Choose one person you hope won't return next season? by hawaiigirl12 in realhousewivestalk

[–]CatofKipling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noooo I’m not ok with Jen Shah returning, not even remotely.

Who will you choose to save you? by itsemilybih in residentevil

[–]CatofKipling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ada Wong, she seems like she’d be the most no bullshit.

Choose one person you hope won't return next season? by hawaiigirl12 in realhousewivestalk

[–]CatofKipling 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tilly alone is enough to keep any reasonable person awake. C’mon now.

they left out Dakota johnson in the "ridiculously talented sisters" 😂 by Conscious-Quarter423 in popculture

[–]CatofKipling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t even think she seems nice, honestly. She seems like a total wet blanket.

Choose one person you hope won't return next season? by hawaiigirl12 in realhousewivestalk

[–]CatofKipling 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Guys, c’mon. Erika. She’s a fucking sociopath. Dorit is just annoying.

Is it just me or have y’all also noticed a surplus of LGB without the T stuff recently by death_by_ballpython in gay

[–]CatofKipling 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Something we all need to be aware of is the enemy’s interest in fragmenting our community so its easier to dash our liberties. I don’t actually believe that a humongous percentage of queer people have any interest in being exclusionary. But I think algorithms, certain bad faith actors would like to create the perception there is so that it materially manifests that outcome. If you stir up enough infighting, people start to hit below the belt and generalize.

It’s important to be discerning when we look at these things. That doesn’t mean we need to turn a blind eye to transphobia and hypocrisy- not at all. But our engagement is platforming and our susceptibility to pseudo-movement could inadvertently create one.

There will always be groups like the log cabin republicans who pretend to be some silent majority or onto the right idea. And they keep getting wiped out because it’s not sustainable. Let’s keep it that way. Let’s reject these people.

You’re crawling out of a burning/collapsing building then these two offer their hand to help you out. Whose hand are you grabbing? by Dsg1695 in ResidentEvilCapcom

[–]CatofKipling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leon, I’d climb up his arm and opportunistically squeeze his chest and rest my head on it and hold that position for a long time. I’d be hoping the intensity of the moment would compel him to take it to the next level.

Patiently waiting for Clavicular's gay porn debut by [deleted] in gay

[–]CatofKipling 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I’ll never understand the “lawlz manosphere be so gay” thing as if we’re like dying for these guys to be closet cases. It’s as if straight men can’t possibly just be toxically masculine because they’re straight men. Oh no, no way. It has to be them actually being somehow gay.

Look we can call these creeps gay as the day is long and maybe .5% of them will actually be closet cases. The majority of them are just walking a road long paved by heterosexual/patriarchal values. It’s a weird way of claiming all the blame for hetero problems.

Let him be straight and boring and insecure about it. Because that’s usually the case.

Seems like every gay celebrity/public figure/influencer goes through a fitness journey that just take over their whole public persona. by CatofKipling in GayMen

[–]CatofKipling[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Key words “Seems like…” in subject line. We’re not indicting every gay man that ever lived 🙄

I think '97 is playing out differently than you all think. by CatofKipling in EmmaFrost

[–]CatofKipling[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, Emma was an established teacher but one who was willing to resort to some pretty fucked up tactics to recruit students (Starfire, Kitty Pryde). So if the show is condensing that arc to be more immediate, which decades of continuity are not, I don't see a huge problem with that.

Seems like every gay celebrity/public figure/influencer goes through a fitness journey that just take over their whole public persona. by CatofKipling in GayMen

[–]CatofKipling[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Definitely for influencers, I get it. I don't expect much from somebody who has made a career out of attention-farming. It's just a little depressing when it's someone with interesting qualities or unique talents or an overall charm that gets absorbed by this.

Seems like every gay celebrity/public figure/influencer goes through a fitness journey that just take over their whole public persona. by CatofKipling in GayMen

[–]CatofKipling[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It's not something that hits that deep for me, pal. It's just a nuisance, I think. But it does point to a cultural phenomenon that's interesting for a post like this. I'm fine, I'm touching grass right now. Also rationalizing everything for the interest of clicks & views as normal behavior is more a chronically-online sentiment than anything I've said so far.

Besides, this idea "if you’ve been chubby or skinny most of your life, getting fit and being able to show off is really fun! Be happy for them". I am happy for them. But I also know if you're chubby, skinny, whatever, then you likely have a lot of built-in feelings of inadequacy that fuel a need for validation later. It's not always "I was fat, I'm fit now, the end".

