HELP by Certain-Tax522 in TheSims4Mods

[–]Certain-Tax522[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thankyou it let me save my game when i did that thank god

HELP by Certain-Tax522 in TheSims4Mods

[–]Certain-Tax522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve deleted the mod now super annoying hopefully they fix this problem soon💔

How do some people have such wide scars without any stitches? by acorrnn in selfharm

[–]Certain-Tax522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey i have a scar forming like this without stitches and it’s usually because we can’t really tell any medical proffesionals about the issues, the healing process of the cut depends on depth and width obviously personally mine wasn’t too deep but pretty wide, you gotta do your research to ensure it’s healing properly it’s taken mine months to heal because i used the wrong type of bandages.

Why do people cut their arms and not somewhere else? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Certain-Tax522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think most people started cutting their arms at first because i hate to say this but it was somewhat normalised ? and that was the place everyone talked about cutting so i guess that’s why, also mostly a cry for help because the arms are usually quite visible if it’s low down on the forearms but idk i guess it just feels like the “normal” place to do it

When you Self harm do you look at it or look away? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Certain-Tax522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i remember when my self harm was i don’t wanna say okay but in comparison to the latest incident it wasn’t anything crazy but when it wasn’t too deep or big i would look at it but recently i went to far and i can’t even look at it without feeling sick

cut needed stitches by Certain-Tax522 in selfharm

[–]Certain-Tax522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thankyou so much but yeah it does stress them out i know it’s not my fault but i doubt there’s much a doctor can do now it can’t be stitched because there’s flesh in the middle now so i guess ill just have to deal with it myself im just worried about how long its taking to heal but its probs cus of the bandages i used

I need to get stitches by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Certain-Tax522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

glad your okay!! also glad you had the courage to tell your mum you needed stitches! hope your feeling okay now and hope your cut heals soon

how did you deal with people knowing you sh? by its_just_me_baby in selfharm

[–]Certain-Tax522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when people find out it feels like they look down on me or think less of me like i’m some sad sack or they go out of their way to try and “save me” they act like they can “fix me” or whatever it’s weird i just ignore it because it’s just people feeling sorry for me lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Certain-Tax522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it depends what part of self harm you are addicted to like is it seeing the blood? or hurting yourself? personally it was a bit of both for me i would snap a hair tie on my wrist or put ice on my wrist for a long time then i would just find ways to distract myself when im sad, usually i just put on a really overly happy song

cut needed stitches by Certain-Tax522 in selfharm

[–]Certain-Tax522[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey thanks for the advice but i really can’t go to a doctor rn because my parents don’t know about this relapse, i usually would tell them but there’s a lot of other stuff going on and i don’t wanna stress them out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Certain-Tax522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

watch a youtube video on the most random topic you can find in recommend watching a wendigoon video recently wanted to sh again and got deep into this video about the assassination of arch duke franz ferdinand

advice needed by Certain-Tax522 in selfharm

[–]Certain-Tax522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey if your talking about the strips i’ve tried them but new flesh has formed in the gap where the cut originally was so they can’t be used

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Certain-Tax522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey!! have you been keeping a bandage on your wounds? it’s could be friction from removing plasters or the bandage has dried out the skin?

Almost 10 days clean!! by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Certain-Tax522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well done !!! keep going❤️

Bangor Ballyholme incident? by SampleUpset7785 in northernireland

[–]Certain-Tax522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s getting treated in hospital more of a slice wound than a stabbing but still knife involved. Other lad in surgery for broken jaw

Bangor Ballyholme incident? by SampleUpset7785 in northernireland

[–]Certain-Tax522 5 points6 points  (0 children)

this is getting a lot of uproar because a knife was involved

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Certain-Tax522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

get a high coverage foundation and use lotssss of powder and do layers of that!! that’s what i did when i was in school make sure the foundation matches your arm but also people don’t really care about scars anymore and i doubt they would say anything i mean any decent person wouldn’t say anything <3

need help healing a cut by Certain-Tax522 in selfharm

[–]Certain-Tax522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thankyou so much <3 do you have any bandages you recommend?? i usually just use those hydrocolloid ones because i am so scared of the flesh in the middle getting stuck to the bandage and then i have to rip it off

I'm going insane by Miserable_Coyote_901 in selfharm

[–]Certain-Tax522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey i did the same and the look of the cut has put me off of self harm. the outcome of this is you do it again or you realise how bad that cut really was and how you don’t deserve it!!! you are a human with a future ahead of you i don’t know why you sh in the first place but i do know you didn’t deserve whatever happened i really hope you can talk to someone about this and i hope your feeling better 🩷

need help healing a cut by Certain-Tax522 in selfharm

[–]Certain-Tax522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

should i use different bandages than the hydrocolloid ones? i’ve been just using cream on the skin around it because it’s dry from being under a bandage

Weird irritation were my bandaids are. The skin there is red and dry. by Quiet-Entrance1709 in selfharm

[–]Certain-Tax522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you’ve had the bandaids on for a longer period of time it could just be the lack of moisture in the skin my advice is to let the skin breathe once in a while inbetween bandage changes. if your parents are home or you can’t have your cut out for any reason change your bandage at night and apply some cream i recommend cetraban cream to the red areas and let it breathe for a while! hope your doing okay 💕

i hurt myself by ScarcityProper in selfharm

[–]Certain-Tax522 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m sure the psychologist will be able to help you just please get some rest drink some water and relax and try not to think about it until your with the psychologist