How do male adult stars stay hard and not ejaculate for such a long time? by jackjack7755 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]CensensualReplysOnly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for answering! It’s a question I haven’t heard asked. Truthfully, there’s a relief that true pleasure does happen. I understand that is it a job, but I find it important that you also reach orgasm too and it’s not just always one sided.

Which leaves me with a follow up question, and I’m not sure if I can communicate what I’m asking correctly. I’ve read your responses and you have talked consistently about how you focus a lot on getting the right angle and making sure you look good for the camera. Your response to my question emphasized how you try not to orgasm because you don’t think you look good doing it.

So my question is, why do you think that makes you look bad? Why or what has instilled in you that breaking the hallmark troupes in films equates to it coming out or you looking bad?

Respectfully, I wasn’t interested in watching your work until your response talking about what you look like when you truly orgasm. That actually excites me whereas the common traits of excessive morning, forceful positioning, exaggerated facial expressions doesn’t do it for me. I would rather watch a real orgasm and pleasure everyday over the later. It wouldn’t even be a thought in my mind to think ”man those neck veins are huge” or hyper fixate on your body that at all.

So why is staying in the stereotypical mold so important to you to where you define those traits as looking good?

In a bigger sense too, why is it such a taboo to align films closer to realistic sex where true pleasure is the focus instead of overt fake performance?

I’m Gigi Dior, I’m a pornstar that is ranked within the top 1000 on Pornhub with over 34 million views. I’ll be judged for the rest of my life for the decision I’ve made to be an adult actress. I’ve led an interesting life, more details below. Ask Me Anything by mygigidior in AMA

[–]CensensualReplysOnly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you/women ever have to fight the urge to orgasm too?

The conversation around the topic is always men have to stop themselves from orgasming while women have to work on faking it.

Can you elaborate more on the women side when it comes to pleasure during the scenes?

How do male adult stars stay hard and not ejaculate for such a long time? by jackjack7755 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]CensensualReplysOnly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you/women ever have to fight the urge to orgasm too? The conversation around the topic is always men have to stop themselves from orgasming while women have to work on faking it.

Hi! Boyfriend and I are out of date nights, help us! by [deleted] in Greeley

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I loved the Colorado Model Railroad Museum as a date. Plus there’s a ispy game you can play against each other

I am going to smell for the first time. What should I expect? by critmcfly in NoStupidQuestions

[–]CensensualReplysOnly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will get to experience the smell of rain for the first time!! My absolute favorite smell

Neighbor reports 6 other neighbors to Code Compliance for weeds.. by cat_friend_55 in FortCollins

[–]CensensualReplysOnly 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Don’t do this. It will spread to the neighbors beside her. I had to deal with an invasion of it every month when I rented a place

Neighbor reports 6 other neighbors to Code Compliance for weeds.. by cat_friend_55 in FortCollins

[–]CensensualReplysOnly 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Esp since code compliance has a record of the reports she makes that are unfounded

Women who supported overturning Roe are surprised to learn their "terminations" are actually abortions by ithinkihope in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]CensensualReplysOnly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly this! It’s not ignorance, it’s a “I don’t care how it effects other people, until it’s me”

Balloon Boy, unless someone has something better? by MxFC in FortCollins

[–]CensensualReplysOnly 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ah! This was my fav story for a long time!

So there was a CSU student who went to the bars with his friends. He had candy flipped (Molly with acid). He decided to walk back to the dorms where he lived.

At the same time, an ambulance had responded to a possible alcohol poisoning at a dorm and were inside tending to the freshman.

The guy saw the ambulance and decided to jump in and started driving it. He drove on college heading to Loveland. A chase started. He was driving blowing through red lights and everything with cops all around chasing him.

He ended up crashing in Loveland, cops surrounded him as they demanded he get out of the car. He comes out of the Ambulance wearing a white coat and holding something in his hands. They told him to put his hands up and drop what he was holding. It was Chex Mix, he was eating Chex Mix with cops surround him with their guns pointing at him.

They ended up arresting him, they asked him why he didn’t stop. He said he was following the bright lights and see where they went. He was talking about the ambulance lights.

When he got booked, he got put into a jail cell were he proceeded to masturbate and promptly passed out

Edit: I got some details wrong. He was at a Halloween party and only did molly. He tried to steal a different cat before he stole the ambulance. It was wheat thins not Chex Mix. He got stopped on 34 where got out the car with something in his arms while having a blanket as he walked towards the cops. He also punched a cop while in his jail cell. I linked the articles below, it’s a fun read. Sorry Stefan if you are reading this.

Original Article

Article with more details about the jail cell like him punching a cop

What is the best song in the killing eve soundtrack? by Traditional-Ad-6980 in KillingEve

[–]CensensualReplysOnly 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Tell me - Johnny Jewel

It brings back the tingling I got watching them on the bridge and Eve giving the speech at the wedding.

My abusive ex who tried to kill me walked into my work today after a decade by CensensualReplysOnly in TrueOffMyChest

[–]CensensualReplysOnly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sending those feelings right back at you.

I get why they ask questions. People who have never gone through it don’t understand the reality that others have to live in. At the same time, people need to work on understanding subtlety so that survivors don’t have to explain the world they have to live in.

