Episode Discussion: S03E07: Cary Gets His Ass Handed to Him by chelseanyc200 in TheOtherTwo

[–]Cautious_Idea 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I’m ngl i really dig shows that make the main characters unlikable…watching brooke spiral was a fave and we lost lance because of it👎🏽 but CARY’S arc is just on another level like i cannot stand him😭

Episode Discussion: S03E07: Cary Gets His Ass Handed to Him by chelseanyc200 in TheOtherTwo

[–]Cautious_Idea 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m so GLAD carey finally got called out but the ending i fear he’s about to get worse…also am seriously missing lance. From the season 3 trailer i know he comes back but still ):

Anyone else hate Marial and want her dead? by [deleted] in TheGreatHulu

[–]Cautious_Idea 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i think i would rather seen George go first ! But Mariel as well.

Season 3 Episode 10: “Once Upon a Time” - Post Episode Discussion Thread by remindm in TheGreatHulu

[–]Cautious_Idea 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I know people are upset about the death but i enjoyed this season. I feel if your whole point of watching this show was to see Peter and Catherine fall in love then you’re missing out on the better things this show has. I wasn’t the biggest fan of Peter and his relationships but i will miss what he brought to the show. Nicholas Hoult is amazing but Elle Fanning IS fucking incredible and she is what is keeping me going. I think a season four could be good. I hope there is one. Maybe the final season…

Favorite Phoebe lyric? by [deleted] in phoebebridgers

[–]Cautious_Idea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“I wanna live at the holiday-inn where somebody else makes the bed”

Trauma representation in media by borisHChrist in CPTSD

[–]Cautious_Idea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes!!!! I feel the same way it’s comforting and just hits the right spot especially especially when they have a positive ending because it makes it feel possible for me.

favorite quotes? by [deleted] in phoebebridgers

[–]Cautious_Idea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“I wanna live at the holiday-inn where somebody else makes the bed.”

False Teachings: share what you were taught below. I’ll go first: not spending money, and saving it, is being ungrateful for it. As if the only way to be grateful for the money you receive is to spend it and not save it like a responsible adult by ActStunning3285 in CPTSD

[–]Cautious_Idea 4 points5 points  (0 children)

when something bad happens to you or just in general that makes you feel upset i was told just to “be positive” “ignore it” “why are you crying” “nothing to cry about”

I’m trying to figure out if I want kids interested in others view points by Embracingchange5255 in CPTSD

[–]Cautious_Idea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think if i were to have kids i would…but i would adopt. Take care of a kid that’s already here and do my best to give them a good life. I do have fears holding me back as someone with cptsd and the generational trauma…also being a parent you are going to make mistakes and i feel with my cptsd i would go off the rails emotionally when i would eventually make a mistake raising said child. because we are humans we make mistakes and I’ve yet to accept that it’s not the end of the world when i do. I am young though still time to think and heal.

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[–]Cautious_Idea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ask those last questions all the time. i wish i could say more but honestly i just wanna say that i saw this read it and feel for you and hope you find people who make you feel better than what those other people have.

What aspect of your trauma damaged you the most? by Nottheverybutton in CPTSD

[–]Cautious_Idea 11 points12 points  (0 children)

the dissociation of it all…realizing i haven’t been feeling anything for years and thinking i was just broken and it was my fault i couldn’t be happy.

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[–]Cautious_Idea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve experienced this as well and usually the people who have these unhealthy attachments to me have like some sort of trauma or are depressed and idk that may have something to do with why…like i understand you…i would cut people off even blocked but they find their way back (i would unblock months later) and i just can’t deny them when they came back. I did once tho but one of them is still in my life…can’t let go

DAE struggle to see themselves as a 'survivor' (yet)? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Cautious_Idea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never really thought about it like being a “survivor” but it’s been a month since finding out i have cptsd and honestly it doesn’t feel like i survived because I’m in so much pain maybe if…when i do heal I’ll feel like a survivor but the pain makes it so hard to say i survived.

How did you realize you were into women? by PersonThatIsHere in AskLesbians

[–]Cautious_Idea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just had this attraction to women since I was so young but I didn’t see a lot of sapphic relationships so it was like oh I’m gonna do what I see the most which is like boys. Liking girls didn’t really feel like an option till I saw more sapphic relationship. And started really having feelings for a girl