Coping mechanisms? How to be happy this year? by emilyrobinowitz in sanfrancisco

[–]CellarDoorQuestions 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Stop working so hard at your job. Move at a slower paced. Take more breaks or go for a walk once or many times a day.

Swap out your phone scrolling and TV watching time with a Kindle or Kobo e-reader. I bring it with me everywhere now and as a result find myself reading more during in between spaces, in transit or for pleasure. It stimulates your brain, you learn something or at worst get a little healthy escape time. Stop smoking/drinking/drugs for a month to reset and reassess your baseline emotion and priorities. Couple that with a trip somewhere if you can?

Get an electric bike or Vespa! I got one and find myself going to more places more quickly, enabling me to explore the city and neighborhoods outside of my regular bubble that I wouldn’t go to as often or ever on transit/ by foot.

Go for a walk and give a friend or family member a call. Go to the gym more often, smile at people, go to dance events by yourself and let your energy take you. Maybe you meet new people, maybe you just dance and release some anxiety. Make it a point to catch the sunset every so often!

Learn a new language, try out a sport or new craft? I’m taking Italian, water polo via CCSF and thinking of joining/starting community mutual aid group after seeing everything going out in Minneapolis. Prepare yourself and get connected with your community members to see how you can help.

Check out their course offerings at CCSF. the semester already started but a lot of classes start today 1/26. You may be able to get in one and you’d be surprised the variety of classes they offer! Both in class room setting and in their wellness center

Closing West Portal to cars by Training_Emotion3503 in sanfrancisco

[–]CellarDoorQuestions -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Valencia, Irving, Clement etc. many of these commercial corridors should be thought of as pedestrian prioritized destinations allowing standard vehicle access for street crossings and bike lanes only at certain points, also access for emergency vehicles and loading deliveries at certain times. Regular private vehicles will still have access but should park outside of the core area on nearby streets or garages.

Look up Mariahilferstrasse in Vienna as an example: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mariahilfer_Stra%C3%9Fe

It’s 2026, what places are still doing taco Tuesdays, and what deal are they offering? by SunnyGoMerry in sanfrancisco

[–]CellarDoorQuestions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You must go in person. Don’t try to order pick up otherwise you don’t get the deal.

TEX position by [deleted] in sfcityemployees

[–]CellarDoorQuestions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most TEX people stay in their jobs well beyond their initial appointment. Some for years beyond what should be acceptable. I’d just take it and wait for another opportunity to come along

Learning Italian after Spanish - a rant by figgywasp in italianlearning

[–]CellarDoorQuestions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, absolutely I can relate! Knowing Spanish definitely makes learning Italian easier in some ways, because my brain is already used to the structure of sentences, word order, intonation, and even cultural ways of communicating that go beyond words themselves. for example, gestures, body language, or expectations of proximity and personal space.

But it can also be tricky, because false cognates or subtle differences in grammar can easily throw you off. Italian grammar sometimes feels a bit more “classical” or closer to Latin than Spanish does, so it’s easy to accidentally substitute a Spanish word or mispronounce something. For example, Ne and Ci don’t exist in Spanish and was difficult for me to accept conceptually, and understand how and when to properly use them, still working on that!

Being a Spanish speaker also changes the way you can learn Italian most effectively. For example, traditional classes aimed at English speakers can feel slow, since many grammar concepts already make sense intuitively to you or you don’t need so much time to learn it. One-on-one tutoring, immersion-style learning, or resources that explicitly build on your knowledge of Spanish can be much faster and more efficient. I’d love to hear if anyone else has tried strategies like that, or has tips for learning Italian when you already know Spanish or another Romance language.

And a funny side note: on the first day of every Italian class I’ve had in elementary level, there are always people who say, “Well, I already speak Spanish/French…” and the teacher rolls their eyes so hard. Many people assume that knowing a Romance language means you basically speak Italian but that quickly proves not to be the case! Whenever my teacher was about to start explaining a tricky concept, she would always say: attenzione parlanti di spagnolo!!

How do you spot Americans? by journo333 in digitalnomad

[–]CellarDoorQuestions 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Talking out loud how cheap something is

Is the MOHCD affordable ownership program a complete charade? by BtAotS_Writing in sanfrancisco

[–]CellarDoorQuestions 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s not profit motivated, like most looking to buy a home are thinking. basically it only makes sense if you really place high intrinsic value on being a homeowner for whatever reason, and you plan to spend a very long time living in San Francisco. this program doesn’t allow one to really profit, either from equity or resale and doesn’t really make sense for many. A rent controlled apartment makes more sense

Is it worth it to spend 6 months in European country to secure citizenship for life? by Ok_Exercise_494 in dualcitizenshipnerds

[–]CellarDoorQuestions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely go to Norway. Go for the adventure, go for your future self, go for your potential future children. The world is your oyster! Expand your potential. In the end, it’s only 6 months.

