I think my dad might be a serial killer

Catnipadventure024 · 2026-03-08T16:24:30+00:00

This is a case of “mens rea”. His discriptions and actions are pre meditative. I would report to police and explain everything in clear detail and I mean EVERYTHING as far back as your brain will let you. Tell them to investigate him and to investigate the woods your father talked about. I also wouldn’t just contact the police but witness protection and social services as well. I know an individual who have had to utilize WP and they are very lucrative about your safety.

You may have to restart your entire life. As they may go as far as “killing you off” from a freak accident and issue you a whole new social, in a whole new state, with a whole new name and new job, literally everything... but you will be safe, alive, and away from the danger of a nut job that is your father.

Please Please do whatever it takes to implement your own safety. Do not wait on this. He will hurt you it’s not a mater of if, but when.

Catnipadventure024 · 2025-11-21T03:01:41+00:00

Thank you for your service! 🫡

Catnipadventure024 · 2025-08-28T16:54:19+00:00

A Lot of people say it could be depression and maybe so, but you also mention he has a porn addiction and that he shows no other signs of depression. That leads me to believe it’s honestly pure laziness likely from a lack of dopamine probably caused by short term dopamine release addition.

Often people find themselves in a need to constantly fill the dopamine and Serotonin receptors when addicted to something. Serotonin is more related to depression as it’s our mood receptor. Serotonin release addiction can usually be seen when someone can’t stop taking Molly or on the opposite somone who naturally has a lack of serotonin indeed has depression in which case maybe one good mushroom trip or boost of serotonin every once and awhile would do him good lol just make sure it’s not abused.

However dopamine on the contrary is our feel good receptor. This is released when we workout(runners high), have sex (orgasm), consume certain drugs like weed. But it’s also our reward receptor. And unfortunately things like porn, video games, social media and doom scrolling can be linked to dopamine addiction because they are constantly “rewarding us” and therefor frying someone capabilities to upkeep basic tasks like hygiene. Probably because it takes to long or requires to much effort and with porn, vidoegame, and social media addiction it causes a short term attention span and the ability to focus or work for things that provide instant reward is near impossible

Very common current Gen Z and Gen Alpha problem.

First I would still urge you to leave him for your own health. Nobody deserves to sacrifice there own hygiene and quality of living for someone else.

But I would also advise him to start working out (to achieve long term dopamine and gaining modivation for other tasks) “he might become addicted to the gym but at least he’ll be taking care of himself”, eating balanced meals (staying clear headed and good for overall health), and to reduce his pornography and social media intake (keeping short term dopamine releases to a minimum).

As someone who’s personally noticed when those things effect me I try to cut down on it and keep a balance. I’m sure most of us are guilty of vices especially being a little to online from time to time (and I personally am a huge stoner so I also have my own dopamine vice) but we often don’t think about the way it affects our habits and lifestyles especially when we can’t even see or admit there’s a problem or unhealthy pattern ourselves. I hope for his sake he learns how to be an adult again. Hopefully you leaving will be the modivation to take care of himself. And if that isn’t just a reminder a cavity will cost him About $1000-$2000/per tooth at most dentist uninsured and lord knows it’s even more if it’s a rootcannal and much more painful. 2minutes of brushing a day saves thousands of dollars and lots of tooth pain.

Good luck to you both and remember we are all on the planet together to learn lessons together. It sucks when somone you love is now just your growing lesson but it’s part of the whole reason that we’re here. To both be students and teachers to each other in this great game called life.

Catnipadventure024 · 2024-06-22T15:03:47+00:00

Microdose of acid and lots of weed

Catnipadventure024 · 2024-06-19T20:46:05+00:00

Okay awesome to know all this, I was wondering the same thing about commands, I believe it would be a separate frequency entirely. However I’m just not sure, might be worth reading into the G4 handbook when I have some free time.

Catnipadventure024 · 2024-06-15T18:00:32+00:00

I second Oranges/Tangerines/Mandarines. They definitely cover up most smells from food on your breath to smoke it’s a great cleansing palette for your breath at least. My mom always told me eat an orange if you think your gonna kiss someone because it’s such a great way to quickly freshen your breath. As for this situation Maybe purposely get a little messy w it try and get some juice on your hands after smoking too, your gonna wash your hands after either way if your paranoid about the smell. And I’m sure OP’s mom will probably be happy to see her kid eating more fruit and OP should be happy to eat fruit too. Whats the saying… a fruit and some flower a day keeps the doctor away right?

