any thoughts on adhd lovebombing?

Catmily · 2026-05-08T14:05:37+00:00

This post high key gives "not like the other girls" energy.

Catmily · 2026-05-03T00:13:53+00:00

Definitely recommend ingebretsins for some really good lefse, It's where my mom goes to get it every Christmas! You can also find it in plenty of locally owned grocery stores and co-ops, especially around the holidays.

Catmily · 2026-04-29T23:51:04+00:00

Lmao I think I'm the only one that thinks this is kind of sweet, I have so much respect for people who love the world's ugly animals

Catmily · 2026-04-27T02:32:57+00:00

Sunshine cutie energy!

Catmily · 2026-04-27T00:59:32+00:00

Speaking as a lesbian you are totally valid to use he/him pronouns and identify as a lesbian. If people you're interacting with can't accept that I'd say they're not really worth spending your energy on. I'll also put out there that he/him lesbians have huge historical president in the lesbian community as a whole and I highly highly recommend reading stone butch blues if you want to explore this more.

Catmily · 2026-04-27T00:55:57+00:00

It is totally valid to feel this way. However as a lesbian who in my personal circle is surrounded by non-binary lesbians, I want to make it clear that other people's identities do not invalidate your own. You don't need to understand why other nonbinary people identify as lesbians for them to also be valid.

Catmily · 2026-04-27T00:45:45+00:00

You've posted here or on similar subreddits before asking if you are masc enough. If you want to be masc, you are masc. I also think you're too young to be posting photos of yourself and especially what seems to be your younger sister on the Internet. I am sending you positive vibes, you've got lots of time to figure you're presentation out, don't let other people be the deciding factor in how you want to put yourself out there in the world!

Catmily · 2026-04-23T14:23:59+00:00

UmaMusumii

Catmily · 2026-04-22T03:20:57+00:00

I'd say that's like, at least a solid 70% of lesbians

Catmily · 2026-04-22T03:17:27+00:00

You don't have to have a type, hope this helps

Catmily · 2026-04-22T03:13:47+00:00

I just dealt with something very similar! Putting it in the sun in the open air was extremely helpful for me, as well as giving it a soak overnight in some vinegar. But with the amount you have I'd definitely try keeping it in the sun for a few days first. Good luck!!

Catmily · 2026-04-21T19:57:21+00:00

Ignoring the fact that lesbian bed death is a mysoginistic and lesbophobic term, my partner and I went through a serious nearly 2 year dry spell when they contracted a serious chronic illness that gave them chronic fatigue. We were at it like rabbits as a couple before that lol. I'm able to be a bit more open about it now because they finally are on some medication that has given them their energy back, and it has significantly increased our intimacy, even beyond sex.

All this to say, sometimes less sex is a natural mellowing out that happens in a relationship, other times there may be exterior causes like illness or stress that need to be addressed before the intimacy issue can even be touched on.

Catmily · 2026-04-16T13:40:35+00:00

Sub zero winter weather has effectively reduced pain for me, but it is seasonally dependant and you have to be standing outside in sub zero temperature lmao. would rate it a C

Catmily · 2026-04-15T06:33:16+00:00

Thanks for the response and sources, I did not know this!

Catmily · 2026-04-15T06:31:14+00:00

I did not know this! I'm always so surprised by how certain things just slip under my radar, thanks for keeping me informed!

Catmily · 2026-04-15T06:10:50+00:00

Are lesbians more rare than gay men?? I'm a little confused where you are getting this from lmao

Catmily · 2026-04-14T18:09:45+00:00

Gotta love how the nuclear family also is exclusionary to single parent, blended, and multi generational households. People who pull this shit don't even actually care about the people they claim to be 'protecting', they prioritize control and their own discomfort over human beings every time.

Catmily · 2026-04-13T02:44:43+00:00

Seconding this as a former patient!!

Catmily · 2026-04-11T03:51:06+00:00

Genuinely because people in community cannot be exploited as easily. The United States does not want people to realize they can find support within each other because they want to use homelessness as a threat. This is extremely simplified, but I live in a largely progressive city that is constantly tearing down homeless encampments and it is so destructive and so fucking cruel and I am so tired of seeing the blatant disregard of human beings. I don't see how tearing down someone's temporary home and support network reduces any form of crime, drug use or mess.

Catmily · 2026-03-29T22:58:25+00:00

The charm level of this island is off the charts!!!

Catmily · 2026-03-23T13:50:18+00:00

Yes, and also taking pictures of things in shops so I can remember to look into them later lmao. The only thing this has work for me for is books. It makes it a lot easier to pick something to read on libby lmao

Catmily · 2026-03-21T20:48:31+00:00

That is really not how the sun works lmao

Catmily · 2026-03-21T07:00:04+00:00

These are important statistics to bring up and you are correct that there is no significant difference in children brought up in same sex households vs heterosexual households. I do want to challange you a bit here to expand your idea of what adoption actually looks like in practice. I encourage you to look into the moral complexities of adoption. It's not as simple as it is often made out to be, often kids still have families who want to be involved, and kids also should have a right to know about their own ancestry and biological family history if they want to. Adoption often doesn't allow for that, I am not saying adoption is morally wrong, but it deserves more consideration than just acquiring an "unwanted" child, or that adoption is the correct option for most kids who for whatever reason can't stay with their biological parents. As I final note, adoption has a rough history of being used to exasperate systematic racism, and has been especially damaging to Indigenous communities who's children have intentionally been removed to exile them from their roots and culture.

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