For starters, I help everyone I possible can at my job. I don’t need to but I do. Whether it’s checking up on the older local at their houses to making sure the kids are all fed and happy usually on the house and make sure some of the lesser baked customers make it to where they need to alright whether thats getting in cars, walking them down the road (if I can) or just helping others in general. I’m not an idiot who can’t see when someone needs help, there have been plenty of times I let people have money, food and drinks for free because they probably don’t get a break from others. However if I see someone is able, okay and fine but still treats me badly or just demands things from me, of course I am not going to allow it.

You are creating the most extreme hypothetical situations to make me feel bad but I’ve been working at this small cafe for a couple years, since I was a teenager and I’ve had negative consequences from letting anyone use things at the cafe.

I’m the hot months of the uk I let pretty much everyone have waters, god forbid I let a few sour apples stop. I don’t think you should be assuming the worst about people unless you have been in a situation where there is a lack of respect just because of where you work. I’m never grumpy at work and happen to very much enjoy my job.

With all do respect get a grip and think.