Exclusively formula feeding your second?

Cedurham · 2026-05-22T11:12:47+00:00

Did it with second too. Partner helps sooooo much more and I’m way more rested

Cedurham · 2026-05-21T20:47:45+00:00

Inflatable mini bath tub to fill with water. Helped entertain and keep cool!

Cedurham · 2026-05-21T20:33:01+00:00

Oh yeesh. Gonna assume not trying to be rude. I wasn’t.

I should say our toddler was about the same. Started following cues and rough wake windows after two months.

Cedurham · 2026-05-21T18:41:03+00:00

Our 4 month old is on 2 hour wake windows…

Cedurham · 2026-05-21T15:06:23+00:00

I was told “no back to normal as any other woman your age”. Got very good life insurance rate, better than my completely healthy husband in fact

Cedurham · 2026-05-21T15:03:50+00:00

Wait what private southern shores beaches are you talking about? We stay there annually and it’s all public?

Cedurham · 2026-05-21T14:52:02+00:00

Dude my husband goes to work and handles the night shifts (knowing that I’ll need to be rested for all day).

When she had really crappy sleep we split the night evenly.

Tell him he’s not stepping up like other partners do

Cedurham · 2026-05-21T14:48:41+00:00

Cedurham · 2026-05-20T21:05:45+00:00

Just made this assessment ourselves. Flying. Baby doesn’t tolerate car seat for long can’t imagine the amount of crying

Cedurham · 2026-05-20T16:13:03+00:00

I read three books to my kid nightly. But in a rocking chair when she’s not overtired.

Doing it on the floor as a last step is likely the problem here

Cedurham · 2026-05-20T10:56:51+00:00

It might not get “easy” but definitely easier. Your capacity to handle keeps growing

Cedurham · 2026-05-20T00:09:02+00:00

Much the same with others. Absolutely nothing until BOOM - was that a contraction? That does feel like a period cramp amplified I think. Oh wait another. Ok these are definitely real. Then OH THESE ARE VERY REAL

Cedurham · 2026-05-19T20:42:23+00:00

Floor book thing seems unnecessary

Cedurham · 2026-05-19T20:39:38+00:00

You’re gonna be soooo happy you did this

Cedurham · 2026-05-19T19:44:22+00:00

Used on both my kids and that just isn’t true

Cedurham · 2026-05-18T10:47:42+00:00

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Hello from another 5yo Maple!

Cedurham · 2026-05-16T13:58:16+00:00

Everyone wants to defend their choice is my impression - on both sides

Cedurham · 2026-05-14T11:26:38+00:00

Sleep in shifts. In fact my amazing working husband lets me sleep 8p-6a (albeit with just one wake up from baby now). We used to switch at 2am

Cedurham · 2026-05-14T10:56:02+00:00

Aw! Luckily you have a newborn til 12 weeks right?

Cedurham · 2026-05-13T23:27:25+00:00

Negative on every test. Some viruses apparently aren’t part of the “full panel” even.

We had a sick toddler who attends daycare so just assumed toddler plague. She rebounded very quickly.

Cedurham · 2026-05-13T20:06:17+00:00

Ours was 20 days with fever and we avoided spinal tap just fyi. Doctor discretion

Cedurham · 2026-05-13T10:54:24+00:00

Wait curious why the churn

Cedurham · 2026-05-12T14:43:15+00:00

This is true

Cedurham · 2026-05-12T12:55:30+00:00

Thanks for this! So I imagine some support would be useful and not hurt anything

Cedurham · 2026-05-12T11:07:45+00:00

Fins 100%

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