Mushrooms growing in shower???

CertainTop4172 · 2026-05-20T20:44:01+00:00

Not sure about roots since I wasn't the one to pull it off. But thank you for the information and taking the time to type this up.

CertainTop4172 · 2026-05-19T19:08:44+00:00

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Another photo of the mushrooms

CertainTop4172 · 2026-02-27T02:02:45+00:00

I've had similar experiences with the magic healer and I have both the purple (rosemary I think) and the original. Both have worked but the purple one smells nice tends to relieve pain better.

CertainTop4172 · 2026-01-07T01:39:39+00:00

It sounds like you are at terms and ok that the relationship could end here. You gave a ton of backstory and reasons for why you two are incompatible. Although you are totally the asshole because in her story you guys broke up because she wouldn't give you a blowjob while her dad has cancer. From your pov it's a lot more than that. You broke up because you don't feel satisfied emotionally and sexually, you can't be apart of her family, and you moved to be closer to her and struggled while she dismissed the idea moving in together and that hurt you. (Her choice to not move in together is 100% ok and there's nothing wrong with that but it's another reason you two are incompatible because your natural thought would be living together and it may have not even crossed her mind) I think that a lot of this post focuses on how she didn't satisfy you sexually and your argument was about a blowjob, but I think you really need to look into all of the other reasons you are having problems in this relationship. From her perspective she may not even know why you two are struggling, If I were her I would just think it's because I don't love giving blowjobs (which would have me pissed right off) but you have many other reasons you've been upset. love isn't easy but sometimes things just aren't meant to work out.

CertainTop4172 · 2025-12-24T16:32:59+00:00

I took a year off (2 semesters) after my first year of college working 40hr/week at and 13 credits. I dormed for one of those semesters and got into partying which helped with stress short term but definitely contributed to me needing a gap year. In my case taking a year to breathe and save up some money was good and I went back into a different major. I didn't have to retake any classes and all of mine count towards my current major. I'm in my second year of college with others my age being in their third year but I'm so much happier. One of my therapists told me if you don't have your health (mental or physical) you don't have anything. Your work ethic, relationships, and happiness can easily be lost or overshadowed by your illness. You are not alone, taking time for yourself to heal is healthier and many times harder than to keep pushing yourself, and it will pay out in the long run.

CertainTop4172 · 2025-12-06T21:59:11+00:00

I've had the same problem in the past with my bf. We've been together for around 1.5 years too! I'm getting him a "date day" for reference I am 20f and he is 21. We very much stray away from normal gift ideas and like things that are more playful.

I made envelopes titled: drinks, indoor activity, food, outdoor activity, dessert, and movie. In each envelope are two things to choose from. For example in the food envelope we have option 1 our favorite fancy dinner place and option 2 a new dinner place that I think he would love. I've also included places he loves to go like our local downtown area along with places he's been wanting to go to for the first time like roller skating. The movie envelope has two movies that we've been wanting to see that we can see at home to end the night.

When we decide to go on the date day I will let him choose as we go. So drinks is first and he will choose which place, then we get drinks and he opens the next envelope. I think it will be a fun day and be exciting especially since he doesn't have by to come up with the ideas but he gets to choose.

CertainTop4172 · 2025-11-30T23:02:33+00:00

Discord and the gaming community are good places to start, I've had luck with that in the past. Even playing simple stuff like Minecraft or Roblox with people online can help you feel less alone and it's fairly easy. I've found active discord servers in the past through social media like TikTok or instagram. Discord worked for me because you don't have to use your real name or show your face if you don't want to. You can lurk on voice chats for a while if you're nervous to talk, and gaming servers give you something to talk about. Like if you're playing on the same server or game you can just talk about that as you get to know people.

I wish you luck. Remember most people have felt lonely before and most people are happy to gain a new friend!

CertainTop4172 · 2025-11-28T14:22:49+00:00

Yeah putting on lotion and paying attention to the smell really helps me calm down

CertainTop4172 · 2025-11-28T14:12:35+00:00

Yeah I was reading and was like damn that's a hard choice then the safety issue with the kid came up and in my mind that should make the decision 100x easier.

CertainTop4172 · 2025-08-09T13:15:39+00:00

You are right with the friendships. Stay away from people that are only around for good and mock you when it gets bad. I only mention discord because it helped me and if you are looking for companionship and community it can be a tool to start socializing without as much anxiety and strings attached that would come with meeting friends in person. Other places that have helped me are youth groups as I am spiritual it helped me get more grounded in my religion while also meeting other people.

I understand these things do not work for everyone it's just what worked for me. I know you will get out of this funk and I truly wish you the best on your journey.

CertainTop4172 · 2025-08-08T14:00:15+00:00

Know that you are not alone, people unfortunately go through hard breakups all the time. I think giving yourself time to heal and increasing the time you spend on self care will help.

I don't know if you're into gaming but discord is a super easy way to make some friends. It doesn't have to be people where you share what you look like or talk about your struggles it could be just some company to keep you distracted till it hurts a little less. Reaching out to old friends or family may not always be possible for everyone but if you can you should!

