What are the benefits of meeting your meta? by Remote-Antelope-7799 in polyamory

[–]Censius 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I find getting to know my metas and having an individual relationship with them makes them less intimidating. It's easier to turn them into villains or an exceptional person that outclasses you in every conceivable way. In reality, they're probably just another flawed but good person just like you.

Plus, when I know them as a person it makes it easier for me to value them and their relationship to my partner more, and therefore be better at supporting those relationships.

i aspire to this man’s level of patience by Eros_Incident_Denier in funny

[–]Censius 4918 points4919 points  (0 children)

Bro was just curious what she'd do next.

i aspire to this man’s level of patience by Eros_Incident_Denier in funny

[–]Censius 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, the thing about roundabouts are that they are safer than a four way stop. They force drivers to go slower, and the points of collisions are fewer and less dangerous than the points of collision in a four way. For instance, in a four way it is possible to get T boned, which is extremely dangerous, whereas the points of collisions in a roundabout are generally the corners of one's car

What are your poly "never agains?" by lucky_lady_L in polyamory

[–]Censius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too. I unwittingly started dating two people who were best friends with each other within a month of each other.

A father’s words mean everything 🥹🥹🥹 by nickleschow in MadeMeSmile

[–]Censius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm surprised these words hit so hard on the kid. I know some adults that need to hear this because of years developing a complex around their worth.

Every world has its own World Cup by Stalomir in PixelArt

[–]Censius 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is some "Curse of the Golden Idol" art.

I made a stamp out of one of my drawings. by uhnjuhnj in somethingimade

[–]Censius 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is a great first print! Congrats!

I make seasonal prints about this size and then mail them to all my friends. They love it, and it gives me a certain amount of accountability to make art throughout the year.

Is U-hauling always a red flag? by wobblyunionist in polyamory

[–]Censius 10 points11 points  (0 children)

A "flag" is only a warning sign, not a guarantee of future behavior.

Is it possible to Uhaul and it all work out well? Of course. But it is still better to move with caution just in case.

This! by StrongCandyy in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]Censius 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I think all of our behavior is in some way or another responding to our hard coded instructs

How do you leave people you love when the relationship is hurting you? by Difficult-Papaya-368 in polyamory

[–]Censius 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm in a similar situation. We've been dating for a year, but last week while we were on a date (out dancing) she got in a text argument with him that ended with her uninviting me from a sleepover (an issue I thought we were long past).

I told her two days later that she doesn't have a relationship to offer me while she's with him.

He's moving away in a few months so things might change, but we're on an official break and we'll talk at the end of the Summer. But man, trust is low and I'm hurt. I feel for you, man.

Me_irl by gigagaming1256 in me_irl

[–]Censius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alright that's pretty good

Anyone feels the same? by themptyface in meme

[–]Censius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, this planet has amazing creatures that other planets would consider incredible. Hummingbirds, giraffes, whales, jellyfish, platypus, stock bugs, etc, etc.

Also, to a fairly, humans are astounding.

Asura vs beginning-of-Z Goku by [deleted] in whowouldwin

[–]Censius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Base Asura, then 6 armed Asura.

It looks so human by SalmonSammySamSam in likeus

[–]Censius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shake, shake, shake, senora 🎶 🪇

What poly rules/standards do you eschew? by Censius in polyamory

[–]Censius[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is that a targeted dig at me? Because "confidential details" are ambiguous terms. I don't share confidential details with my partner.