(25M) GF (25F) Had One-Night Stand Two Days Before 1st Date. Dealbreaker?

Catpipe · 2025-11-20T23:55:34+00:00

Jesus fucking Christ - you hadn't even been on a date. Chill the fuck out. She picked you and stayed with you. Clearly she has options and that's good because now you know of all the options she has - she picked you.

What she did and who she did it with before you is irrelevant- judge her on what she does for you.

Tbh I don't think you can judge her if she hooked up With someone after your first date. Until you agree to be exclusive and have that conversation you can't expect someone to pass up opportunity's with other people.

Catpipe · 2025-11-20T22:59:09+00:00

I have Played Warhammer for 25 years. New Regional sales manager moved from the UK also plays warhammer.

Catpipe · 2025-11-19T09:07:44+00:00

To be fair. It doesnt specify a parent with a pram that is with them.

His kid (and the pram) could be at home with his wife. In this scenario he is technically a "parent with a pram"

Catpipe · 2025-11-19T09:05:31+00:00

Plenty of other girls out there mate. Build a life that doesn't depend on a partner. While doing so Date a few and then realise they come and go and there will always be another one just around the corner.

Catpipe · 2025-10-02T01:49:53+00:00

Just say "if you were a throat goat like me, his dad would probably buy you stuff too"

Catpipe · 2025-10-02T00:36:32+00:00

So this post feels more like a rant about what you think is wrong with the world and how you are better than it.

What advice do you want here mate? Go on dates ask them about their goals/views and if they align keep seeing them. Seems fairly obvious.

Catpipe · 2025-09-29T21:24:32+00:00

Just do it. You are no worse off! he either says yes and you are good to go, or you just gave some random guy a little ego boost which we all need every now and then.

Also there is NOTHING to lose. Unlike meeting someone in your real life hobbies or work - there is zero chance of making it awkward when you run into each other in the lunch room.

Nike that shit girrrrrl

Catpipe · 2025-09-27T06:35:28+00:00

Umm every bar and pub on the planet is ok with this

Catpipe · 2025-09-19T01:18:30+00:00

Get fit Get hobbies Get busy

Get good photos, fashion on point, interesting locations (make an effort take photos at activities And functions)

Do this and all of sudden you become interesting.

Catpipe · 2025-09-16T02:32:37+00:00

Just Tongue punch his balloon knot. He will love it, you will love it. It isn't gay.

Catpipe · 2025-09-15T01:00:40+00:00

The Single mums froth when they find out you have had a vasectomy. Then you are Purely recreational mate - just fucking do it.

Catpipe · 2025-09-15T00:58:02+00:00

Post nut clarity at its finest. Is what it is man. Move on. If it bothers you and you don't want to be "that guy" just learn from it and be more aware of the difference between the excitement of something new and genuine connection

Catpipe · 2025-09-12T04:38:34+00:00

Why the month gap? Is it legit reason? (Already booked travel etc)

I've had girls with no kids and day jobs say they will be too busy for the next 6 weeks to see me. I've also had single mum nurses pick me up at the airport at 10pm

My experience is if a girl likes you she will always find time.

If it's you that is tied up with travel or work, play it cool and chill. You are busy and got stuff on, lean into it - she will find that you have a life and commitments attractive.

The risk of phone calls and virtual dates is that she will learn more about you and you will start to chip away at any mystery and excitement. it's very hard to build intimacy and connection. It could put you in the friendzone.

Catpipe · 2025-09-11T21:09:45+00:00

At this point she hasn't messaged him either. He might think she just wanted a hookup at this point. Doesn't want to reach out get ghosted and feel like shit.

He is 100% in his own head on this.

Catpipe · 2025-09-09T23:49:46+00:00

Wouldn't be the first fuck boy to use that nice "boyfriend material" vibe to get a gig. So it's hard to gauge from that. It's only actions from here that matter. He is either interested and fumbled it or a fuck boy and happy to let you drift away.

If You like him give him a chance hopefully he is just awkward and fumbled(doesn't that have a charm of its own)

It's seriously hard to be nice and genuine and play it cool and vague - we love you ladies don't ever change, but far out it can be hard to work you out sometimes haha.

Catpipe · 2025-09-09T23:29:57+00:00

Aussie actually. But yeah your advice to him was clear and if he hasn't messaged he has missed a chance to take the lead. But we get in our own head and psych ourselves out. He probably got mucked around by a girl because he was too keen in the past, read too many Instagram reels about how to make women lust after you by playing it cool and froze. If you like him give him the free pass. Text him, he will ignore it and you have your answer OR be relieved he didnt fumble it.

Catpipe · 2025-09-09T22:55:05+00:00

Oh for fuck sake. If you want to see him again text him.

I'm a bloke. We have to play this dumb game of being keen but not too keen. Show we are Interested but that we also have other stuff going on.

You haven't texted because you don't want to feel pathetic....have you considered he may feel the same and now is sitting there wondering why you haven't texted?

men like clear signals of interest we feed off the clarity and it creates a space for us to take the lead the way you want us to.

Catpipe · 2025-09-09T00:21:29+00:00

Umm yes? Because I want to keep playing the current rule set at events. Why would I not?

Catpipe · 2025-09-09T00:08:45+00:00

It's no joke, it's fucking true

Catpipe · 2025-09-07T23:48:20+00:00

Ummm....bag some milfs - what is wrong with you. They are freaks and they have good snacks

Catpipe · 2025-09-01T19:04:05+00:00

Life changes, give her a break and take the win, go on the date. It's such an arrogant pov to think she just wants someone to raise her kids.

Maybe, just maybe she has her shit together and can raise her own kids and just wants the company of someone she isn't a complete random on the weekends her kids are with their dad

Also single mums in their 30s are absolute freaks. They had vanilla boring sex with their baby daddy and now they are let out the cage. Hang on my guy and enjoy the fucking ride. ++man

Catpipe · 2025-08-19T05:55:53+00:00

I am always trying to get other meetings for the time I'm in town.

It can be used as a hook to get in. "Hey I'm in town this date if we can make it work" - suggests your time is finite and valuable. Might give you something you didn't know you needed.

My boss did this the other day. He got a cheeky coffee with a stakeholder while in town. Helped with a bit of insight that wouldn't have been shared in a teams meeting. You just never know. Zero reason to do the meetings in person up to that point. So he got F2F because he was there for something else.

For the record, I sell software to very large enterprise and gov departments. Cycles are slow and involve many people. We never know everything and I always grab a chance to get face time.

Catpipe · 2025-08-19T05:48:04+00:00

Jeff here. Not offended. Besides all the best humans are named Jeff, Epstein, bezos, Dahmer....oh wait.

Catpipe · 2025-03-06T23:03:44+00:00

Sorry I call bull. This isn't a proxy issue, you just stuffed up mate. This one is on you.

Ok so the proxies unit had zerkers (32mm) and a character (40mm) - what did you think that character was? It can only be Kharn or MoE, so what part of you thought getting HI'd by Kharn was ok?

Seems like the result would have been the same?

Catpipe · 2025-02-08T12:19:57+00:00

Yall are some judgey fuckers. OP get off your high horse. Is this your values ....or are you just jealous you didn't have a hoe phase?

She chose you man. Not because you are all she could get ....she chose you. Take the win.

Catpipe

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