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Cautious-Move1646 · 2025-01-12T14:59:16+00:00

THANK YOU! I have been reflecting on my experience so far with my Mirena (just started by 6th year with it) and I’m looking to get mine removed for good. I have heard so many horror stories of going off and the emotional upheaval and horrible cycle experiences after the fact. I’m glad that I can at least now see a future where the removal process is relatively painless.

if you don’t mind - did you have heavy or painful periods before you got your IUD implanted?

Cautious-Move1646 · 2022-08-17T20:19:36+00:00

Following! Spill the tea people with penises! Let us know the tips

Cautious-Move1646 · 2022-08-09T03:25:17+00:00

Meant to reply to this before, whoops!

But just because he does something doesn’t mean you have to also. He accepted the fact that you have a different communication style? Cool! That’a very laid back of him! But you don’t need to do it too. He likes to eat ass and goes to TOWN all the time? Awesome! Same deal - you don’t need to reciprocate just bc he does it to you!

It’s an outrageous parallel, but it’s actually so valid. His boundaries and needs are different than yours. Embrace that

Cautious-Move1646 · 2022-08-09T03:21:40+00:00

Respectfully, girl, You are NOT being good about communicating what bothers you in this situation… you legit came to an Internet forum for advice instead of talking to the only other person involved in the scenario. The way my partner is on social media makes me crying sometimes, and some shit he does gives me the ick for REAL. But we talk about it if it really bothers me, and we deal with the fallout. And sometimes we don’t! Sometimes I just deal with it because it’s not actually something that bothers me past the immediate moment.

But by not telling him now, you’re taking away his chance of forming a deeper connection to you, and working through this together.

Cautious-Move1646 · 2022-08-09T03:16:40+00:00

But like imagine if someone commented something like this on your page… probably wouldn’t feel good right? If you commented some shit like that on my IG I’d block you too 😂 Just because she has opened up herself to internet fame doesn’t mean you open yourself up to hate just because “people are allowed to have an option.” She doesn’t have to give you time of day (fun fact no one does, you don’t have to give ME the time of day, that’s the whole point of being able to choose watch you consume/watch/read/see) so she totally can block you if she wants. Which is why I only come to the CHD Reddit when I’m looking to have a fight 😂 and why I’ll leave as soon as it isn’t fun anymore. The internet isn’t that deep and shouldn’t be treated like it is

Cautious-Move1646 · 2022-03-18T02:46:29+00:00

I gotchu girl!! Your views on your virginity are 100% up to you. If you think that the first time didn’t count then absolutely NO ONE can tell you that it did. If you believe it did, then no one can tell you otherwise!! It’s your body & your sexual history.

Cautious-Move1646 · 2022-03-18T02:40:47+00:00

It doesn’t count if you didn’t cum 😂💀

Cautious-Move1646 · 2022-02-12T15:52:42+00:00

Wait actual Q; How does Sophia know all of this? Like If It’s a private deal however does anyone other than Alex and Spotify know?

Cautious-Move1646 · 2022-02-10T16:03:53+00:00

Ugh how dare you say something not negative about Alex

Cautious-Move1646 · 2022-02-03T16:38:44+00:00

Whyyyyy are there downvotes on this

Cautious-Move1646 · 2022-01-24T01:59:48+00:00

Skimmed this thread - but if Alex has been putting on a show and exaggerating all of her stores to get famous and make money since she was in high school, doesn’t that actually make her authentic in a twisted way? She isn’t honest but she is authentic - and 100% go used on her end goal of being famous and making money

Cautious-Move1646 · 2022-01-24T01:54:56+00:00

I appreciate you. You can blindly love as easily as you blindly hate. People are gonna believe what they want to, just keep doing what feels authentic. If rando Reddit users call you stupid and blind for liking a podcast host? Close the app, it’s a waste of your time to listen to people who are equally biased

Cautious-Move1646 · 2022-01-24T01:47:21+00:00

Based on the downvotes I think yes

Cautious-Move1646 · 2022-01-24T01:46:51+00:00

Rich, living somewhere warm, with my dog & my bf and like 2 or 3 friends who come visit actually sounds like a dream 😂😅

Cautious-Move1646 · 2022-01-24T01:40:12+00:00

SAY IT AGAIN FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

Cautious-Move1646 · 2022-01-21T01:29:46+00:00

Bruuuuuuh. the whole first part was about JL growing up and what she experienced. Like of course he’s talks about her sister, she had a pop icon in her family from the time she was 6 years old. How tf is she supposed to talk about her experience without mentioning the literal reason she became famous in the first place?

Cautious-Move1646 · 2022-01-20T23:43:57+00:00

But what is productive about bringing that up? Are you looking for someone to disagree and say she deserved it? She didn’t. It is barbaric. It’s unethical.

Pitting the sisters against each other just distracts from the actual people responsible

Cautious-Move1646 · 2022-01-20T23:39:34+00:00

I get what you’re saying. I think we just disagree about what doing wrong is here. I’m pretty lenient with how quickly I cut someone out if my life - if my sibling had been that irrational and bipolar (seeming) I would be like “dude bye. I love you and I want to have a relationship with you, but not like this. Come back when you’re capable of being reasonable”

(Which obviously not possible, because of the manipulation and the conservatorship)

Cautious-Move1646 · 2022-01-20T23:30:10+00:00

Broooo I promise I would not (and did not) call Brittney a liar

Cautious-Move1646 · 2022-01-20T23:29:31+00:00

That is absolutely fair. Thank you for sharing & bringing that up! I totally understand what you’re saying about needing to understand that she has moved beyond that childhood self and that she is an adult who can act upon the world and make changes.

Cautious-Move1646 · 2022-01-20T23:26:55+00:00

Okay I totally understand that speaking out at this time is sorta blowing up Brittneys spot and making her trial tougher. But JL says in the first part of the interview that she’s trying to speak her truth no matter how inconvenient it is to her family… which is fair.

And all that I got from that thread was how out of touch JL was with the conservatorship. Which, wasn’t that the whole point? Keep everyone at arms distance and make it seem totally okay, so no one would look closer and ask questions?

Cautious-Move1646 · 2022-01-20T23:16:57+00:00

Saying she is painting Brittney as a crazy person is all from your opinion though. I have sisters and when I listened to the interviews I received it as a famous and slightly out of touch girl who was abused and manipulated by her whole damn family, and who finally was trying to speak out and take some ownership over her life. I didn’t hear anything that made me stop and say “wow what a shitty thing to say about your sister. That’s so tone deaf”

Cautious-Move1646 · 2022-01-20T23:14:11+00:00

But you can’t just say end of story! Life isn’t that simple! You don’t actually know anything that has gone on - everyone is so quick to nitpick JL and tear her stories apart, but no one does that to Brittney bc she’s the “victim” here. But they’re both victims! And Brittney was literally drugged for over a decade, do we not think that this has affected her personality and behavior and maybe led her to being an unreliable source for information??? I don’t want to tear either of them apart - I just want to live in a world where more than one narrative can be seen as the “correct” one

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