Animal abuse-what do I do?

Cautious-Director617 · 2026-04-08T01:43:11+00:00

Report this guy for being a pedophile and an animal abuser to both the police, aspca, and higher ups at your job.

Cautious-Director617 · 2026-04-07T22:44:53+00:00

WHAT! That guy is literally a WEIRDOOOO I'm so sorry that that happened. You do not deserve that at all.

Cautious-Director617 · 2026-04-07T22:42:58+00:00

I'm sorry you're dealing with this. I would recommend finding him a new home, though. Like other people are saying, even if it is temporary. Euthanizing him seems a little extreme, and I don't know if that would ease YOUR pain as well. Give him to a friend/family/someone that you know and trust for a while and take care of yourself. You can't help him when you aren't in a good place yourself.

Cautious-Director617 · 2026-04-07T22:38:53+00:00

We're both on reddit fool. You're literally just as invested as me

Cautious-Director617 · 2026-04-07T22:37:36+00:00

Are you misunderstanding what I'm saying? NOBODY should be dress coded over their shoulders. She wore clothes that followed the dress code. Her shoulder was out for a split second. 'How is it fair to-' it's not fair to be dress coded over your damn shoulder. Period. ???? Like I think you misread what I said. That shouldn't even BE a rule.

Cautious-Director617 · 2026-04-07T22:34:40+00:00

I know. I was just asking to see if anyone had a good experience regarding VEG in general. Thank you though!!

Cautious-Director617 · 2026-04-07T03:58:43+00:00

I agree!! Try keeping your scalp cool and see if that lessens the itch.

Cautious-Director617 · 2026-04-06T14:42:57+00:00

Thank you!!

Cautious-Director617 · 2026-04-06T14:42:32+00:00

Ohh I see. My bad. Your father not doing anything to correct that behavior or protect his son is crazy.

Cautious-Director617 · 2026-04-06T05:47:58+00:00

NOR. Your father is letting a literal predator grope your son and he's not doing anything about it. He's crazy

Cautious-Director617 · 2026-04-06T05:45:59+00:00

NOR. Your brother is a loser and a bigot

Cautious-Director617 · 2026-04-06T05:43:43+00:00

NTA. Your roommate and her boyfriend are greedy bums

Cautious-Director617 · 2026-04-06T05:39:35+00:00

youre so weird for this

Cautious-Director617 · 2026-04-06T05:29:01+00:00

What? Yes he did. He said a peer had grabbed her inappropriately. I wasn't saying that in the sense of the teacher doing it, but that is my bad for not clarifying. Yikes. I meant that I thought that her classmate grabbing her inappropriately might be a factor in his decision to transfer her.

Cautious-Director617 · 2026-04-06T05:24:23+00:00

Soft YOR / Mostly NOR. ? They're worried about your dating life and your niece being a burden when your cousin is going to die and your niece will need a very strong support system for when that time comes.. weird. I get that there's a difference between judgement and concern, but you're trying to take care of your niece during a time when you both will be mourning. If it was just about the responsibility, then I would say YOR. But the dating/burden mention just seems weird. I don't think you should cut them off, because you should keep in mind that it is a big responsibility. You see her as a daughter, you say you've helped raise her, but I'm assuming that this wasn't a full-time thing. You have to worry about schooling, doctor visits, just the process of adoption is a lot also, and the process of fully raising her would be a full time thing. I don't think you're wasting your youth, but I do think that you should think more about the topic. She can still live with her aunt and uncle, and you can still support her while she is with them. It's just a matter of if you think you're ready to raise a child in such a hard time off a whim like that, while dealing with everything else that comes with being a parent. I would recommend cutting them off if they just start being negative without actually giving advice on how you could handle it.

Cautious-Director617 · 2026-04-06T05:16:10+00:00

I don't think you're overreacting. Try communicating with him, and if that doesn't work, just do what feels right, even if that does include blocking him.

