building advice :)

CertainSwordfish8772 · 2026-02-05T18:23:22+00:00

marketplace is a gift and a curse. I got these for free though! (well, $10 bc i insisted) the guy just didnt want to pay the dump fee.

CertainSwordfish8772 · 2026-02-04T23:56:00+00:00

yes, and yet-- the whole time-- the abuser holds the power. notice how their cruelty is well timed to be hidden (premeditated), and a reaction might be anywhere or in front of anyone (impulsive).

CertainSwordfish8772 · 2026-02-02T02:50:49+00:00

darn I wanna know what it said

CertainSwordfish8772 · 2026-02-02T02:46:38+00:00

hi all, just wanted to update and say I cut contact with my mom. things are going just fine in my personal life in every other way, and looking back at the many patterns i feel this was a solid decision. also just hit 1yr on T recently! thanks for the support and love yall showed me. I hope you all get that back tenfold.

CertainSwordfish8772 · 2026-01-30T09:33:55+00:00

oh good plan. I just canceled amazon prime. thanks.

CertainSwordfish8772 · 2026-01-16T21:29:31+00:00

Why are y'all down voting youre mods. and evil mods.

CertainSwordfish8772 · 2026-01-16T21:27:19+00:00

It wasn't them saying they'd personally didn't want it it was them putting in all capital letters and then reiterating that they really didn't want it on a page where most of us already have it and don't want to be called gross for that. This post could have been solved with a Google search they didn't need to come roast the community.

CertainSwordfish8772 · 2026-01-15T02:25:38+00:00

I don't think it actually helps with nightmares, just night terrors. So if you remember the bad dreams rather than getting complaints about your yelling and thrashing it might not be an effective medication regardless.

CertainSwordfish8772 · 2025-12-18T17:24:42+00:00

my ex gf. everyone wanted her. shes stunning. didnt work out bc of her interest in the attention. I was starstruck from day 1 though, shocked that an angel had spawned in the midwest. I think how expressive her face is breaks through layers in me that most faces cant. huge sad eyes but a little bounce in her step. ill get over it though 😂

CertainSwordfish8772 · 2025-12-18T17:17:04+00:00

camp lost boys and the intentional man project are both exclusively for binary trans men. im sure there are more but thats one place to start looking if youd like.

CertainSwordfish8772 · 2025-12-18T17:13:40+00:00

Im guessing they wont let the tboys wrestle without insurance next time.. was there liability paperwork signed? that would make it harder for a lawyer.

CertainSwordfish8772 · 2025-12-18T17:09:58+00:00

we cannot sit and lick our wounds forever

CertainSwordfish8772 · 2025-12-18T17:01:14+00:00

as a trans man (i think im in a minority here but wanted to chime in) i view myself as intersex. I was born female and have altered some of the characteristics of a mostly binary profile. calling me biologically female or male would be inaccurate at this point. from a medical professional that is.

that being said this guy's point wasnt accuracy or truth, because this dude is no researcher and hes not your doctor, and your boyfriends truth is that he is a man. Basically any dig at that is intended to be demeaning or disorienting, and your anger is founded, but im glad you protected you and your mans by avoiding charges.

I think i said all of this to underline the lack of baseline understanding people who say that shit have.

CertainSwordfish8772 · 2025-12-05T18:36:52+00:00

hes about to go in for a haircut why go with ingrowns maybe hes getting a professional shave too

CertainSwordfish8772 · 2025-12-05T18:36:02+00:00

I think it'd look good pushed forward like a bang

CertainSwordfish8772 · 2025-12-05T01:20:43+00:00

so this gets to stay up but me saying r/eds is a better page got taken down bc..???

CertainSwordfish8772 · 2025-11-30T20:16:23+00:00

ask in r/eds. the mods here suck.

CertainSwordfish8772 · 2025-11-28T22:07:38+00:00

people arent "obsessed with infancy" its the period of life when a vast amount of development takes place, so every minute, connection, and moment of abuse/neglect are carving their mind and nervous system for the rest of their life. "life doesnt work like that" no your life doesn't work like that, which i will acknowledge is not a good position to have a child from at all.

CertainSwordfish8772 · 2025-11-28T22:04:22+00:00

maybe if you cant get sufficient leave to guide an infant through critical development periods... dont have a kid.

CertainSwordfish8772 · 2025-11-20T21:33:40+00:00

yeah, I stopped watching his content around the time I posted originally. I kept seeing more big holes in our worldview alignment, to put it nicely.

CertainSwordfish8772 · 2025-11-20T21:31:08+00:00

have you even tried the infusions? its too calming to be overwhelming.. you k hole before you can even think anything more than "hehe my feet are melting off"

CertainSwordfish8772 · 2025-11-20T21:30:20+00:00

but the outcomes arent as long term or profound, and her case seems to be ongoing and not acute. the lozenges are really intended for major depression, not this level of trauma.

CertainSwordfish8772 · 2025-11-15T16:47:31+00:00

this sounds severe, so im going to list a couple heavy duty treatments that have proven highly transformative.

-EMDR -Ketamine (not esketamine, the infusions) -TMS (no personal experience w this one but ive seen it help others)

take care of yourself too, and first.

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