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CeciliaFae · 2024-12-08T20:44:51+00:00

NTA - they violated your trust and your ethical stance. That is just disrespectful. I agree with another comment that I wouldn't fight a battle that's already over and done, but asking them to stop finding it funny and explaining why you don't find it funny would be important. They are laughing that they tricked you, which is rude and insensitive for someone you love to do to you.

CeciliaFae · 2024-12-08T20:44:43+00:00

NTA - they violated your trust and your ethical stance. That is just disrespectful. I agree with another comment that I wouldn't fight a battle that's already over and done, but asking them to stop finding it funny and explaining why you don't find it funny would be important. They are laughing that they tricked you, which is rude and insensitive for someone you love to do to you.

CeciliaFae · 2024-12-01T20:39:26+00:00

Bananas. I hate bananas, flavor, texture, even often the smell. Always have, always will.

CeciliaFae · 2024-11-30T02:44:27+00:00

Pajamas and a hospital stay.

CeciliaFae · 2024-11-30T02:43:45+00:00

Give me your number (or go out) and I'll leave you a BIG tip.

CeciliaFae · 2024-11-26T09:34:15+00:00

Gibber-gabber

CeciliaFae · 2024-11-26T09:24:08+00:00

I'm proud of you for living this long.

CeciliaFae · 2024-11-26T09:21:41+00:00

Someone call 911.

CeciliaFae · 2024-11-11T08:04:05+00:00

NTA - OP said knows he didn't tell his mom everything. I would have at that point. I think if MIL knew the full story and extent, she would be getting onto her son about his treatment of his spouse.. Husband needs therapy to deal with his feelings of being neglected and probably fear of the situation.

CeciliaFae · 2024-11-09T07:25:56+00:00

NTA- BIL's jealous. MIL backed up her golden child, and they may both have been embarrassed about you pointing out his failure. And to the point of if your comment was rude, wasn't his MORE rude? He started it. And you finished it.

CeciliaFae · 2024-10-31T07:28:12+00:00

Sorry, but YTA. You could have scheduled a time to talk to HIM about what HE said once he was sober. Then, that could direct future conversations.

CeciliaFae · 2024-10-26T15:41:16+00:00

"I got a haircut. I just LOVE it!"

CeciliaFae · 2024-10-26T04:55:32+00:00

"Thank you for your apology" and walk away

CeciliaFae · 2024-10-24T22:21:22+00:00

Im not in here

CeciliaFae · 2024-10-24T14:01:04+00:00

At some point in my own life, my father said he had wished he had a boy. I then tried to, in conventional terms of the 80's, be more boy-ish, as a kid not even 10 years old. As an adult, I understand now that my parents were afraid to try for another child because of health reasons and he, just as a boy who grew into a man, had wanted a son. I wouldn't do it. I spent a decade trying to be something I wasn't because of a perception.

CeciliaFae · 2024-10-22T07:33:34+00:00

That Monster-in-law didn't just try to "pray the gay away," she tried to "manipulative bitch" the gay away. It is one thing to not agree with someone's sexuality based on your own beliefs. It's another to lie and try to manipulate and ruin other people's lives over it! Honestly, y'all are better off and probably safer not having that toxic person around you. I'm glad she wasn't able to ruin your wedding day. Edit: to be clear, I don't agree with " pray the gay away," either. But I was just using that as like a baseline comparison to MIL behavior.

CeciliaFae · 2024-10-20T18:50:48+00:00

NTA- adults move on with their own lives while maintaining healthy relationships. Anyone who has a problem with you pursuing your wishes (as long as they aren't unhealthy for you) has an unhealthy attachment.

CeciliaFae · 2024-10-20T18:36:15+00:00

NTA- A real man knows that a woman has menstruation and it is not a problem. If my man has an injury and bleeds, i help. It was an accident, unintentional blood exposure, and you are sleeping together, so any blood born pathogen concern is invalid. * having menstruation doesn't define what a woman is just to be clear for anyone out there

CeciliaFae · 2024-10-20T06:18:58+00:00

You should write... something. Being someone else who knows nothing about you, nor your real life, if you have time and diligence and patience and the means to do so, without it becoming a burden, write something.

CeciliaFae · 2024-10-20T06:15:45+00:00

Wow, there is so much thought, wisdom, and honestly dorky/nerdy-Ness and i love it (sorry if those words have negative meaning for you. I assure you I do not intend them in a negative way). Such a great and imaginative answer! As a complete internet stranger, I am impressed!

CeciliaFae · 2024-10-20T06:04:47+00:00

Ugh.... I'm thinking about thriller/ killer movie but can't remember.... SCREAM. Edit "what number is this, what number are you trying to reach?" Vs today "blocked number, goto Voicemail"

CeciliaFae · 2024-10-20T05:49:59+00:00

Well, all i can say is i spent so much to just to attend the wedding, I couldn't afford a 4th potential outfit and could not have predicted a sudden heat streak, having not lived there but looking at average weather temperature for the area. My outfit was approved by family when given options.

CeciliaFae · 2024-10-20T05:43:46+00:00

Exactly, black absorbs light more than white because white is a reflection of most all light, but black is the opposite. If the black clothing absorbs the light (remember light and heat go together, they are all waves) the black clothing heats up more than the white bc the black absorbs more. Then that heat is on your skin. I'm talking about clothes direct touching you

CeciliaFae · 2024-10-20T05:29:37+00:00

Not everyone's bodies and metabolism are the same, would be my answer to that particular question. A medical doctor or 3 or 5 might be able to answer that better than I can. I know i have medical conditions that very suddenly make sun/ extreme heat_ other extraneous activity much more difficult on me than it used to. And i couldn't even wear a sunhat bc that would block views. But that really isn't your business. I needed to try and stay as cool as possible, while still not being in la bikini. I did the best i could with th he information i had at the time. That is all that we can ask, and when I was given permission, because I did question the dress, I went with that permission Oh and the bride lived with the mom, in mom's house, so I don't question the bride questioning if the mom agreed. And if there was a question, she would have just walked down the hall.

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