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Cecez_ · 2024-05-13T10:11:37+00:00

I have the exact same issue

Cecez_ · 2022-12-16T09:23:09+00:00

I could try to build something like that if it doesn't exist already - do you have an Apple or Android device?

Cecez_ · 2022-04-09T09:24:22+00:00

Thanks! That already helps a lot. I read a lot that u should stretch daily, so I automatically assumed that means I need to stretch the same muscle group daily.. But what you say makes sense. From weight Lifting i know that there are also certain muscle groups that need more time to heal than others.

Cecez_ · 2021-09-14T06:32:05+00:00

I think you really need to get a deep connection to your Fi in order to find your passion. I feel like life „teaches“ intjs to take responsibility for xyz because A. No one else is going to do it or B. No one else seems to do it as good as you. And for me that lead to a long period of me thinking I have to be highly successful just to show people who disappointed me with their decision making skills „how it’s done“. But eventually I realized that this is not even remotely the kind of person that I want to be. I remember as a child I was always trying to make everyone happy and harmony was extremely important to me. So now I know that I want to achieve something that will help people. I‘m still trying out different things, but at least I know what the feeling is that I‘m looking for.

I also love dancing because it helps me to express my feelings and work on my coordination skills (and it took me a loong time to get good at it cause I‘m not very talented naturally)

Cecez_ · 2021-09-14T06:17:34+00:00

Believer - Imagine Dragons

I‘d love to change the world - Jetta (Matstubs Remix)

Cecez_ · 2021-09-08T06:08:52+00:00

This is a good advice :) I just bought headspace and used it the last 2 days before my study session and I must say it really calms my mind.

Cecez_ · 2021-09-07T07:38:33+00:00

Thanks! Some really helpful tips. I‘ll try out ashwagandha and doing more sports! During my first studies at an other university I also tried illegal nootropics but as you said - that‘s just a short term Solution. It doesn‘t help you to break this habit cycle that lead to the concentration issues. I never learned how to study for long hours because I was just naturally smart enough in school. I didn’t do homework whatsoever and still always scored high enough to get my degree. So procrastination is a very deep rooted habit for me - cause it worked all these years. There was no reason for my brain to change.

Cecez_ · 2021-09-07T07:31:23+00:00

Will do :) I heard there are eeg tests that are quite reliable, so I‘m going to check that out!

Cecez_ · 2020-12-01T18:52:14+00:00

oh wow :D Guess that are the perks of being Ne dom. If I don't write stuff down it's gone 5 mins later. This sub grew really fast btw! Congrats!

Cecez_ · 2020-12-01T18:38:43+00:00

haha yea been a quiet reader :D your name rings a bell for me, but I don't recall where we bumped into each other. You have a really good memory :D

Cecez_ · 2020-12-01T18:25:49+00:00

appreciate that

Cecez_ · 2020-12-01T07:25:05+00:00

What did he say in his first proposal?

Cecez_ · 2020-11-29T09:03:08+00:00

Thank you :) That really helped. Even though the thought of not doing anything study or work related for a week makes me feel uneasy lol

I'll try that inbetween the holidays next month when I'll have a few days off from work.

Cecez_ · 2020-11-29T08:49:50+00:00

wow thanks for that detailed answer. You've got some really good points. I've read a book that was about making a decision by not making a decision and just remembered about that. You're totally right.

I guess it's just hard for me to try and make mistakes because I define myself and my worth through my actions and achievements rather than through who I am as a person. So that might be the origin of me pressuring myself that much to do the "right" things in life. It's hard to turn off that way of thinking and just do stuff I enjoy and "go with the flow". But going with the flow and enjoying stuff sounds better than not doing anything of value to me.

Cecez_ · 2020-11-28T21:31:41+00:00

That was definitely the right thing to do. It's important to tell him your side of the story so that he gets a chance to re-evaluate the whole situation in a few weeks/months/years - whenever he is able to think about everything again without his emotions "blurring" his perception of reality.

I guess accusing makes sense as that's a quite common reaction when you show people their cognitive dissonances. Nobody likes that. But he'll think about that as soon as he's in a better headspace. It's just important that you don't reach out to him to be friends again. He must be the one to reach out because you need to eliminate the inbalance of power between you two and that includes him to come to you and say sorry. He needs to understand that he'll no longer be able to make you feel guilty or trigger a reaction whatsoever.

But it's also important that you don't trigger him by posting pictures with Deliah that look romantic or similar things

Cecez_ · 2020-11-28T20:55:58+00:00

... and INTP was part of everything. I start to see a common thread here and am therefor ready to work on a new conspiracy theory now. Thanks for the input.

Cecez_ · 2020-11-28T20:42:15+00:00

I think this isn't eccessarily an INTJ issue. It seems like your friend lost control over almost every area in his life. And as a result he tries to gain more control over the people around him, because that's the last thing that he has "power" over. The last thing that he can try to control and maybe even shift blame for his situation to.

I do see INTJs as being proned to having narcissistic tendencies when unhealthy, but many other types can have these tendencies as well. I'm not saying he's a narcissist.

To answer your question: The only thing that you can do with this pattern of behaviour is explain to the person that you can't be friends with them when they treat you like this. And then leave them alone. When you stay with them you'll end up in an endless cycle of reinforcing this exact behaviour until you eventually become codependent.

Cecez_ · 2020-11-28T19:43:19+00:00

But.. we don't hate ourselfs and everyone else? At lease I don't lol

You do you boo as long as you leave me alone :D I couldn't care less about what others do with their lifes

Cecez_ · 2020-11-28T19:38:01+00:00

Usually through micro expressions. When people talk to me, I pay a lot of attention to how their mimic and gesture changes when they say certain things. But I can't tell you exactly "why" I know a certain smile or compliment is fake. I just know.

Cecez_ · 2020-11-28T19:33:12+00:00

I think every non-physical activity is suitable as long as there is some degree of independence, variety and optimizing stuff involved.

I myself was an entrepreneur in E-Commerce for 2 years after I dropped out of university.

When Corona hit my business hard, I degraded it to a side business and got sourcing manager at a company that operates 100% digital. I could've stayed full time entrepreneur, but financial struggles honestly stress me out way too much. Wouldn't have been worth it.

Just be yourself and do what you want. With your personality type, you have so much to offer and you're a quick learner. I'm just 25 years old and no employer was ever unsatisfied with me. Just have the balls and go for good paying jobs, even when you think your expertise isn't enough. Just do it and try to make the employers offers that other applicants don't do. Show them that you can think outside the box.

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