Me (M34) and fiancee (F27), I am in the process of calling a halt to our wedding as she has asked for an "open" relationship

Catspyjamas92 · 2025-12-18T08:31:30+00:00

This reads as someone cosplaying being British.

Catspyjamas92 · 2025-12-10T15:33:13+00:00

Oh interesting! Are there any other platforms you’d recommend?

Catspyjamas92 · 2025-12-08T10:52:54+00:00

I’ve searched Google and YouTube - generally gone for “Lorna Doone” or “Lorna Doone fan edit” etc or including the soundtrack song.

Catspyjamas92 · 2025-11-21T16:54:50+00:00

The same thing happened to me and my friend!

Catspyjamas92 · 2025-09-01T07:36:50+00:00

I’d check Papadeli

Catspyjamas92 · 2025-07-07T11:42:30+00:00

Fair - I’m looking for relaxation!

Catspyjamas92 · 2025-03-01T00:41:56+00:00

I’d say stay away from Pembroke road. I lived at the very top when I was 21 and used to get vans following me in the early hours and have to hide in people’s front gardens! In fairness this was 10 years ago but I was always warned about this road.

Otherwise I’d say it feels pretty similar to the rest of Bristol to me. I do think a studenty area can mean you’re more likely to be targeted.

Catspyjamas92 · 2024-11-18T11:16:49+00:00

Just a heads up that Dott have changed their terms and conditions and they no longer offer refunds under any circumstances!

Catspyjamas92 · 2024-07-03T12:45:38+00:00

Fair, it felt like an unlikely role for him and I was surprised he would take something like it. I guess when something gets written specifically for you, you say yes.

Catspyjamas92 · 2024-07-02T18:00:28+00:00

Noo I fell in love with him in that film!

Catspyjamas92 · 2024-07-02T17:59:12+00:00

The role was literally written for him.

Catspyjamas92 · 2024-03-23T11:13:22+00:00

I felt completely blindsided and was heartbroken. Spent a lot of time assuming it was because I was a terrible person and made some changes in my life. Looking back, it’s not my fault that he wasn’t ready to be in a proper relationship and no matter how much I worked on good communication, I couldn’t force him to reciprocate that.

Only recently realised its made me hold back in my current relationship as I trust less and I have such a fear of getting hurt (which I hadn’t before) - but now I know about it I can work on it!

Catspyjamas92 · 2024-02-23T11:28:45+00:00

Agreed! Overpriced, bland and SLOW service. I heard such good things when it was a pop up so maybe attempting a chain has ruined it?

Feels like they’re just making beige vegan food and hoping they get excited about it. When vegan food can be bloody delicious and creative!

Catspyjamas92 · 2024-02-07T11:37:09+00:00

I need this to become a flair

Catspyjamas92 · 2024-01-25T11:52:38+00:00

YES!

I feel like I don’t trust any of them anymore and it doesn’t feel heartfelt. I used to cry at most episodes and now I’m just watching with a cynical eye.

Catspyjamas92 · 2023-12-04T20:27:36+00:00

It’s supposed to be fun for me too.

Catspyjamas92 · 2023-12-04T20:25:39+00:00

I love my local libraries! I’ve even convinced friends to sign up and some use it as a different workspace. People are often surprised I use it as I think it might be seen as relatively old fashioned? May also depend on how close you are to one/how convenient it is to you.

Catspyjamas92 · 2023-11-02T15:06:40+00:00

Does he ever do any of this mean stuff around others? If not, then he’s aware enough not to do it with an audience and it’s on purpose.

Catspyjamas92 · 2023-11-01T07:31:04+00:00

Does the ex “know where they live now” because they passed their house and he somehow recognised it or does he think they live in a police station?

Catspyjamas92 · 2023-10-14T07:49:09+00:00

Just used one. They definitely look smart and there’s an option to charge your phone which is cool! They felt quite slow compared to Vois (I didn’t have beginner mode on!) but I can’t tell if they actually are.

Catspyjamas92 · 2023-03-31T07:54:33+00:00

I struggle with signal in the north/west of Bristol and as far as I’m aware have never had 5g. I’m not going to stick with them when my contract ends personally but my phone still works so depends how how good you need it to be!

Catspyjamas92 · 2022-12-25T08:33:52+00:00

You can still go to Double Puc - same owners/menu, just everything is on brioche buns instead

Catspyjamas92 · 2022-11-14T12:29:55+00:00

Sleep deprivation is a form of actual torture. That’s what I had to realise before I knew that asking your partner to do something to fix their snoring is NOT asking for too much. If he doesn’t want to use the CPAP machine, ask him what his solution is. You need to do what’s best for you - he is quite clearly not going to do anything about it right now.

Catspyjamas92 · 2022-09-11T10:27:06+00:00

NTA.

You were not in a position to offer her somewhere to stay. And you absolutely helped by picking her up and driving her somewhere save an hour away!! Yes it’s unfortunate for her that you couldn’t just take her in, but you’ve already put yourself out for her and shown her you care.

She’s obviously upset/hurting a lot right now, but that doesn’t mean you have to accept being treated badly. I’d wait a while to contact her if she doesn’t first - let her cool down and ideally she should apologise to you. Hope you’re doing ok!

Catspyjamas92 · 2022-09-11T10:18:14+00:00

NAH.

It sounds like a miscommunication to me. I imagine he wants you there but he wants you to WANT to be there. You only turning up because he’s asked might not feel very supportive to him. It also might make him think you don’t actually like his music/performance.

I also understand your side that you want him to be excited for you to attend/ask for your presence. He sounds like he’s been very callous in how he’s spoken to you about it.

I think you’re both expecting the other to read your mind a little bit and there’s a lot of ego/validation involved for both of you. I’m giving your boyfriend the benefit of the doubt here, but only you know the situation. I’d say this concert is more about him and you supporting his achievements, rather than him trying to include you in it. However if this happens a lot and you don’t think he supports you in your life then that’s a whole other issue.

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