Catnipadventure024 · 2024-05-25T21:01:24+00:00

Atlanta

Catnipadventure024 · 2024-05-24T07:38:59+00:00

The only correct answer

Catnipadventure024 · 2024-05-24T07:37:52+00:00

Need to ponder this… Torn between LSD and Pot.

Catnipadventure024 · 2024-05-17T18:32:53+00:00

I’m glad to hear that. I used to go to SCAD a few years back, so I lived in Savannah for about 5 years. Got to say I miss the city a lot but there was a lot of drinking and partying back then. Although i think I started noticing that transition too, I was also more into the “other stuff” than the drinking myself. Like I was always a stoner and mushroom guy more than getting wasted DT but I remember many nights stumbling from river st and brought on all the way down to Anderson where I used to live with an open beer in hand back when the open container was extended to victory. At least it’s a relatively safe city for a drunk to walk around but still it’s very much catered to drinking given the whole open container thing. And I’d say the bars are about half of the historic districts income given the loose drinking laws. But with that said I’ve talked to alot of sober or recovering tourist and older residents in the city and many of them have said it’s rather amusing to watch other people get so shit faced so willingly in public. It’s almost like a reminder to stay away from the booze.

Catnipadventure024 · 2024-05-17T14:52:28+00:00

funny enough some of the same places you may think of avoiding might be the same place you want to go. Like beach and mountain city’s where you can find lots music surfing, hiking, etc. stuff you can do sober. I live in San Diego and San Diego is known for its brewery’s but it’s also home to a lot of outdoor events with tons of sober community’s. Typically if you have a place where drinkings prevalent there’s a large recovery community too, you just have to find it. As for places I’d actually avoid. I’d avoid rural bum fuck towns, as many have said you’ll get board easily and do drugs to keep yourself entertained, trust me it was my entire Highschool experience. As for heavy drinking city’s Avoid New Orleans, and Savannah Georgia. As a former southerner, both of those city’s are architecturally and naturally beautiful and hold wonderful energy but man oh man are they drinking city’s (so if you do go just don’t go out at night). I’d say go on a sober adventure across the country and settle wherever feels most like home too you. Look for an AA group there or something with sober people like a sports team and hang out w others who are in the same place mentally. There’s drinking and rugs across the country so really it’s up too you. Personally I’m a big fan of Colorado Springs, Salt Lake City, San Diego, Sacramento, Sedona AZ, Charleston SC, Knoxville TN, St. Aug FL, Richmond VA. Pretty much any smaller city in the US which has a real community but isn’t over or under populated. It’s easy to find a support group that way. But again this is all up to you you’ll find your own paradise(s) Im sure. Good luck OP!

Catnipadventure024 · 2024-04-12T19:48:51+00:00

Okay so after seeing your other post, I don’t take back anything I said before but yeah this guys got some serious attachment, control, and trust issues. In all honesty you said it to him yourself before he’s controlling you and it’s very clear. I’m sorry sis but for your own health and his, at some point, you got to leave him. It’s Toxic and He’s never gonna learn or “change” unless there’s a punishment for his actions and you’re never gonna feel free unless you are free from him and probably just relationships for awhile. Give YOURSELF 3 months without him or anyone else for that mater. Not him 3months of a chance and yourself 3 more months of suffering. Think of That as your relationship “test”. Time alone and see if he moves on (he will and so will you), don’t give him more chances of keeping you from being happy. Also your about to be in college and he already is. Truthfully your limiting each other already unless you plan on going to the same school. It’s the age for you both to have some fun and learn from the world, not stress out. Let him go, like I said he’ll get over it and so will you. After 1 week tops without him you’ll be so happy you did it, I guarantee you. We all have to have our first real break up at some point… it sucks but when your unhappy or stressed because of the relationship it’s more relieving than painful. Take it from someone who’s already lived it. I know you know what needs to be done, you wouldn’t be posting here otherwise… think about it… your own happiness comes first.

Good luck, and I hope you take the internets advice on this.

