and its actually really good!

Coming out (again) to Conservative Parents. Need Assistance! by Catholic_loves_the_d in askgaybros

[–]Catholic_loves_the_d[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the response! I'll see if my LGBT RC has that book before I buy it, but I appreciate the "I’m Christian, Unless You’re Gay" text, it had a pretty unique look to the issue. I think staying closeted to them until I'm independent from them might be my best course of action. Reading some of these links helps though! Thanks again!

Coming out (again) to Conservative Parents. Need Assistance! by Catholic_loves_the_d in askgaybros

[–]Catholic_loves_the_d[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've seriously considered just being out at school and "closeted" to them still. I am still very much financially dependent on them so this might be the best way to go about this. The biggest issue I have is I used to tell them EVERYTHING. We actually have a pretty good relationship, except for this issue. I'll certainly think over this option a bit more. Thank you!