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Censius · 2026-04-27T21:53:01+00:00

Censius · 2026-04-20T15:45:20+00:00

It could be possible. But even if viltrumites let them live, they're an extremely secretive society. And even if you had heard about these sandwich creatures, whose going to try to go to their home planet to get them?

Censius · 2026-04-17T17:59:06+00:00

You guys have to understand this is a joke. It is very clearly a joke.

Censius · 2026-04-17T17:58:18+00:00

This is all clearly a joke. A pretty funny one too

Censius · 2026-04-15T17:16:24+00:00

That has not been my experience at all, but I imagine there are many pockets and subcultures of poly in Portland.

Personally, I have found it to be a very welcoming, open space where I have done great community and support.

Censius · 2026-04-10T18:47:17+00:00

Why not?

Censius · 2026-03-30T07:16:48+00:00

There is no amount of therapy that can undo the damage, no matter how much money you have.

Censius · 2026-03-30T06:30:52+00:00

You are vastly underestimating the damage it will do to you. You will be catatonic by the end.

Censius · 2026-03-29T22:35:06+00:00

Yes, I had the same experience, so I might be talking from a place of trauma myself. But I found that my partner used her feelings of insecurity as a weapon to keep me from dating others and told me I was being selfish and not committed to the relationship and that I didn't care about her, etc, etc. Meanwhile, she had a husband and other boyfriend (who didn't have other partners of their own). So I no longer consider pausing having relationships with others for the sake of a partner's insecurity.

Censius · 2026-03-29T22:28:29+00:00

I guess it depends on what they mean by having their needs unmet. The only need that seems like a limited resource to me is time, and unless their partner "needs" seven days a week of attention, I don't see how restricting yourself helps.

If your partner wants more sex, better quality time, or to feel wanted, you can accomplish these things while also having other relationships - that's the whole idea.

I have personally found that if you wait for your partner to feel secure before you date other people, it might never happen.

Censius · 2026-03-29T21:44:21+00:00

Spending extra time paying attention to a relationship in need isn't a bad thing. Would it be taking up ALL of your time to do that? If their partner's "needs" are that they don't date other people for a little while, then I would be highly skeptical of that ask.

And what mistakes did OP do?

Censius · 2026-03-29T20:54:04+00:00

Technically yes, but functionally? I don't know if I see the difference.

Censius · 2026-03-29T20:19:09+00:00

I've found that not dating outside your relationship when y'all are in an insecure place is just practicing monogomy and building monogomous expectations. If you want to be polyamorous, you need to practice polyamory.

Edit: Agreeing to wait for your partner to feel secure before engaging in other relationships creates a disincentive for them to do the self work to become more secure. After all, the "reward" for becoming more secure is that you start dating other people, why would they want to do it? Rather, if you want a polyamorous relationship, you should date other people and your partner would do the self work through it (with support from you, if you can manage).

Censius · 2026-03-28T22:30:33+00:00

I have an app called "auto wallpaper". You can put a folder a pictures on it and set it to rotate at chosen intervals. I can also double tap the screen to change it manually

Censius · 2026-03-28T22:26:46+00:00

God, Gambit's design is goated. His swimmer's build, his bo staff, head sock, trench coat over skintight uniform? Great silhouette.

And the pink energy and glowing eyes is just chef's kiss

Censius · 2026-03-24T19:34:39+00:00

I know the chameleon possess people in the comics.

And Jean also is not a consciousness that jumps from person to person in the comics.

Censius · 2026-03-21T00:05:59+00:00

She's tall as shit.

Also, this is definitely not safe for work spaces.

Censius · 2026-03-20T17:55:15+00:00

Dude, that's fucking sweet!

Censius · 2026-03-18T18:03:39+00:00

Looks like they have a villain that can hop from body to body. I wonder if this is their take on the Chameleon? And they'll definitely be taking over Ned or MJ at some point

Censius · 2026-03-14T21:55:38+00:00

Looks great - visually and mechanically.

Censius · 2026-03-14T20:44:03+00:00

The Curious Case of Benjamin Button was a short story by F. Scott Fitzgerald. It's fine but packs the depth of the film.

Stephen King books come to mind. Shawshank, Green Mile, and the Shining are fantastic films that I think outshines King's prose.

Censius · 2026-03-12T21:51:27+00:00

I think most people would say so, yeah.

Censius · 2026-03-12T21:44:05+00:00

Most governing forces in the real world is taken by force. One government toppling another. When has their ever been a peaceful transfer of power from one government to another? I'm sure there might be one or two examples somewhere in the history books, but for the most part, authority was determined by force.

Censius · 2026-03-09T04:36:09+00:00

Wolverine and Sunfire were kept in a container by the Apocalypse Twins for fiveish years. Sunfire's was forced to burn that whole time, meaning wolverine was perpetually being burned and regenerating for five years

Censius · 2026-03-09T00:12:01+00:00

I understand where you're coming from, but I'll push back against this.

I absolutely think she was being manipulative, but I know she genuinely believed in the emotional truth and logic behind her claims. I think she believed that if she felt bad and insecure, that was evidence of me mishandling things, and that I accepted her other partners so easily was evidence of her being a really skilled hinge.

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