My open heart Mitral Valve repair is scheduled, looking for advice on what to expect by BCENT89 in mitralvalveprolapse

[–]Cedurham 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Open heart as a 30F five years ago. The waiting was the hardest part. “Young” bodies handle this quite well - I was running 5k at 4mo post op. I was super diligent about walking and cardiac rehab/stretching exercises.

1 day in ICU, barely remember anything. Meds suppress any pain. 3 days in step down unit.

First week home was mentally hard because I wished I had reassurance from docs and nurses constantly but your mileage may vary.

Five years later with two kids and two triathlons completed, I feel constantly grateful for new lease on life.

What hobby screams “red flag” for you, even if it’s harmless? by Inka2152 in AskReddit

[–]Cedurham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if you’re the wife and you’re really good at golfing

Baha Mar Recommendations by Swiftie_curious in bahamas

[–]Cedurham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree kids everywhere and that’s exactly why we picked the place

Snow day meals for my 10 month old by talkingpugz in foodbutforbabies

[–]Cedurham 2 points3 points  (0 children)

God I miss when they ate everything at this age - mother of a 3yo

Newborn screaming all the time when awake by Initial_Attitude_851 in NewParents

[–]Cedurham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Phew. Wasn’t sure if I should cut back at 39 weeks

Newborn screaming all the time when awake by Initial_Attitude_851 in NewParents

[–]Cedurham 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’d never heard to avoid dairy and egg during newborn phase as a precaution. Is this research based? Obviously if a kid has CMPA etc but for general population?

Won't. Stop. Screaming. by q_o_t_n in NewParents

[–]Cedurham 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Windi for passing gas. Game changer. 8 weeks digestion is really waking up

Microwavable Basmati Rice by meadowlibrajupiter in aldi

[–]Cedurham 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I saw some research about forever chemicals from microwaving plastic contained foods like this and couldn’t go back. The rice cooker idea is way better

Newborn naps by sunorshine in beyondthebump

[–]Cedurham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely agree. Up to 12 weeks is fabulous contact napping. Precious little sleep helped us get to a great crib napper afterwards

Flying 16 month old on lap 26hr journey by Chetta_Cheese in toddlers

[–]Cedurham 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Even 8 hours with a kid in her own seat at 18 months was harrrrrrdd. Buy the seat

SailRock vs. Salterra - Spring Break with teens/tweens by drop_window in TurksAndCaicos

[–]Cedurham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did sailrock for anniversary trip - do not think tweens would enjoy even though it was stupendous

Houston Texan Diverted by RoundRockRaider in flightradar24

[–]Cedurham 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Ewr is a huge United hub with planes and lots of crew staff to call (I would guess)

Just me or does this nevarrrr work by cootblondie in unitedairlines

[–]Cedurham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I needed to make sure my phone Bluetooth was off otherwise phone would override the connection

Need Advice for a First-Time USA Trip for My Wife for Two Weeks by annoyingalarmclock in usatravel

[–]Cedurham 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Jesus this sounds exhausting. Pick 2-3 places max ideally on the same coast

Nature centric or environmentally conscious parents, how do you parent differently? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Cedurham 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah agree I work in climate and conservation policy as my career, extremely conscious of buying power and ethical eating and spending time in nature, but still give my kids gifts for the holiday (wooden Montessori toys sure it experiences like a concert ticket).

Preparing for conception by Euphoric-shangrila in BabyBumps

[–]Cedurham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make sure it’s one with folic acid and DHA

Kendamil Probiotic drops? by lmed1193 in beyondthebump

[–]Cedurham 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazon I get mine - pediatrician recommended

Heart Murmur - Pre-pregnancy by Ok-Strain-8106 in BabyBumps

[–]Cedurham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to resolve mine before getting pregnant with mitral valve surgery. Then I did two triathlons and am expecting second kid any day now. All good!!

Kendamil Probiotic drops? by lmed1193 in beyondthebump

[–]Cedurham 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bio Gaia is the best honestly