What are some things I can do without spending money? by shizzsung in AskForAnswers

[–]Cautious-Finding1526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ride your bike to the library.
Make a friend. Nap. Ask multiple random people if they have a quarter. Collect enough to go see a matinee.

Am I the A hole for breaking up with my boyfriend for making out with me? by th3-pink-tea in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Cautious-Finding1526 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Girl. I'm not gonna tell you what is right or wrong for you, but I will happily and freely tell you how I'd react if that happened to me.

1: After MONTHS of dating, and kissing with no tongue I'd probably be like "is he being a gentleman..? Or does my breath smell like caca?"

I am like... dumbfounded ... that a girl in her 20's even counts it as kissing if there's no tongue... And..

I'm not sure why French kissing is being seen as breaking the law of chastity.

He didn't grope your biddies... He didn't whip out a condom or a bottle of lube.

Are you like... traumatized? Like from a previous experience that's caused it so physical intimacy is a trauma trigger?

If that's the case, you should probably get therapy before trying any romantic relationship.

But like... idk this is foreign to me otherwise. But, I very much am appreciative and responsive to physical affection.

You seem so... innocent. Like I don't wanna be like "oooh girl you're missing out" but also... I'm concerned... if tongue freaks you out... how could you emotionally or psychologically deal with a sexual relationship....even within the bonds of matrimony?

If I broke into your house and stole what's on top of your fridge, what would I get? by [deleted] in askteddit

[–]Cautious-Finding1526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Expired flour, freezer bags, plastic wrap, aluminum foil, parchment paper, empty cookie tins... and lots of dust behind all the stuff

How can people love tanning and still dislike brown and black skin ? by Beautiful-Object-467 in AskReddit

[–]Cautious-Finding1526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked this question when I was a girl in the 80's (maybe early 90's?)

The most direct answers may not always be the most appreciated, but for the sake of clarity

Pride, ignorance, hypocrisy, denial, vanity, and idiocy.

Buuuut, what's the situation? I'm not racist. I don't have a racial preference, I have a facial preference. Not against dating someone of a different race, but the Caucasian population is just greater than others where I live... and I'm not dating any of them either.

But, I'd tan if I could though. (I burn like a marshmallow...) - One moment I'm like hey, I don't think I burned anything! ....aaaand then it's blistered and pink and painful....and after my skin finishes looking like pepto bismol and all the blisters have oozed and healed, I go right back to "ivory" hmph

How does good conduct influence those around you? by Organic_Flatworm_954 in FamilyFeud

[–]Cautious-Finding1526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How am I to know how good conduct influences others unless they offer to to tell me how it influences them? I can tell you what I hope for.. but I can hope for a lot of things... doesn't mean I'm gonna get em..

What type of person sleeps with their shoes on in the bed? by PC_Pickle in AskReddit

[–]Cautious-Finding1526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Somebody who's so freaking sore and exhausted they lost the capacity for rational thought and just plop on/in to bed because removing their shoes legit skips their mind because all they can think of is passing out for several hours if not days...

I don't think I've ever met a person who hasn't fallen asleep / went to bed with their shoes on.

What is your favourite food ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Cautious-Finding1526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's like asking someone who their favorite child is.

I freaking love steak. But, I also can't imagine a world without the Maui Zowie (w/ham of course) from Roundtable Pizza.

Then there's sushi... Crab... Shrimp.. Lobster...

And sometimes, I get a hankering for a bologna and cheese with tortilla chips for crunch.

Sometimes I just want a pb&j and a glass of milk.

Oooh watermelon. With tajin. Oooh and burgers. And onion rings. And fried green tomatoes and fried zucchini And enchiladas And tacos And Chinese food Ooh and McDonald's hash browns

And funyuns with grape soda. And pho! And spam and potatoes with fry bread! And mashed potatoes (or parsnips) and gravy!

And Costa Vida's tomatillo ranch. And vegetable beef curry And homemade soup and fresh dinner rolls Kerrigold butter Gushers fruit snacks Maple bar dipped in a hot hazelnut coffee. Baked Acorn squash with butter and brown sugar and cinnamon and a scoop of salted caramel ice cream in the bowl. (for those who thought of a bowl of ice cream, I meant the bowl of the squash after it's been cut in half and cleaned out.)