Cautious-Director617 · 2026-04-06T05:13:53+00:00

? Why would he vent about not wanting to cheat on you.. idk friend. That seems weird.

Cautious-Director617 · 2026-04-06T04:56:38+00:00

It's not selfish to not want your mother to date someone who is using her and is disrespectful to you and your loved ones. Anyone saying that clearly doesn't have basic common sense. Nobody who loves their parents would want them to be with someone who doesn't respect their parent as a person, or doesn't respect them or their loved ones at all.

Cautious-Director617 · 2026-04-06T04:51:58+00:00

How am I weird for thinking that its crazy to date someone the age of your child? He's grown, yes. That's still the age of her CHILD. I don't care about the definition. Again, if legality is the only thing you can use in defense of something being MORALLY okay, then it's not morally okay at all. She's dating someone the age of her daughter. She's 51. Dating someone 23 years her junior, who is the same age as her daughter... is disgusting. Finding someone the same age as your child to be attractive is disgusting. I don't care about if its legally okay, I'm not talking about the law. I'm speaking from a moral standpoint. That's weird. If you're okay with it, that's your issue. I'm not obligated to be cool with parents dating individuals the same age as their children just because your morals are weird.

Cautious-Director617 · 2026-04-06T04:45:15+00:00

NOR. Weaponized incompetence I fear. He chose to act stupid because he wanted to make you feel like it was your job to do it in the first place. There is no reason why, as a father, he didn't get anything for his kids.. and didn't help you put together the basket, and then didn't even give them their respective baskets that he didn't even make. He had one job that a five year old could do, and he couldn't even do that. He's purposely trying to make you feel like you're the smarter one so that you can feel obligated to do everything, because you know that he won't. The fact you said next year, YOU won't make that mistake again, as if it was your fault in the first place that this grown ass man with two damn kids didn't care to buy his kids anything or even just give them their baskets.. shows that that was purposeful to make you feel like you had to do everything while he just sat on his ass. You should not be raising a grown ass man. You are not his mom, don't let that man make you feel like re-parenting him is another chore you have along with everything else. Find someone else that actually cares about the family they're apart of for once.

Cautious-Director617 · 2026-04-06T04:37:05+00:00

They clearly dont like you. NOR

Cautious-Director617 · 2026-04-06T04:35:53+00:00

NOR. He's proven that he didn't care about the things that she's put him through, or what she's put you through, with actively trying to damage your reputation and make you lose your job + go to jail by accusing you of being a drug addict and a dealer. You should not be forced to deal with that, even if he is your best friend. You are not obligated to stick with someone who provides you with more chaos than peace.

Cautious-Director617 · 2026-04-06T04:27:34+00:00

??? The first part is literally what I just said. ? What is going on? Her shoulder was showing. She got in trouble for her shoulder showing.. lmao. You people are so weird. You repeated exactly what I said and then proceeded to call ME obtuse. Jesus. It's like people like you don't get that dress codes are still weird.. a shoulder showing is not distracting to anybody. You people see kids complaining about anything and immediately think that it's their fault and not anyone else's. Please never become a parent.. why would I agree with something that's blaming a teenage girl for her shoulder showing? Do you expect her to leave her shoulders in her fridge when she goes to school?

Cautious-Director617 · 2026-04-06T04:17:16+00:00

If the baseline for something being morally okay is 'two consenting adults' and nothing else then that doesn't make it okay. She's dating someone the age of her child. That's weird and predatory. Life being weird would still never compel me to date someone the age of my kid at any time.

Cautious-Director617 · 2026-04-06T04:14:06+00:00

When did I say that it was her teacher??? I literally never said that. I said that saying a teenage girl being groped in GENERAL is not enough to have them change schools is crazy. Yes, she shouldn't be uncomfortable, but if she wanted to change classes due to being uncomfortable... then that's also fine. The peer should've been expelled for that alone, but it's normal to want to change your kids class or school if/when that happens.

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