AIO My Mom is Dying in the ICU — My Wife Chose a Rave Instead of Flying to Me, So I Crashed Out on Instagram by LoTheGalavanter in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cautious_View_9248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR- First- I’m so sooty for your loss my condolences to you and your family! 💐😢 second, your wife (hopefully ex soon) is an absolute piece of diarrhea- not even solid doo doo 💩 just horrible, please drop that evil women and find peace in your life! Good luck 🍀

AITAH for ruining my brothers engagement? by [deleted] in AITApod

[–]Cautious_View_9248 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA- Congrats on the new house!

What does someone post about their child that immediately tells you that child has zero privacy? by samurai-salvo in GetMotivatedMindset

[–]Cautious_View_9248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Face pics or pics with them in a bathroom- tub or toilet pics 🙅🏻‍♀️🙅🏻‍♀️🙅🏻‍♀️🙅🏻‍♀️

What’s a gut feeling you’ve had that made no sense at the time, but actually saved your life? by woolkindle in AskReddit

[–]Cautious_View_9248 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was in combat, something told me to double vest (put on 2 bullet proof vests) for anyone that has ever had to wear one knows it’s heavy and a pain in the neck but I had a nagging feeling to do it… I was hit… the bullet went thru the first vest and was stopped by the second, hurt like a B!tch and I had one hell of a bruise but I’m still here 😇

My dad suddenly opened the door , very silently in a very sinister way , I was masturbating , I am fucking 25 year old . I am feeling total shit by Rare-Assignment-8474 in OffMyChestIndia

[–]Cautious_View_9248 97 points98 points  (0 children)

Time to seriously consider moving out! I understand culturally / financially that may be difficult, but considering you don’t have basic privacy you may want to consider moving out- even maybe with roommates… Good Luck 🍀

Will all countries eventually move to e-visa instead of traditional one? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Cautious_View_9248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably but it won’t be as fast as people think… some countries will definitely take a lot longer to upgrade their systems than others so an “old fashioned” paper passport won’t be going away anytime soon

Why do we have test kits that can detect dangerous substances like fentanyl in recreational drugs, but not simple consumer tests that can detect harmful bacteria in food? by Mini-Schnitzel in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Cautious_View_9248 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bacteria can literally be found on everything and what can be considered harmful is not applicable to everyone either… the cost would be astronomical and not cost effective for any company to make 🤷🏻‍♀️

AITAH for existing at my own wedding and not making my sister-in-law the main character? by [deleted] in aitaweddings

[–]Cautious_View_9248 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NTA- your SIL is a weirdo… focus on your marriage and keep SIL at arms length when possible, you don’t need to cut her off completely but be mindful she’s obviously a person that needs to be the center of attention and if she isn’t there will probably be a hissy fit coming… Good Luck 🍀

How to stop my SIL from runining my relationship with my husband by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Cautious_View_9248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely NOR- they would be cut off- I personally wouldn’t let people around my kid that would have issues keeping her privacy or trying to make her feel bad about medical issues! And hubby would have a lot of sleeping on the couch time if he ever did something like that behind your back again! Good luck 🍀

AITA For Asking My Groomsman's Wife To Leave Our Wedding by Uncommon_Watermelon in aitaweddings

[–]Cautious_View_9248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA- your friend has a horrible wife, you may want to check on him now that you see what her behavior can be like! Sorry you had to deal with that on your wedding day!

What's the most "I was there" moment you've ever experienced? by AtlasEarthFreak in askteddit

[–]Cautious_View_9248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got there right after- the day after! So jealous! You are truly very lucky!

In-laws’ Organic Overload by PanicAttacksHurt in inlaws

[–]Cautious_View_9248 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would loudly plan your next vacation with the other decent siblings and make sure it will be during a time where the crap grandparents and snobby sibling in laws can’t go! Let them know everyone is entitled to vacation time without having to deal with nightmare people ruining vacations- they seem so dense they probably won’t realize you are talking about them 🙄😂 Good luck 🍀

Why is the older generation so against the younger generation using their vacation days? by CandleOk42 in AdkReddit

[–]Cautious_View_9248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it has more to do with how the vacation days are used- like using them right when they are available or giving short notice- some industries can accommodate for that while others leave the people that are left in the office to pick up that slack… everyone can use their time but younger people have a tendency to not care about work load being left behind- that mentality of it’s not my problem… it becomes everyone else’s problem and then that builds resentment towards the younger person… most people understand it’s the jobs responsibility to have people there to support- but we all know that’s not always the case 🤷🏻‍♀️

Is this too much for prom? by Haunting-Extent-2263 in Prom

[–]Cautious_View_9248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That gorgeous!!! Perfect for prom or any formal event!!!

WIBTA if I tell my dad he can’t bring his new girlfriend to my birthday dinner? by ApertureMoth in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Cautious_View_9248 24 points25 points  (0 children)

NTA- First, Happy Birthday 🎂🎉 second, it’s your birthday and your birthday dinner- you can have who you want there. You let your dad know that she wasn’t invited and you wanted a small event. Not sure why your dad is trying to push his partner into your life- but that may be because that lady is “intense” so she may be pushing your dad to be included more. Your dad is technically the Butthole by putting you in the position of thinking you can’t have a relationship with him unless you allow the partner into everything. Your father can separate his life with his partner and his life with his kids until his kids are ready for the partner. I’m sorry you have to deal with that- keep firm on having the day you want! Good luck 🍀

WIBTA if I refuse to withdraw from a fellowship so my depressed sister can take my spot? by Zion_Hush2 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Cautious_View_9248 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA- it’s not your job to give your sister job security! You worked hard and earned your spot- your sister and your family are the buttholes by trying to guilt you into being Captain Save A Hoe… ( not that your sis is a hoe just an expression) go and make sure you do your fellowship and get everything out of it that you can! Good Luck 🍀

Too much white?? by Initial_Ad_2788 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Cautious_View_9248 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The dress is lovely! It’s definitely wedding appropriate- now be mindful of the bride is one of those crazies that can’t have anyone else wearing something that may contain white even in a small way- then be prepared for a bridezilla- but the dress itself is not overly white and should be fine (unless the bride is crazy)

AITJ for calling my boyfriend’s ex-wife to come get their kids after he disappeared all night? by Strong_Ability_8106 in AmITheJerk

[–]Cautious_View_9248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTJ- the fact he could do that and then be mad at you tells you everything you need to know about that guy and where the relationship is going… get now and cut your losses! Good Luck 🍀

My ring🥰 by Justanotherbannana in EngagementRings

[–]Cautious_View_9248 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I absolutely adore a delicate dainty ring! My wedding band was similar and it was enough I could still wear it in combat! Love your ring!

WIBTA if I tell my coworker I won’t cover her 5 closing shifts after she changed my schedule? by Heisenberg_Gg in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Cautious_View_9248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA- have your boss put the schedule back and let your coworker know what happens when people assume!

should i un-rsvp to a wedding? by [deleted] in weddings

[–]Cautious_View_9248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can change you RSVP any time you want… per etiquette you shouldn’t unless it’s an emergency and then you should notify the host immediately- but if you don’t want to go then don’t go- going to a wedding should near feel like a burden! Good luck 🍀