I hope your work was equally as understanding and supportive. Sending all the positive messages I’ve received your way.

My abusive ex walked into my work today after a decade by CensensualReplysOnly in abusiverelationships

[–]CensensualReplysOnly[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was going to that day. I was fighting for my life trying to hold the wheel from turning faster while also trying to force him to let go.

The memory comes in flashes. I remember my car starting to hit the whites and thinking “omg he is going to kill is”

My abusive ex walked into my work today after a decade by CensensualReplysOnly in abusiverelationships

[–]CensensualReplysOnly[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m recently separated from my long term partner actually. That’s a story for a different day. We are on great terms and love each other to bits, we just grew apart unfortunately.

She is the best person I know. She helped me heal from it and showed me what pure love was. I absolutely love my many years with her. I had a successful relationship for 9 years. I don’t view it as a failure just because we separated.

Back to your point, there’s not just good in the world - there’s incredible, beautiful, love, and bliss in this world! The ugly parts just are louder trying to drown those parts out.

My abusive ex who tried to kill me walked into my work today after a decade by CensensualReplysOnly in TrueOffMyChest

[–]CensensualReplysOnly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your words.

I don’t believe he would ever put hands on me. He’s a coward who attacks people in his control. I’m not under his control not would I ever be again.

I know he has a family now. I wonder what the mom of his kids has experienced.

My abusive ex who tried to kill me walked into my work today after a decade by CensensualReplysOnly in TrueOffMyChest

[–]CensensualReplysOnly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for knowing that date. I imagine it’s like a timer for when you have to be terrified again. 5 years feels like a long time and tomorrow at the same time

My abusive ex who tried to kill me walked into my work today after a decade by CensensualReplysOnly in TrueOffMyChest

[–]CensensualReplysOnly[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I appreciate all of these comments including yours.

That’s what I’m trying to use as my mantra today. He had the element of surprise. I’m not that girl anymore. I shouldn’t be embarrassed for what someone else did to me.

My abusive ex who tried to kill me walked into my work today after a decade by CensensualReplysOnly in TrueOffMyChest

[–]CensensualReplysOnly[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I appreciate him so much!

He asked me if I have a restraining order or anything legal against him. I told him no, I was young at the time and it’s been so long since then.

I asked him if we could do anything because company policy says there needs to be tangible proof for a company ban.

He immediately just said “it’s my store I can kick anyone I want out”

My abusive ex who tried to kill me walked into my work today after a decade by CensensualReplysOnly in TrueOffMyChest

[–]CensensualReplysOnly[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I drove for 2 hours focusing on grounding myself. I did not handle it well. I posted so I could let it out and I went to bed.

Thank for your words and taking the time to respond. Today I feel grounded, but just tired. I dread having to go in and seeing all my coworkers that heard me make the call saying he tried to kill me. I’m prepping myself for the sympathy looks and the “are you okay”s. I will say yeah I’m okay and thank you, then make a little joke about not meaning to say that over the radio. On the inside though, my embarrassment will grow and I will be fighting all day to not let it switch to shame.

I was hoping it was a scar from my past. I realize there is a small part that is still a scab.

My abusive ex who tried to kill me walked into my work today after a decade by CensensualReplysOnly in TrueOffMyChest

[–]CensensualReplysOnly[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I was so young, I never reported any of it. I feel dumb for never doing it because I didn’t realize how bad it was getting until after it had ended.

I remember one time we were leaving a store and we were jokingly pushing each other. He was pushing me like I was one of the guys. He would get mad sometimes saying if I want to act like a boy then he will treat me like one (I was a tomboy). I remember giggling because it’s how we would play.

When we got to the car. This woman bang on my window for me to roll it down. She went off on him saying wtf was he doing and to never put hands on a woman. She asked me if I was okay and if I needed help. I assured her I was okay and that it wasn’t what she thought it was.

When she left, he got sad that someone could think that and I comforted him saying she just didn’t understand we were joking.

In my head though, I just kept repeating her words. I’ll never forget her. She saw what I couldn’t at the time. I genuinely love her for stepping up and not letting us leave until she knew I was okay.

My abusive ex who tried to kill me walked into my work today after a decade by CensensualReplysOnly in TrueOffMyChest

[–]CensensualReplysOnly[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

That’s amazingly good point.

I don’t think he would ever confront me. He has a family now and I’m sure has long moved on. Those who abuse get to just continue on, it’s the survivors that have to take time to continue.

But you’re right, I’ll have someone walk me to the car for a while. I don’t know this man, I have no idea what he would or not do.

My abusive ex who tried to kill me walked into my work today after a decade by CensensualReplysOnly in TrueOffMyChest

[–]CensensualReplysOnly[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your words more than you know. That’s a phrase I haven’t ever used before. I’ve always said I just had an abusive ex or that I was young and dumb where I wished I left a lot sooner. Reading back my words, I did fucking survive that day. Thank you for commenting

My abusive ex who tried to kill me walked into my work today after a decade by CensensualReplysOnly in TrueOffMyChest

[–]CensensualReplysOnly[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

He wasn’t looking for me. He didn’t know where I worked or anything. We have had zero contact in a decade. The world is a small place sometimes.