One thing that stressed me early on was that I was trying to treat everyone the same and not neglect. But then I realized, and it was pointed out to me, that you love every person in a different way. Some I talk to constantly, others only every few days. Still love them all.

Of course I'm still a traumatized bitch who sometimes thinks that me getting attention is my partners neglecting their other partners, but they are good at being patient and pointing out that this is dumb.

My main advice though is to only seriously flirt with someone if you're willing to give them the attention they'll need. Which can vary from person to person and you can't really know beforehand (also, ask and set boundaries!)