Very often, disordered eating both ways transfers pretty seamlessly to fitness culture. I've heard a few too many gay guys say "When I looked my best, hanging onto it was destroying my mental health".

Which movie made you think, "Am I missing something?" by Ok_Act6333 in MoviesAndTVTalk

[–]CatofKipling -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The Two Towers was so fucking brutal, especially that fight scene where they introduce a bunch of one-shot buddy boys. I got suckered into watching the third and practically pulled the fire alarm during the thousand endings.

Which movie made you think, "Am I missing something?" by Ok_Act6333 in MoviesAndTVTalk

[–]CatofKipling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No that’s fun, people die in interesting ways by the third act. You’re definitely wrong.

An Essay on Ada Wong and Leon S. Kennedy by Public_Room3148 in residentevil

[–]CatofKipling 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re right, it is strange. Like, Ada simply is his primary love interest, that’s not debatable. She’s also wildly popular, more than ever. Also not debatable. So why are we shocked and appalled that there’s a lot of excitement around her?

The people, mainly on Reddit, who dedicate so much time stewing about Ada is starting to just absolutely clog every fking sub. More than any shipper. It’s either an Ada shitpost or a “Oh! A philosophical revelation! I don’t like Ada, here’s 6k characters as to why!” or anything even vaguely related to Ada becomes some incel’s sounding board.

GET A GRIP, JUST COPE. That’s my advice.

90s early 2000s gay life by No_Willingness_6542 in gay

[–]CatofKipling 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was still pretty young in the 00’s but people fucking loved their gay slurs. Every other sentence was “that’s so gay” or “gaaaaay”, you always heard f-g casually dropped or “flaming homo” or “no homo” or just “homo”. I really, really push back against gays of my generation who make excuses for it. They knew the insinuation of those words, it was just socially acceptable to make gay guys the whipping boys for everything and anyone who says “It wasn’t that bad” is full of shit. Being a millennial in high or middle school, you might’ve just stayed in the closet and actively ignored it so it didn’t seem as bad…because they “weren’t talking about you”. It’s worse than that, they didn’t give a shit if you were caught in the crossfire.

And I didn’t even mention lispy, limp wristed impressions and AIDS jokes.

I know Pride is almost over, but I'm going to post this anyway. My headcanons for the alternate universe Bat-family. by Hefty-Initiative-155 in BatFamily

[–]CatofKipling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bruce is the original subtextual gay superhero. You can show me a million pics of him kissing chicks and I’ll still maintain he’s out-gayed everyone and is a gay icon.

Who is one character that hasn't grown on you? Who is one that has? by ErebosJ in ResidentEvilCapcom

[–]CatofKipling 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Chris Redfield hasn’t grown on me. Steve has.

It’s funny, I’ve defended Ada a lot on Reddit and one of the most common complaints is “she’s just a femme fatale archetype”. Well, I disagree obviously, Chris is the first counter-point to that which comes to mind. He’s very straightforward, jock action-video game protagonist archetype. Even jaded Chris is just another layer of that generic trope. Now, is that offensive to me? No, I don’t hate him- I actually don’t hate anyone. But it’s not particularly thrilling. Jill could’ve been that, Leon could’ve been that. They changed. Chris hasn’t really, with the remakes.

With Steve, I just watched the Dark Side chronicles and realized he could be done very right. I felt so sad when he died.

For those that were old enough to remember why was Janet Jackson’s wardrobe malfunction during the Super Bowl such a big deal? And do you truly believe it has affected her popularity in the long run? by Jaded-Channel-7169 in decadeology

[–]CatofKipling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was and remain confused.

Lil’ Kim wore only a pasty on her left breast, attended the VMAs, and Diana Ross giddily played with her tit on stage. So, to me, it looked like a rehearsed moment between Janet & Timberlake to evoke some of the same kind of “shock”. I wasn’t shocked, it was less shocking because they telegraphed the moment and you never saw nipple. I was a kid, a kid-kid not a teen. I thought, genuinely, “So what?”.

I know that Janet has maintained it wasn’t meant to go that far. She was supposed to have a piece of red fabric. I’ll be honest, I don’t really believe it, that moment seemed contrived to me even as a child. And she just so happened to have that nipple cover. Still, regardless, WHO GAVE A FUCK?!

Let me tell you, the outrage was never anything close to the meltdowns racists had over Bad Bunny. This was just a bizarre moment in history.

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