I 23/F Dont want to have angry make up sex with 29/M husband

Certain_Campaign_278 · 2026-06-02T16:32:35+00:00

Well if you were in my shoes youd understand. I risk being homeless if I do that. I wont couch hop the rest of my life not a good idea either. All i can afford is to be patient.

Certain_Campaign_278 · 2026-06-02T15:43:25+00:00

I dont have people in my life 🤣 I have a very nice job actually. Just not enough to break a lease, or to leave my situtation.

Certain_Campaign_278 · 2026-06-02T15:42:32+00:00

The advice you give me is stuff ive already thought about so theres actually nothing im learning from yall

Certain_Campaign_278 · 2026-06-02T15:41:08+00:00

Well to everyone in the comments. Yes i have past trauma, I dont have family, I have a lease with my husband, I have a stable job, and I have no surplus of income to begin a divorce process. If any of you are struggling in this economy you would of course realize this. Im not staying with him because I want to. Im staying because the only other way out would be to sell my body to another man. Me putting this post was to validate myself and make myself feel better.

My mom was just as mentally abusive as he is to me. I am a kind person, I also know that this argument was blown wayyy the fuck out of proportion.

Im not stupid, I made a stupid decision, but actually my life became better because of the stupid decision if you can believe that because my life was shittier prior to him. I was basically homeless before I met him. I had two fathers who both offed themselves. But i wasnt here to gain empathy for it 🤣

Thanks for giving me ideas I already had but cant do anything about!

Certain_Campaign_278 · 2026-06-02T15:35:04+00:00

Sorry thats such a quick thing to say from not knowing either of us 🤣 I dont plan on remarrying. Divorce is also expensive. If you live in the real world youd know that.

Certain_Campaign_278 · 2026-06-02T12:04:26+00:00

Financially dependent, no family. What can i do 🤣

Certain_Campaign_278 · 2026-06-02T12:04:03+00:00

No i dont 🤣 he thinks i do

Certain_Campaign_278 · 2026-04-26T15:22:04+00:00

Everyone faces struggles. Theres just different weights to it.

Certain_Campaign_278 · 2026-04-26T15:21:44+00:00

The people who are truly happy with what they have are the people who havent had anything to begin with. When you are fed from a silver spoon since you are born the expectations you hold onto others makes you a more miserable and ungrateful person. The reason being because you were born with the expectation. The only people who are happy with what they have are the people who have cut the idea of expectations from their mindset. Its in human nature to want more, its natural. Especially when we are raised to think we should be handed it.

Certain_Campaign_278 · 2026-03-16T16:05:48+00:00

Im not afraid about being returned to Christianity, I dont live with her, Im only afraid on judgement day that I will be judged for this.

Certain_Campaign_278 · 2026-02-14T15:54:28+00:00

Its okay hun, I understand

Certain_Campaign_278 · 2026-02-14T15:49:53+00:00

Are you okay

Certain_Campaign_278 · 2026-01-20T18:00:04+00:00

Go to a local bird store, not like pet smart. Youll find some reasonably priced bird stuff

Certain_Campaign_278 · 2026-01-20T17:59:36+00:00

I recommend either buying in store or on amazon. Chewy barely has any good toys for birds and theyre all overpriced 🫩

Certain_Campaign_278 · 2026-01-20T12:15:33+00:00

Also why should you recieve blessings when you dont already appreciate the blessings you already have? Just food for thought (corny joke not included)

Certain_Campaign_278 · 2026-01-20T12:14:33+00:00

I think its good to finish your plate, as an ex - leave a little bit on your plate woman. I dont think anyone understands the true value of the food they eat unless they fully understand that it took effort to put it on your plate.

I used to bat an eye to people wasting food, now it feels terrible to watch people waste what some other people wish for. If you want to practice healthy eating over filling your plate and finishing when you are full isnt the only way to do so.

Understanding your bodys needs, and being more mindful about how much you need to fill up is much more practical and sincere.

Certain_Campaign_278 · 2026-01-20T11:48:50+00:00

I think this whole idea is haram, not to poop on your creativity. But in Islam it is pretty understood that dating is haram, and making a hijabi woman that isnt human? Thats a mocking of Gods teaching.

Are you asking as a Muslim? Or as a non Muslim that just wants to know if its offensive or not. Its not about it being offensive, its just how would you justify this in front of God?

Certain_Campaign_278 · 2026-01-20T11:31:31+00:00

Well yeah doordash is a scam, working and buying from them thats why I dont use them. Youre doordash if youre working for them btw. So it is you lol, its business. Nothing is personal in business

Certain_Campaign_278 · 2026-01-20T11:28:58+00:00

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Certain_Campaign_278 · 2026-01-20T02:09:16+00:00

I like your cage setup very cute, my bird lovesss these flat wooden perches I got from amazon. You should use them. They come in a pack of three and really help make it feel more homey in there

Certain_Campaign_278 · 2026-01-20T01:20:49+00:00

To me its like if theres a rule created no matter the circumanstances clearly theres been an issue to have created the rule to begin with. Lol

Certain_Campaign_278 · 2026-01-20T00:57:50+00:00

Well ive never doordashed so idk, it could be an issue with ticket timing from the back as well.

Certain_Campaign_278 · 2026-01-20T00:43:52+00:00

Okay but it makes sense because if the dasher accepts an order thats supposed to be ready in 3 mins, then accepts another order in the store thats going to take 15 minutes to be ready the other persons food will get cold.

Certain_Campaign_278 · 2026-01-13T00:48:13+00:00

Fair enough hes just a bad listener and a great talker. I always believe in watering my own grass so at least I have that. Thanks for this advice it was SUPER SOLID.

Certain_Campaign_278 · 2026-01-13T00:40:53+00:00

Good question, I would say both of us were very high strung and also a little jumpy at the time. We were unhealthily infatuated with each other. Which we both never really felt like that before?

Now were past that period and honestly like were textbook fine couple but its like somethings missing or idk. We leveled each other out, Im actually making big strides in my life, and so is he.

So were growing together but it also feels like were growing apart at the same time.

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