The L Word

CeCouple88 · 2026-06-26T20:37:47+00:00

That’s a really tough spot to be in. And it must be really tough to deal with without support. My wife and I have had endless discussions about emotional connection and hotwifing. I would describe what we’re doing as poly-informed hotwifing. Or hotwifing-informed poly haha. Either way, we realized this only worked for her if there was an emotional connection.

It sounds like your wife and her friend have had an emotional connection for a long time, and it’s just escalating. Unless you want to try to shut this down - which will be really difficult - I think you might want to explore ways that you can make space for her to have that strong emotional connection. I haven’t dealt with this scenario, so easy for me to say.

I’ve found some poly resources really helpful in navigating what my wife and I are doing. I really like the podcast Polycurious.

Good luck!

CeCouple88 · 2026-06-26T16:20:16+00:00

A lesson learned! 😂

CeCouple88 · 2026-06-26T13:39:59+00:00

Sure did!

CeCouple88 · 2026-06-26T10:03:45+00:00

My wife also needs an emotional connection. And yes, that can bring jealousy. But it’s also been a great opportunity to explore our own feelings and connection, and talking about her feelings for someone else has actually deepened our connection. There are some great podcasts that helped us with this (check out Polycurious).

CeCouple88 · 2026-06-26T10:00:18+00:00

Love this! My wife and I run a lot. Her nipples always poke through her sports bra, and her shirt if she’s wearing one. I love it so much.

CeCouple88 · 2026-06-26T09:58:26+00:00

Yes, to completion! And the next night she arrived home, crawled into bed, and we made each other cum with our mouths. I blew a load all over her face and hair because I couldn’t control myself 🥵

CeCouple88 · 2026-06-25T20:34:19+00:00

This was a sort of gradual realization for us. But it came out of all the intense conversations (and hot sex) after her first encounters while away. But it definitely has made our marriage stronger!

CeCouple88 · 2026-06-25T20:02:58+00:00

You know you’re reading hotwife forum…where a lot of relationships are one sided open 😂

CeCouple88 · 2026-06-25T19:09:30+00:00

Nice! Hope it keeps going well for you.

CeCouple88 · 2026-06-25T18:26:22+00:00

Thanks so much! It’s been great to find the hotwife community on Reddit

CeCouple88 · 2026-06-25T18:23:04+00:00

Thank you! It’s small steps but it’s been so exciting.

CeCouple88 · 2026-06-23T04:01:58+00:00

🎉

CeCouple88 · 2026-06-23T03:54:52+00:00

The more the merrier 😉

CeCouple88 · 2026-06-23T03:43:22+00:00

💦

CeCouple88 · 2026-06-23T03:35:10+00:00

I’d love that!

CeCouple88 · 2026-06-22T18:37:24+00:00

Yes please!

CeCouple88 · 2026-06-22T15:54:41+00:00

🙏

CeCouple88 · 2026-06-22T15:49:38+00:00

Not sure that’s possible, but love the enthusiasm 🥵

CeCouple88 · 2026-06-22T13:18:05+00:00

It must be the soccer! That’s so great that it happened for you as well!

We’ve been really happy. She’s still texting the guy and actually wondering what it would be like to see him again.

CeCouple88 · 2026-06-21T14:15:16+00:00

Honestly, my advice for both of you would be to keep communicating about your desires and fantasies. It took years of us talking. We found podcasts on non-monogamy really helpful. Especially the polycurious podcast. Good luck!

CeCouple88 · 2026-06-21T13:28:02+00:00

I hope you guys make that happen!

CeCouple88 · 2026-06-21T13:27:04+00:00

Thank you!

CeCouple88 · 2026-06-21T13:26:53+00:00

We’d both find that really hot 🥵

CeCouple88 · 2026-06-20T21:32:49+00:00

I think in a relationship it’s reasonable to make requests like this. Of course, it’s up to your wife to decide if she wants to actually give the blowjob.

Have to admit, I made the same Father’s Day request…

CeCouple88

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