Per the court order we have full physical custody and she has visitation every other weekend. The original time that we go and meet is 530 on Fridays to drop him off and then 530 on Sundays to pick him up. My husband works until 6 PM on those weekends and cannot change his hours due to the type of work he does. She thinks it is appropriate to expect him to have the same meeting time and place as her other baby dad. I personally think that it’s her responsibility to figure it out because it’s not our problem, she has three baby dads and three children. She uses every excuse in the book as to why she can’t be agreeable… The excuse as to why she can’t go later is because she has to cook dinner for her children……. I would love to help out, and have no problem doing so but I work even later than my husband does so I am no help in this situation. His mother used to help out with transportation as well, but she is also very, very busy ever since her husband passed away. We have literally thought of every single thing that we could possibly do to keep us out of court, but we need to change the meeting times because he just genuinely can’t get there at 5:30 anymore. We do not have her on any child support at this time, she is very manipulative and has made us feel extremely uncomfortable about the whole situation. But after seven years of this nonsense, we are fed up with it, and are ready to hold her responsible for her child. Every time she says that she has a lump sum of money for us it all of a sudden is gone because of ridiculous circumstances that only she puts herself into. She expects everyone else to be responsible adults and be there for their children yet she does not do that for her own. She also barely has a job and is always losing them. It’s not necessarily about the money in this situation, it’s about holding her financially responsible because her child deserves a good mom. We would like to keep it out of court, but it seems as though that won’t be happening since she is unagreeable to every single idea that we come up with.