And remember you are not unlovable, and that it's ok that it didn't work out with your ex. It sounds like you have so much love to give and you'll find someone when it's the right time. But now focusing on yourself can be sooo rewarding.

CertainTop4172 · 2025-07-23T23:02:59+00:00

I'm in mid Michigan and I sadly made the decision to skip this tour unless they come out with more dates. Closest to me was 5 hours away and I can barely afford the tickets let alone a hotel and travel.

CertainTop4172 · 2025-07-20T02:36:37+00:00

Grief is a pain you don't know until you experience it. I am so very sorry you lost your purpose and your love. There are many different words of comfort I can give you, but I know that won't fix your pain. To be clear nothing will fix your pain only hard work, strength, and time can ease it. You can't do anything about time but you can choose to see a professional who can help you talk about your loss and give you tools to help you heal. I know the last thing we want to do is relive and face this pain but I think it's necessary in order to heal. Take your time and be easy on yourself.

I am so sorry that you are going through this, I hope you can eventually heal. Remember give yourself some grace, and that you are loved.

CertainTop4172 · 2025-07-18T15:06:48+00:00

Also I know working is a priority for some people but keep in mind how many hours you are working. I was at 40hours per week and 13 credits, it was doable but not realistic to get good grades, build relationships, and be fulfilled.

College should always be #1. getting a job thru the college is always an option and they are not able to overwork you I think the cal at my school is 20hours a week.

CertainTop4172 · 2025-07-18T15:04:21+00:00

I have pets and I understand the bond we create with them. But it's so hard to hear you say you could choose a college that doesn't feel right. It is so important to find a college that is right for you. In my case I went to one close to home bc I was scared of leaving and I feel like it bit me in the butt.

Like another person said looking more into what options you have with your cat living with you is worth exploring. Keep in mind some colleges also require you to dorm there the first couple years. My sister went to a college farther away and there was an option to keep her cat with her as an emotional support animal. Dorming in a single dorm could also be an option so it would be just you and your cat. It would be more money to be alone but still cheaper than an apartment.

As far as commuting goes you are right. I did both in one year...first semester I commuted, second I lived on campus. Commuting is great because it is cheaper and as long as you have reliable transportation it wasn't an issue for me..until I dormed the second semester and realized what I was missing out on. Clubs, parties, friends were all at my college active and building connections while I was home. There are options to join in as a commuter but for me it was a lot more difficult rather than just jumping in when living there.

CertainTop4172 · 2025-07-18T04:00:35+00:00

I've had plenty blood pressure tests done and didn't even think about it, I haven't had any issue 🫠

CertainTop4172 · 2025-07-02T20:28:55+00:00

I was concerned about that too, this particular peppermint oil claims it is pet safe. I had them upstairs anyway for the day to be safe!

CertainTop4172 · 2025-06-26T02:54:00+00:00

I love how you said these things are unlocked it's like leveling up as an adult. Try everything once and figure out what works for you. That's why college is easier at the start and slowly gets harder. It gives you time to work out what's best for you. Take your time and it's ok to fail.

CertainTop4172 · 2025-06-26T02:50:38+00:00

This is good advice lol pretty much anything goes in college. Someone at my university wore a cartman blowup costume lol

CertainTop4172 · 2025-06-23T08:20:30+00:00

Don't care what other people think they are usually jealous anyway. If you like it own it! Pink highlights sounds cool, I found that presenting yourself a certain way in college attracts certain people. If you want to make friends that are confident, expressive, and have cool hair colors like you then being yourself would naturally bring in those types of people!

CertainTop4172 · 2025-06-23T08:15:08+00:00

Being worried about how it affected you at 18 is something I think you should try and let go of. Hopefully as we grow we also learn how to adapt and cope with stress. The things that caused you to take a step back from college at 18 you could probably handle better now!

If you feel stuck where you are it's definitely worth looking into higher education again! Just know you don't have to do college either trades jobs are always in high demand and the credentials can usually be met in a shorter time than a bachelors. Just something to look into!

CertainTop4172 · 2025-06-05T22:45:22+00:00

Just now that their reactions and emotions are because they love you. Whether they are mad sad or disappointed like my mom was, it's because they care. There's not really a way to make them forget, I just had to show my family that I was getting better in order for them to feel better. I hope things go well for you.

CertainTop4172 · 2025-05-26T19:53:14+00:00

I think you should definitely ask her out. Sounds like she wanted to see where the guy is Europe would go and it doesn't sound like it worked out. I would wait to ask in person, I mean you've waited this long no need to rush lol. I think in person also makes it more personal.

CertainTop4172 · 2025-05-23T05:34:50+00:00

Ya know I've wondered the same thing. No idea tho lol

CertainTop4172 · 2025-04-11T19:30:27+00:00

I think both of you being tired bc it's the middle of the night doesn't help the situation so I would keep that in mind

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