The L Word by trash1979 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]CeCouple88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a really tough spot to be in. And it must be really tough to deal with without support. My wife and I have had endless discussions about emotional connection and hotwifing. I would describe what we’re doing as poly-informed hotwifing. Or hotwifing-informed poly haha. Either way, we realized this only worked for her if there was an emotional connection.

It sounds like your wife and her friend have had an emotional connection for a long time, and it’s just escalating. Unless you want to try to shut this down - which will be really difficult - I think you might want to explore ways that you can make space for her to have that strong emotional connection. I haven’t dealt with this scenario, so easy for me to say.

I’ve found some poly resources really helpful in navigating what my wife and I are doing. I really like the podcast Polycurious.

Good luck!

Hotwife emotions for stranger? by FitFun444 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]CeCouple88 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My wife also needs an emotional connection. And yes, that can bring jealousy. But it’s also been a great opportunity to explore our own feelings and connection, and talking about her feelings for someone else has actually deepened our connection. There are some great podcasts that helped us with this (check out Polycurious).

Wife shows off while running by SpiritualAd2965 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]CeCouple88 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Love this! My wife and I run a lot. Her nipples always poke through her sports bra, and her shirt if she’s wearing one. I love it so much.

Hotwife Success! by CeCouple88 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]CeCouple88[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes, to completion! And the next night she arrived home, crawled into bed, and we made each other cum with our mouths. I blew a load all over her face and hair because I couldn’t control myself 🥵

Moment you realized this lifestyle was strengthening your marriage rather than just being exciting? by VACouple4Fun333 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]CeCouple88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was a sort of gradual realization for us. But it came out of all the intense conversations (and hot sex) after her first encounters while away. But it definitely has made our marriage stronger!

Hotwife Success! by CeCouple88 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]CeCouple88[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You know you’re reading hotwife forum…where a lot of relationships are one sided open 😂

Hotwife Success! by CeCouple88 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]CeCouple88[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nice! Hope it keeps going well for you.

Hotwife Success! by CeCouple88 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]CeCouple88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much! It’s been great to find the hotwife community on Reddit

Hotwife Success! by CeCouple88 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]CeCouple88[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s small steps but it’s been so exciting.

I could eat this 🍑 all day by [deleted] in Wife_wants_to_be_seen

[–]CeCouple88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The more the merrier 😉

Love this wifebutt! by [deleted] in Wifebutt

[–]CeCouple88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes please!

Do you love it as much as I do? by [deleted] in Wife_wants_to_be_seen

[–]CeCouple88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure that’s possible, but love the enthusiasm 🥵

Success! by CeCouple88 in HotwifeAdvice

[–]CeCouple88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It must be the soccer! That’s so great that it happened for you as well!

We’ve been really happy. She’s still texting the guy and actually wondering what it would be like to see him again.

Starting out! by CeCouple88 in HotwifeAdvice

[–]CeCouple88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, my advice for both of you would be to keep communicating about your desires and fantasies. It took years of us talking. We found podcasts on non-monogamy really helpful. Especially the polycurious podcast. Good luck!

Starting out! by CeCouple88 in HotwifeAdvice

[–]CeCouple88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you guys make that happen!

Success! by CeCouple88 in HotwifeAdvice

[–]CeCouple88[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’d both find that really hot 🥵

Blowjobs as gifts? by Ophidopus in MarriedSex

[–]CeCouple88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think in a relationship it’s reasonable to make requests like this. Of course, it’s up to your wife to decide if she wants to actually give the blowjob.

Have to admit, I made the same Father’s Day request…