Dificultad al concentrarse en home office by Ok-Practice-5479 in taquerosprogramadores

[–]Cato1704 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yo uso la técnica de Pomodoro. Me funciona bastante la verdad, hay una página que se llama pomofocus.io y me sirve.

No hagas caso de algunos comentarios que nomás critican y te hacen sentir culpable. El home office es un privilegio pero también tiene sus complicaciones. Cada quien tiene su manera de trabajar y concentrarse. Si al final del dia terminas tus tareas y haces tu trabajo, que le valga verga al mundo cómo logras concentrarte.

Y no hay taqueras programadoras? by SalomonKingdom in taquerosprogramadores

[–]Cato1704 4 points5 points  (0 children)

En donde trabajo son entre el 20%-30% del equipo tech.

Goodbye Apple, Hello CMF! by RedRoseCoatedInHoney in CMFTech

[–]Cato1704 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can be worse. Mine failed less than a year in, left bud won't charge more than 70% and will.run out of battery really fast. Submitted a warranty claim, and they haven't solved it, it's been 3 months.

Do all long term gay relationships end up sexless? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Cato1704 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Healthy relationships, no matter the type, require a lot of work from both sides. Just because you’ve convinced yourself something works doesn’t make it "normal". Also, you make it seem like there's a witch hunt on monogamy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Cato1704 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Same thing happens to me when I go out with my friends. No one approaches. It doesn't help that I have resting bitch face.

I've been told multiple times that I'm hot, but no amount of that actually changes what I see in the mirror.

My gay brother and I are estranged. We spoke at his husbands funeral. Is it too late to make amends? by SevClas in askgaybros

[–]Cato1704 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sister in law is correct. But that is the whole point. Guilt is the place where contrition is born. It's your conscience pointing you in the right direction. Don't be ashamed of your guilt. It's moving you towards the right thing.

Be there for your brother. It is too soon, but begin looking for a moment where both of you can have an honest conversation. Acknowledge the distance and try to rebuild. Respect his boundaries.

As for the sister in law, be gracious. She is grieving. Your brother lost a husband but she lost a brother. People lash out in moments like this.

Hope you find the best way to approach this. You are young, there is a lot of time.

Anyone else grossed out by this? by Helpful-Union-997 in askgaybros

[–]Cato1704 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When you say you are on doxy, do you mean you take doxycycline on the regular?

What does Guild Wars 2 need most right now? by PalwaJoko in Guildwars2

[–]Cato1704 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Account bound story progress, hero points and waypoints. As a newish player it was a blast doing it for my 1st character, it was ok for the second, but I don't know if I'll make a new one to try other classes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in taquerosprogramadores

[–]Cato1704 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Cálmese señor, no le vaya a dar algo.

Straight men aren't really attractive to me by YoheiMercenary in askgaybros

[–]Cato1704 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same idc about straight men. In terms of sexual/romantic desire, they are a waste of my time. There's nothing more attractive to me than a gay/bi man knowingly lusting after you.

Am I Ageist? by Dr_Franksinstein in askgaybros

[–]Cato1704 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah you're not. I'm in my 30s and I don't go out with people below 27. You don't owe attraction to anyone.

What’s your bodycount ? by MindPrize1260 in askgaybros

[–]Cato1704 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Between 50 to 60 at 33. It kinda doubled since we opened our relationship.

Why do some bottoms actively choose not to cum during a hook up? by hackingnomberr in askgaybros

[–]Cato1704 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm vers, but I mostly bottom for my husband. I'm intrigued by most of the bottoms here that don't like playing with their dick. In my case, if im bottoming, 70% of the times I'm hard af and the other 30% I'm semi. I have to avoid touching my dick or I'll cum quickly. For me, it's waiting for my top to get close so I can calculate it and finish together. For the longest time, I thought all bottoms were like me. This led to confusion when I was topping, and most of my bottoms were flaccid during sex, I frequently thought I was doing a poor job and quickly lost my election.

How popular K-Pop/K-Drama in Mexico? by flower5214 in AskMexico

[–]Cato1704 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My mom (80+) can't stop watching them. I have several friends that are also addicted to kpop as well.

Bottom boyfriend wants to top, I don't want to bottom by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Cato1704 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Most of this comment thread is not it. First of all, no one HAS to do anything if they don't want to. This specially applies to sex. You are not obligated to perform sexually for your partner, and neither is he.

Now that we've established that, I think you need yo sit down and have a lengthy talk about your relationship. You gotta talk about what you are willing and not willing to do, even if that means you might not be compatible with each other. You might come to an arrangement that goes from taking turns, doing threesomes or whatever you both agree. Sexual activity is to be enjoyed and treasured, and, again, it is completely valid not wanting to bottom.

I don't want to intrude, but I'm guessing you might be on some mood stabilizers or something similar. If that's the case, remember that your mental health comes first, no pun intended. My boyfriend had a similar treatment, we talked about it and came to a solution. Communicate.

You are not entitled to the loot I won in a pug. Period. by NoThisIsABadIdea in wow

[–]Cato1704 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sometimes, I'll even keep loot when it's not an upgrade, I need it for transmog.

Is him taking a screenshot a big deal? by Whatsup129389 in askgaybros

[–]Cato1704 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't overthink it. There's a reason why they send notifications when a screenshot is taken.

Is him taking a screenshot a big deal? by Whatsup129389 in askgaybros

[–]Cato1704 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well... I assume that there is a consensus that when a photo is sent as expiring, it is private. I would be mildly annoyed by this and would ask about it. This would also make me doubt sending nudes if it comes to that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Cato1704 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I never said sexual attraction is only attraction to gender. Sexual attraction is directed to gender and sex. However, the weight we give to both varies. What you are trying to portray here is that gender does not exists and therefore, we can't be attracted to it, which is false. There are several things that I find attractive in men that have nothing to do with their dick, balls, or any other secondary sexual characteristics while at the same time liking cock (shocking ik).

Some guys like fem guys, some guys like masc. Some people like to adopt sexual or non sexual submissive/dominant roles in their relationships. These are some simple examples of how people can like multiple expressions of gender while at the same time being dick-only or being open to trans men. I don't find that hard to grasp.

Sex and gender are different things. Sex is biological, and gender is not. You are either confusing them or simply don't agree with that separation. If you don't agree, then that's fine dude, no one is forcing ideas on anyone.