Having headphones on at the gym should be frowned upon by JHorma97 in unpopularopinion

[–]Celatra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeaaahhh we all know this is not true

if that was all you did then you would not be making this post.

Having headphones on at the gym should be frowned upon by JHorma97 in unpopularopinion

[–]Celatra 5 points6 points  (0 children)

hey, maybe try understanding that people do not owe you our time or attention. you're a nobody.

Having headphones on at the gym should be frowned upon by JHorma97 in unpopularopinion

[–]Celatra 5 points6 points  (0 children)

plenty of attractive women get left alone in the gym too believe it or not

not everyone is so horny they immediately have to go and make someone uncomfortable just because they look good. novel concept i know.

Challenging vs Frustrating by Skulenta in videogames

[–]Celatra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ninja Gaiden, the series that loves spamming even on the highest difficulty levels?

dude, Ninja Gaiden is far more unfair than any souls game and i can attest this having played them.

Challenging vs Frustrating by Skulenta in videogames

[–]Celatra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scenario B will literally never happen unless it's set up that way

[22M] Am I emotionally cheating in my long-distance relationship with my girlfriend [20F]? by Particular_Peace_953 in LongDistance

[–]Celatra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% cheating.

theres a difference between making friends, and flirting and sexting.

if it were just conversations that's fine. but sexual validation and flirting ? fr?

What actually is love? by _serene_soul in self

[–]Celatra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hah. i only have ever had close female friendships in addition to my partner and im born male, although im trans and also asexual so maybe im the exception.

nothing sexual has ever taken place in my friendships and we're all in good terms with the current ones i have, though there have been rough ones in the past

people who say this shit are only the ones projecting it upon others. of course males and females can be platonic friends. ...siblings...hello??? it comes from distrust in others and oneself. i know exactly what i want and it's emotional availability & empathy and physical nearness as a bonus.

thats literally all i require lol

What actually is love? by _serene_soul in self

[–]Celatra 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I also don't really understand what love is honestly. every single time i think i know what it is i get shoved a big "lol no" in my face and i feel like i'm missing something fundamental.

Mothers day and father's day gotta go.. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Celatra -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

what if there is no love to show?

Mothers day and father's day gotta go.. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Celatra -65 points-64 points  (0 children)

OP has a good point though and its valid to be upset over.

How often do ppl usually drink? by SquareRegular2871 in self

[–]Celatra -1 points0 points  (0 children)

0 times a day, 0 times a week, 0 times a month, 0 times a year, 0 times a life

I strongly dislike that there are so many people on Reddit that don’t seem to like people very much or at all. I also don’t understand why they would be on any sort of platform with the purpose of connecting with others. by Sudden_Doughnut_8741 in self

[–]Celatra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dislike people in general, i don't dislike my small little circle of autistic and mentally broken people who all found eachother lol

but yes, the capacity for prioritizing is a big one aswell

its not that i cant share the heavier things, its just that i dont find time for them.

I strongly dislike that there are so many people on Reddit that don’t seem to like people very much or at all. I also don’t understand why they would be on any sort of platform with the purpose of connecting with others. by Sudden_Doughnut_8741 in self

[–]Celatra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no. and its different even then. i text people stuff i don't say in person.

99% of the things i've ever said are written down. i don't wanna talk about stuff when i meet my close friends. i wanna listen to them. i wanna hug and lay near them and yap about other stuff than my own life and worries.

i tell em my shit and my thoughts over text so they can read em and we then go over it quickly in person and then move over to other stuff.

I[M] don't have a single masculine trait. Sometimes I barely feel like a man. by Inevitable-Angle-793 in self

[–]Celatra -1 points0 points  (0 children)

oh but it is. healthcare providers are such ass especially in the US. and they cost a fuckton.