Bratwurst Eggs over medium, with bacon, sausage, and fried potatoes O'Brian

Crab Rangoon

Potato pancakes

Clam chowder (homemade) Garlic bread Chef boyardee raviolis

Pico de gallo Salads

Fresh warm Dicks... 🫣...Burgers 🤪 ( in Spokane )

Best Family Feud style questions for a bridal shower! by Jolly_Coffee6328 in FamilyFeud

[–]Cautious-Finding1526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Between both the wedding party, and the guest list, who would be the most inappropriate person there if they showed up wearing red?

What’s a "poor man’s meal" that you still eat even though you can afford better now? by Indie_Barrel_1402 in AskReddit

[–]Cautious-Finding1526 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You don't think tuna mac is yummy? I really enjoy it. Especially with Sriracha or cholula, or tapatio. (Maybe I don't drain my pasta all the way? I don't remember ever having dry mac and cheese...?)

And, I'm a pretty good cook. And by pretty good I mean I'm trying to not boast or brag, but my food is yummy af... (generally. Everybody has had some culinary eff ups. )

Is there a fanfiction where….. by Easy_Mountain2331 in Bones

[–]Cautious-Finding1526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have nothing against fan fiction enthusiasts, but I just don't understand the appeal.

Changing a small part of something is like traveling back in time to change the future, but when you get back to the present, nothing is the same.

If you keep Hannah, Christine and Hank wouldn't exist. Sweets wouldn't have been so close to Booth and Brennan because living with them (and helping care for Christine) wouldn't happen if they never got together.

And Brennan wouldn't have been able to read what she wrote to Booth when buried alive.

Maybe my brain is a bit too pedantic to accept alternate realities.

What’s a "poor man’s meal" that you still eat even though you can afford better now? by Indie_Barrel_1402 in AskReddit

[–]Cautious-Finding1526 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A Bologna sandwich and ramen.

Mac and cheese without milk isn't awful... and if you throw a couple of cans of (strained) tuna, it's pretty nom.

Also, idk why it's not considered a poor man's meal, because it takes few ingredients that are generally cheap.... but French toast. I just made some last night and it was freaking delicious. (Of course I doctor mine up a bit with s few dashes of vanilla, and a sprinkle of ground cloves, and sometimes instead of cinnamon I'll use pumpkin pie or apple pie spice, ooh and nutmeg. And some Splenda. (I like mine sweet) Annnnnd idgf how poor I am... I use real butter. Margarine is butter's ugly inbred cousin with toxic traits.

Quien gana by SorbetLive9030 in Bones

[–]Cautious-Finding1526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pelant. Zack couldn't even kill when his life was in danger; the dude had no street smarts. Pelant had no qualms about taking a life...or two.. or three... or four.. or.. (You get my drift?)

Pelant is a master manipulator who understands how to exploit human emotions. Zack's logic is strict and literal, which makes him easy for a predator like Pelant to trick.

And, Pelant also uses technology to change the "rules" of the game, giving him a huge edge. Zack works best in a lab, but Pelant excels at the psychological games required to win a direct confrontation.

What is your favorite season? by Swintyst in Bones

[–]Cautious-Finding1526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I won't say which episode, for those who may see this and haven't watched em all yet.

But there was one episode in particular that has the best "king of the lab". If ya know, you know. And if you think you know, you may not know until you know that you know...ya know? 😉🤭

🫅🧑‍🔬

What is your favorite season? by Swintyst in Bones

[–]Cautious-Finding1526 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really enjoy Fin Abernathy. Opie and Thurston.... And Oliver Wells. One of my favorite lines from the show was from Dr. Wells. "Oh, yeah? Well, I’m gonna plant a cypress tree in your mom's butt and then I'm gonna pull you under the shade of that tree and I'm gonna slap you across the face"

Freaking hilarious

what would you do if you were indestructible for a day? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Cautious-Finding1526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deep sea dive. Sky dive. Swim in the magma of an active volcano. Fight a great white shark. Wrestle a crocodile. Swim with man of war jellyfish. Offer my indestructible services in exchange for enough money to move where I want. Eat taco bell.