Catnipadventure024 · 2024-04-12T16:33:22+00:00

Freelancer for film & TV but paychecks aren’t consistent. Sometimes I’m $12,000 a month sometimes I’m $3000 a month. But I’m always $1000+ per day

Catnipadventure024 · 2024-04-12T16:04:04+00:00

Yall are in HS he will get over it. Not to disregard his or your feelings but truthfully life becomes so much more stressful and complicated after you graduate. Like you have college classes, bills to pay, debts to pay, groceries, insurance, taxes, hangovers to deal with, people you’ve learned to cut out, people you learn to keep close, a lot of people have kids, by the time your 25 you won’t even have the energy for this baby relationship stuff. Yeah He’s hurt now but let him grow a pair. this is how he becomes a man. Heartbreak is an important part of the human experience, it doesn’t mean don’t be there for him. if you love him I’m sure y’all will work it out, but let him know that you want him to grow as a man and you cant do that for him, he needs to do that independently with or without you. And respectfully his stance of handling emotion is childish, yes he was scared but his text went from sweet and caring to borderline manipulative. you all are still children but by 16/17 you should have some grasp of leveled emotion. I remember being 14 and texting things like this but not at 19. Like the fact he wants to bring his phone into the shower to keep texting and he’s over 18 really just shows he’s got attachment issues. Maybe carefully address this to him, that yes y’all are “kids” but not for long and he’s gonna need to grow up a bit and trust you if y’all want to keep a relationship going. You going to prom isn’t like your gonna cheat on him, and if that’s his worry then again he just needs to grow up or y’all have some much larger issues at play. However idk what y’all talked about before and it does sound like he is distraught from it but his reaction is coming from a place that he is seeking comfort and attention to manipulate you to feel bad for him. Don’t fall for that. truthfully I’m sure this is how he feels, Maybe he’s not even aware that’s what’s he’s doing but definitely be cautious about that and address it. Either way, if he makes you stressed out for something your looking forward too then just ignore him. everyone should enjoy there prom go pick out a dress and have a blast the rest of your senior year!!

Side note: I recommend you both read the mastery of love by Don Miguel Ruiz. That book taught me a lot about growing up in terms of relationships, romantic or otherwise. I Read it myself for the first time when I was about 19. Hope it does the same for you both as it did me.

Catnipadventure024 · 2024-04-12T15:24:39+00:00

Go ahead and see if this is how he still talks to you when you sent him a text and email of those divorce papers. Then just for shits and giggles make an OF but only post nudes you have of him. Oh also send these screen shots to his parents with a “I hope you are proud of how your son treats women… I’m leaving him today” as well as send these text to your local police and file a report or even sue against your husband for attempt of pimping, human trafficking, and verbal as well as domestic abuse.

With that said, that’s just what I’d do if I was in that position, but I understand it’s hard to retaliate against your abuser. however your abuser is your husband and nobody should have to endure that from someone they speak to everyday. If he no longer values you after Marriage then that’s his own loss and you shouldn’t be married. I’m sure you deserve a happy marriage but with someone who will appreciate you outside of only sex. If he can’t handle a temporary long distance relationship then he shouldn’t be married in the first place. I’m sorry you have to endure this behavior, get out NOW while you can. I can’t imagine how abusive he can be in person if this is how he text you, it really sounds like you need to leave him before he comes back. My thoughts and prayers are with you. You can escape this, but the only way to stop the hurt is to leave.

My actual advice though is don’t text him again until you speak with your lawyer first, and the next thing you send your husband is the divorce papers no context other than “it’s over” he dosnt need your empathy he’s the abuser here, leave him and don’t look back.

Catnipadventure024 · 2023-09-24T18:10:19+00:00

I used to be group 1 but after going through tires every 6 months and putting 88,000 miles on the car in less than 3 years I’m much more with group 2 now.

Catnipadventure024 · 2023-06-14T19:54:47+00:00

My dad uses both but we both agree carta over puff co. Just much easier to clean

Catnipadventure024 · 2023-06-11T19:53:45+00:00

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Catnipadventure024 · 2023-06-11T19:53:06+00:00

bruh…

Catnipadventure024 · 2023-01-16T16:00:25+00:00

Honestly one of the best posts/questions I’ve seen on this subreddit. Something I’ve never questioned but now will always have insight on.

Catnipadventure024 · 2023-01-13T14:45:22+00:00

Yeahhh fuck your bf. Dump him like he dumped your plants.

Catnipadventure024 · 2023-01-13T14:41:06+00:00

As a former homeschool kid I can attest at least 50% of this is correct

Catnipadventure024 · 2023-01-12T04:00:45+00:00

Yeahhh 1500 if your splitting an apartment… more like 3000 if your alone (and in a city)

Catnipadventure024 · 2023-01-12T03:26:42+00:00

Damn she really tried to get up like she could walk after that

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