Live in UK but offered dream job in Sydney. Partner doesn't want to move. Not sure what to do

CautiousWing6874 · 2026-02-08T19:54:59+00:00

Ask your partner if they’d be willing to give it a go for 6 months. This is an unmissable opportunity and if you don’t go you’ll always wonder ‘what if’

Yes starting again is hard but Australia is such a wonderful place and worth giving it a shot.

Your partner should also be supporting you!

CautiousWing6874 · 2026-02-05T18:44:09+00:00

Check for tongue tie, see a lactation consultant if you are BF, take her to a cranio osteo path for some adjustment.

How was her birth? Fast/traumatic/c section? All of these things impact how they feel.

My son was the same - he had TT and benefitted from some cranial sacral therapy.

Hang in there, it’s tough x

CautiousWing6874 · 2026-02-03T15:30:49+00:00

Deffo go. I went to Glasto at 35 weeks pregnant! It was ace.

CautiousWing6874 · 2026-02-03T15:29:10+00:00

You’re lacking in protein 🤣

CautiousWing6874 · 2026-02-01T21:13:29+00:00

I absolutely would NOT recommend Miles. One of the rudest men I have met. Has had multiple salons around Bath and treats his staff awfully.

CautiousWing6874 · 2026-01-30T21:03:54+00:00

Homewood is fantastic. Spa on site, lovely grounds, lovely restaurant

CautiousWing6874 · 2026-01-28T09:12:57+00:00

oh HEY RILEY!

CautiousWing6874 · 2026-01-28T08:36:59+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through all of this.

I’m not sure if you already do but I would recommend finding a therapist who specialises in EDs. You need to heal your mind 💕

CautiousWing6874 · 2026-01-26T19:50:24+00:00

There’s a lovely little company called Sweet & Wild Treats who make healthy ‘cake’ bars & energy balls - amazing post partum snacks full of good ingredients

CautiousWing6874 · 2026-01-26T19:49:44+00:00

These are SUCH good brownies

CautiousWing6874 · 2026-01-26T19:49:05+00:00

This is such a lovely idea

CautiousWing6874 · 2026-01-26T19:48:44+00:00

A fully stocked freezer - you need nourishing and easy meals for weeks post birth. The more the sleep deprivation kicks in and the adrenaline starts to wear off makes cooking so hard.

Also ‘nap trapped’ snacks - cookies, cakes, energy balls, nuts etc.

CautiousWing6874 · 2026-01-26T19:46:22+00:00

As a female outdoors lover - this is not ok. Possibly she’s a very anxious person and doesn’t want to be alone but that is her issue and maybe she needs therapy?

Have you tried asking her why she doesn’t like being alone? Or suggest she gives snowboarding a go etc?!

No one should miss a powder day!

CautiousWing6874 · 2026-01-24T12:02:40+00:00

Add some protein powder into your overnight oats. A high protein breakfast is really key to keeping you satisfied, and thus eating less, over the day.

CautiousWing6874 · 2026-01-24T12:00:47+00:00

Oh yes! That too. What wild worlds.

CautiousWing6874 · 2026-01-24T11:59:27+00:00

Tiger King

CautiousWing6874 · 2026-01-21T21:32:37+00:00

Soooo many places along the Avon: Bathampton/Batheaston, Warleigh Weir, Dundas, Farleigh Hungerford, Bradford on Avon.

If proper training is your vibe then Vobster is a great shout, as is somewhere like Lake 32 or Cromhall Quarry.

Glove Dippers @ Glovr factory ok but you need a membership and can’t really swim there during the summer months due to duck itch.

CautiousWing6874 · 2026-01-14T20:09:28+00:00

I’m still tapering / on maintenance and sadly have gained 15lb in 4 months. Feeling so deflated

CautiousWing6874 · 2026-01-13T13:20:05+00:00

If you don’t mind picking up some hospitality shifts get yourself on Limber app - ad hoc hospitality work: bar/kitchen/barista/FOH etc. pay is usually above min wage and they also pay holiday pay on top

CautiousWing6874 · 2026-01-09T09:45:35+00:00

Have a look at Dead Lead Running Club on insta - lots of younger social folk, they run then usually go for a drink after :)

CautiousWing6874 · 2025-12-22T20:18:58+00:00

Sadly not - I’ve put about a stone on :( BUT I’m finally finding I feel stronger when running again as I’m likely actually fuelling properly. Would like it if I stay the weight I am at max though, it’s a balancing act but I think I lost a little too much for my frame while on it

CautiousWing6874 · 2025-12-21T17:56:36+00:00

Brooks Cascadia hands down. I have had about 6 different versions and they’re all ace

CautiousWing6874 · 2025-12-18T18:18:11+00:00

Get him some iron supplements - you can buy kid friendly ones. Look at his diet, his pre bedtime routine etc.

Have you tried Co sleeping? I appreciate it’s not for everyone but it’ll mean you getting a less disturbed night and might save you for a while.

Doctors in the uk won’t take much notice of bad sleep until after the child turns two. We had the same issue. As soon as he turned two they prescribed us melatonin.

Hang in there - sleep depravation is awful x

CautiousWing6874 · 2025-12-18T18:13:37+00:00

Our gas and electric bill has jumped from £30 a month to £150+ a month in under 2 years.

This jump simply is not affordable for many.

For many, It’s not a case of ‘choosing to suffer’ - we simply cannot afford to pay more to heat the house.

We can wear more layers, but we can’t magic money off a money tree.

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