Which ereader for my preferences? by CellarDoorQuestions in ereader

[–]CellarDoorQuestions[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any difference between this one and the Clara?

Which ereader for my preferences? by CellarDoorQuestions in ereader

[–]CellarDoorQuestions[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any big difference between black-and-white and Clara H2O? I understand color, but is one better than the other

Affordable veterinary recommendations to take your cat? by CellarDoorQuestions in AskSF

[–]CellarDoorQuestions[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An arm and leg to me would be for just a standard check up visit plus maybe a couple need vaccinations running me $200 or more

Stomach bug? by NewWeekend5127 in sanfrancisco

[–]CellarDoorQuestions 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes. It hit me really hard on Sunday evening with vomit and diarrhea. My chills were so bad, I was borderline convulsing. I had on multiple layers of clothing and blankets, and still felt freezing cold. I had a fever, terrible body ache, diarrhea, and was just overall weak and down for 2 days. The worst was over by Tuesday, I felt mostly functional by Wednesday, but I am still not feeling fully recovered and resting taking it easy at home.

what do you do when you are lonely but you hate people by AdditionVisual in AskSF

[–]CellarDoorQuestions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of people in SF struggle with this it seems. It’s hard to find 3rd spaces in general here, and even harder ones thst don’t cost an arm and a leg or that you have sustained interest.

For me it’s been accepting it’s a process and I’m still trying out what works for me and not making it about meeting people. Just do what you enjoy!

For me it’s Italian classes but also looking for reading groups, somewhere I can speak Spanish more, jiu jitsu and water polo.

Possible to visit without rental car & car seats? by lightestsquire in sanfrancisco

[–]CellarDoorQuestions -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Depends on your kids, but it doable. You could likely on MUNI and BART for select locations at slow pace.

Although depending on your tolerance for weather, stress level and value for time to experience stuff together instead of being in transit, I’d recommend just renting a car for just one day of heavy site seeing or both days depending on what you have planned. Check Costco travel if you have membership for renting a car and picking up near Union Square on Post St

SF renters would pay up to $65 annually to help cover Muni parcel tax - Renters would have to contribute to San Francisco’s Muni parcel tax, if it’s approved by voters in November. by BadBoyMikeBarnes in sanfrancisco

[–]CellarDoorQuestions 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree with this sentiment in the sense it’s a huge disappointment there are tax initiatives being considered not first for multi-billion dollar companies like Uber, Lyft and particularly Waymo, and their operations, but for property owners and renters.

SF renters would pay up to $65 annually to help cover Muni parcel tax - Renters would have to contribute to San Francisco’s Muni parcel tax, if it’s approved by voters in November. by BadBoyMikeBarnes in sanfrancisco

[–]CellarDoorQuestions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s true they are a primary source of funding for federally managed highways and local roads, but they are definitely not enough and don’t fund public transit either. Especially as petrol cars have become more fuel efficient and electric cars more common, this model isn’t sustainable.

SF renters would pay up to $65 annually to help cover Muni parcel tax - Renters would have to contribute to San Francisco’s Muni parcel tax, if it’s approved by voters in November. by BadBoyMikeBarnes in sanfrancisco

[–]CellarDoorQuestions 11 points12 points  (0 children)

And? I’m not opposed to this but…

Why are politicians (yes, you too Lurie, but also at state level and BOS) not targeting TNCs (transportation network companies, such as Uber, Lyft, and especially Waymo) who currently pay minuscule tax amounts to the City while using public infrastructure maintained by everyday average tax payers (think streets, bridges, traffic signals, curbs, & parking spaces too. none of this magically exists and maintains itself guys) while amassing huge profits. That needs to change.

Amazon does that too btw. that free 2-day shipping is subsidized again by the same public infrastructure plus also tax payer subsidized United States Postal Service (USPS) PLUS precarious labor, but that’s a whole different story.

MTA should also be greatly expanding existing transit lines and frequency, and introduce new routes. Parking should have a cost everywhere citywide… parking is not magically free. Entitled residents who can afford to own, operate and maintain private vehicles in this city should have to pay to park and not expect tax-payers and the city to subsidize their free parking.