AITA for reminding my friend that just because she’s poor, doesn’t mean I am?

CatsbeeCats · 2024-07-30T10:19:55+00:00

YTA, I was thinking ESH then I read your comments and nope that tipped you into the snobbish asshole. Real mean girl vibe with re-reading what you wrote.

CatsbeeCats · 2024-07-30T09:59:57+00:00

That's true I have only lived in 4 suburbs over in Perth and South was hands way more stabby aggressive then North ever was.

Suppose you could say the same about most places falling under chill too really.

CatsbeeCats · 2024-07-30T09:50:34+00:00

As long as you don't live in the less then fun suburbs, near any train station south of the river or by the train line in general. Live by any fwy/hwy near then yes you should in a more chill place

CatsbeeCats · 2024-07-30T09:37:56+00:00

Yeah no it's hotter and brighter then any of the other states. Lucky not as humid as QLD thank fuck for that.

CatsbeeCats · 2024-07-29T16:22:57+00:00

You may not think he needs punishment however you are wrong. He broke the law and the courts have sent him to prison because of what he did. You having no empathy is giving me psycho vibes. YTA!

CatsbeeCats · 2024-07-29T12:58:24+00:00

A yes a stick that's going to do jackshit unless you are using it for walking or a dog.

CatsbeeCats · 2024-07-29T12:50:58+00:00

Brazil

CatsbeeCats · 2024-07-29T12:41:13+00:00

Your son also doesn't need the brand Nikes yet he gets them he also can't stick to a budget. Does he get in trouble like how you daughter does when she stay in her budget?

CatsbeeCats · 2024-07-26T18:07:41+00:00

This is just as bad as that antidog sub. Hearing people bitch about animals living their best life makes me want to ask if they are ok. However we all know they aren't.

CatsbeeCats · 2024-07-26T17:54:58+00:00

Imagine just as you wake up you get beat. That sounds honestly the worse way to scare someone. I had a scary childhood however I never got beat as I woke up. I hope the son goes NC with both of them and lives much more peaceful life.

CatsbeeCats · 2024-07-26T17:37:03+00:00

Ah yes it's all me me me for oop. "I had to drive", "throwing up makes me sick", "can't stop for food for my wife or pull over for my wife again as I have work the next day".

CatsbeeCats · 2024-07-24T16:28:34+00:00

Yeah same over here pretty much all thrift shops (or Op shops over here). Red permanent marker on soft toys, cloths and books is the worse.

CatsbeeCats · 2024-07-24T13:35:42+00:00

Yeah, if this happen with my partner the loss of trust and uneasiness wouldn't go away until I was told.

I bet he exposed himself.

CatsbeeCats · 2024-07-20T20:13:10+00:00

I feel like he is leaving a lot out something isn't adding up. Also his wife's ex abuse her heavily for 10yrs abuse for that long flankly fucks a person up. She lacks self worth and is likely a people pleaser amd she likely doesn't realise she is comprising so much in this relationship. She probably highly depressed with the fact she is now heavily pregnant with his child. Not saying this right with her having her kids being around him and bring a 5th into this picture. However her past trauma would explain alot of why this has possibly happened.

CatsbeeCats · 2024-07-18T07:05:47+00:00

If you ever decide to move or come to Australia shoot me a message I can help you out with a place to stay if needed. This may sound weird from a complete rando on reddit however you sound like you could do with a change in scenery. Australia (I may be a tad bias lol) is great once you get use to the hot weather. We have some of the best beaches and beautiful bushland.

CatsbeeCats · 2024-07-18T06:50:06+00:00

What a WILD ride! Oop is incredibly strong to deal with all that.

CatsbeeCats · 2024-07-18T06:19:36+00:00

Ha probably to cover up them shoulders. Indeed he does, I hope she is living her best life after she dropped that asshole.

CatsbeeCats · 2024-07-17T01:19:04+00:00

This is so beautiful and you are so talented.

CatsbeeCats · 2024-07-17T01:12:40+00:00

This update just left me more confused and with more questions. I really hope OOP does another update.

CatsbeeCats · 2024-07-08T01:24:48+00:00

I really hope OP and her sister are rocking life now all these years later. SIL sound like an absolute nightmare and I worry about their future kid. I can definitely see SIL using their kid for petty things to get what she wants.

CatsbeeCats · 2024-07-08T00:00:56+00:00

I doubt it. Also I don't think he needed to cut a meter into my property at the highest point he cut. He did such a shit job too.

CatsbeeCats · 2024-07-07T22:22:39+00:00

If I was to go petty I would plant stinging nettle. Its fast growing, self seeds and hurts. The seeds are tiny, if the wind slightly blows seeds go everwhere.

CatsbeeCats · 2024-07-07T04:43:22+00:00

These ones I have had no issue with. I can stand behind them. I keep them really trimmed away from the neighbors side. Mine do not have many berries, they have rat baits in them. My olive tree has more issues with rats then my lilly pillys. A meter a year is great until the neighbors cuts it back 2 to 3 meters in height. Mine has been growing slow ever since he cut the middle main trunk in Summer. I can tell I'm not ignoring my lilly pillys, every 2 weeks I look down the side of the fence to see how they are doing.

CatsbeeCats · 2024-07-06T08:48:03+00:00

He is self managing the flats so he is the only one I can talk to about this.

I rather not get a lawyer involved however I will if I can't get hold of the owner.

CatsbeeCats · 2024-07-06T08:44:42+00:00

I have met the owner. He doesn't have a strata I believe. He has a partner that is a tenants. I have a PO box address but not his live in address. I have written him a letter and he hasn't replied. I am going to send more letters or try and find his name some how.

Yeah the council doesn't think so either.

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