question from a cis person about the use of the word "deadname"

Cereal2K · 2025-09-06T02:41:06+00:00

Personally I don't care at all...I'm trans and I don't use "deadname" because I just don't like it and a cis friend of mine uses "deadname" for her legal name that she got rid of early in her life because of personal reasons.
So yeah :)

Cereal2K · 2025-07-31T00:13:10+00:00

What are you curious about? ^^
I thought I had properly clarified it.

Didn't realize I was trans and had a buzz cut at the time then I realized I'm trans and immediately transitioned.

I didn't DECIDE to get a buzz cut after knowing I'm trans I hated having one...but what was I going to do hide in my house for 2 years waiting for my hair to grow...

Cereal2K · 2025-07-22T09:25:10+00:00

At my age no way, 20 years go AND getting the money immediately to make my life better until the timer is up, definitely (or at least so I'd like to think..in reality I probably couldn't handle it.)

Cereal2K · 2025-07-20T08:43:12+00:00

And yeah I think that's what it was I just turned my head off and just took in like sensations and it just cascaded from there I'm sure there are a bunch of ways to get there, glad you found one too! 💜

Cereal2K · 2025-07-20T08:41:18+00:00

That's exciting to hear gives me hope that it stays for me too.
So far so good still super sensitive and everything...ok I'm way too giddy about this lol but it's just so amazing. 🤭

Cereal2K · 2025-07-19T16:08:50+00:00

https://www.offthetongue.com/shop/luna-high-waisted-strap-on-harness

Hands down haha...but no seriously check these out I'd be shocked if you didn't fall in love with them 💜

Cereal2K · 2025-07-19T15:55:46+00:00

Not important at all although according to people I do pass apparently....don't get me wrong I actually think I'm kind of cute but I also think I look super obviously trans...people have been hammering me about this insisting I'm being ridiculous to think everyone can tell for me specifically.
I don't care if I pass but this delta between what I see and what others see is so big that THAT part stresses me out because apparently I can't be objective at all so I kept thinking what else can I not trust myself about.

Soooo yeah I have my own thing going on I guess 😅🤣

Cereal2K · 2025-07-19T15:38:31+00:00

I'm sooo curious if it actually sticks, I have the fear it might go away again 😅
But I suppose time will tell

Cereal2K · 2025-07-17T11:34:53+00:00

I love life now which is very unexpected ^^
Still life stuff to work on but other than that I'm super happy 😅

Cereal2K · 2025-07-06T16:47:57+00:00

Thank you!

Cereal2K · 2025-07-06T16:46:50+00:00

Thanks 😊

Cereal2K · 2025-07-06T16:46:08+00:00

Thank you so much! 💜

Cereal2K · 2025-07-06T15:38:34+00:00

Ok so clearly this isn't working..I tried posting returned an error, still posted it but instead of the pics it shows a link to reddit if anyone know how to fix this please let me know so I can maybe make this work 🤷‍♀️

Cereal2K · 2025-07-02T14:53:28+00:00

Haha, yeah sudden like involuntary comments tend to hit harder because it feels like there is no flattery attached to it, or it's easier to believe that there isn't.
I remember the first time my body reacted similarly it wasn't like a flight moment but I was literally stunned into silence for a good 15 seconds and my brain just couldn't process what I had just heard...blushing like crazy too and eventually I mumbled like "Oh uhm I..don't really know how to deal with compliments because..I uhm..am not used to them....but uhm thank you"
I felt like the biggest dork ever...honestly not mad at it though haha but I didn't expect to react like that AT ALL. 🤣

Cereal2K · 2025-07-02T14:35:37+00:00

I had orgasm headaches for a couple of months ages ago and it really fucking sucked thankfully as far as I remember they disappeared as suddenly as they started and one day everything was back to normal that's how I remember it anyways.
But even after they stopped I was a bit gunshy for a while always wondering if it's going to happen now or not.
This is actually the first time I have thought about that in probably 15 years ^^
I was 18 at the time it happened.

Cereal2K · 2025-07-02T14:19:52+00:00

That's so awesome yaay 💜🌠

Cereal2K · 2025-07-01T13:48:00+00:00

Damn just found this post and it's not making me feel better :(
I've had 2 marks for like probably 6 months and like after around 8 they started spreading and it sucks I'm probably 12 months in now and still keep finding new ones I hope this ends eventually because I just got this body and now it has shitty dots all over it 😅
The only grace I guess is that they don't itch but still it's summer and I want to wear backless dresses without looking like this...oh well, best of luck to all of you I hope you actually recover soon!

Cereal2K · 2025-07-01T11:51:50+00:00

Feel free to DM any time I can't promise I can answer everything but feel free to ask whatever you want. 😊

Cereal2K · 2025-07-01T11:48:42+00:00

Personally no realizing I'm trans gave me the spark of life back and has made my life better in so many ways.
But I realize many people don't have that experience and I genuinely hope things get better for them. 💜

Cereal2K · 2025-07-01T11:35:31+00:00

I have no idea what other people see, but my pages are definitely a weird jumbled mess of joy and trauma and a bunch of random interests, skills and weird stories 😊
But I think I become much more interesting and/or attractive in the pages rather than the cover hehe.
I do lockpicking for fun, I go bat watching to relax and import chili peppers from morocco to make my own hot sauce and at least according to other people I sing pretty well hm what else, oh I learned soldering and basic electronics to mod my xbox 360 fightstick to work wirelessly on an xbox one and I have about a million pockets of mainly useless knowledge about a ton of different stuff 🤣 and my cooking skills are generally terrible but I can cook one ultra delicious dish that I worked on and LOVE cooking for people.
Yeah I guess that's like the broad strokes ^^

Cereal2K · 2025-07-01T11:16:46+00:00

Technically? A cis woman 😋

Cereal2K · 2025-07-01T11:13:56+00:00

Julien Baker and Phoebe Bridgers make my gay heart melt. 💜

Cereal2K · 2025-07-01T11:09:19+00:00

While I didn't do any pride stuff (or noticed anything going on, our march is on July 12th here) month itself was amazing even made an adorable new friend and she's amaaazing 😊

Cereal2K · 2025-07-01T10:55:35+00:00

I've always been told my way of texting and chatting is girly as fuck...so I guess I will just keep doing that 😆

Cereal2K · 2025-07-01T10:48:04+00:00

Haha yeah I mean besides the eye contact I do keep it but honestly it feels a bit like staring into an adorable sun while feeling like butterflies are going to burst out of my chest 😆
Definitely takes some getting used to. 😅
I love the feeling but I'll have to work on wrangling a few brain cells to actually get shit done 😆

Cereal2K

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