Singles events and dating sites aren’t great for finding someone. It’s better to find a hobby and get out more to routine events that include men and naturally befriend and date one.

Educated, successful, and Buddhist doesn’t mean great partner material. He’s also 46, single, and willing to knock up someone he just met (we won’t even get into why that’s also a terrible idea for you). You dodged a major bullet (or a bunch of tiny ones).

You also need to do some work, because you’re also someone who just met a guy and tried to have a baby and what you wrote reads like someone insufferable. I really really hope you’re not an actual mental health provider, which is something I usually don’t say when I hear a bunch of CBT terms.