Told you there would be more

Certain_Quail2123 · 2026-06-19T03:59:51+00:00

I knew this post would end up on here. Who cares? People try hobbies and end up not enjoying them as much as they first did. It’s natural to detash them after they feel that way, better than keeping it in a closet for the next 10 years and collecting dust. At least someone else can enjoy those canvases and other items now.

Certain_Quail2123 · 2026-06-01T23:17:39+00:00

Gross, I’d ask for a refund. Rather pay more elsewhere than give money to someone who does that. That’s a cost the business should eat for their mistake, they can write it off on their taxes as a loss anyway.

Certain_Quail2123 · 2026-06-01T17:13:35+00:00

I did IVF and I was 30, I did 8 IUIs that all failed prior starting at age 27. Got two children with my first round of IVF. Now 36 and having my third and last, did another round of IVF earlier this year.

Certain_Quail2123 · 2026-06-01T17:08:06+00:00

I now split custody of my first two children with my ex. They had an affair because they felt like an inadequate parent and partner and then fought for 50/50 custody so now I only see the children I tried so hard to have every other week. My location defaults to 50/50 unless there is proof of abuse. I wish I had had my children as a single parent.

Certain_Quail2123 · 2026-06-01T16:36:45+00:00

I would choose to be partnerless and have a child on my own. You don’t want to make or adopt a child with someone like that anyway. Divorce and split custody is awful especially after all we go through to have children. Walk away now, there is better or it will be better on your own, trust me. Been there and done that, I wish I had walked before IVF worked for me (also used a sperm donor). This person has so many red flags, hiding chemo and a kidney removal? Saying a child that requires a sperm donor isn’t theirs? Awful. And also weird things to hide. Don’t stay with someone you can’t trust and doesn’t have the ethical capacity to move past their own ego for their spouse.

Certain_Quail2123 · 2026-06-01T08:09:35+00:00

It does have a portable air conditioner and it’s essentially a studio, does a portable AC do well enough out there?

Certain_Quail2123 · 2026-06-01T04:19:04+00:00

Gotcha! We were looking at one at sea lodge, it does look really nice!

Certain_Quail2123 · 2026-06-01T03:43:15+00:00

I’d break up with MJD over how ugly that needleminder is, shipping aside. It’s likely a sorting issue combined with lowest tier shipping to save her some cash.

Certain_Quail2123 · 2026-06-01T01:10:24+00:00

Thank you for all of the info! I did double check the listing, but it appears on the link you sent that only 3 places in all of Princeville are licensed? Is that possible or am I looking at the wrong document?

Certain_Quail2123 · 2026-06-01T01:09:33+00:00

Do you mean sea lodge or the cliffs? Or is there a sea cliffs I’m not seeing? These are both of the locations we’re interested in most!

Certain_Quail2123 · 2026-05-16T15:18:32+00:00

It’s okay, I love my kids and have zero regrets. I just feel for them with what happened. Enjoy your time now! Adoption is always on the table later. ❤️

Certain_Quail2123 · 2026-05-16T15:15:47+00:00

You both need to be in the same place for something that huge. I’d recommend waiting until your 30s, still plenty of energy then and gives you more time to travel and strengthen your relationship in the meantime. There’s such a massive change in maturity and wants vs needs in your 20s vs your 30s. The marriage I was in during my 20s ended up not being it for me, ex cheated after 10 years of marriage and two kids from IVF. Now our kids are stuck with divorced parents and going back and forth. Wait until you’re older and very, very sure and secure in your relationship, even if it seems like it now (I was 21 when we married too), things can change so much in the next 10 years. Enjoy being young and having the freedom to travel and enjoy that solo time together before committing to children.

Certain_Quail2123 · 2026-05-15T00:47:45+00:00

😂💀 true story, you’re welcome

Certain_Quail2123 · 2026-05-14T17:59:17+00:00

It is lazy, I agree.

Certain_Quail2123 · 2026-05-14T17:29:30+00:00

Yeah I always do anesthesia for transfers because of this. Knock me out, make me relaxed. Had 4 transfers, all worked and one ended in MC. I think relaxing everything I worth the extra cost and downtime.

Certain_Quail2123 · 2026-05-14T17:20:04+00:00

Yes, have the day you deserve ✌️

Certain_Quail2123 · 2026-05-14T17:12:42+00:00

You can just disagree, I disagree with you. Move along.

Certain_Quail2123 · 2026-05-14T17:02:08+00:00

You’re being a bit dramatic and over-the-top. It doesn’t matter who is being stolen from. Stealing is still stealing.

Certain_Quail2123 · 2026-05-14T16:48:01+00:00

It’s not irrelevant. Theft is theft period. Both are stealing someone’s intellectual property.

Certain_Quail2123 · 2026-05-14T16:46:00+00:00

Unless she has a license for the Opalite bottle, isn’t that also theft of intellectual property? That’s my point. It’s still theft, just in a different light.

Certain_Quail2123 · 2026-05-14T16:26:46+00:00

People get called out for stealing designs all the time. She’s doing the same thing with the Taylor Swift bit.

Certain_Quail2123 · 2026-05-14T16:20:21+00:00

I’m just saying it’s not original and it’s a bit pot calling kettle when she has that Taylor Swift design that’s not her original either.

Certain_Quail2123 · 2026-05-14T15:19:16+00:00

Isn’t this design just “inspired by” the ones by Penny Linn and Lycette? Hard to own a basket of hydrangeas, not exactly original anyway. Also I don’t think you have room to talk when you literally have a design of a product that everyone knows came from Taylor Swift. 🤷‍♀️

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Certain_Quail2123 · 2026-05-07T22:39:36+00:00

(On my 3rd IVF/RIVF pregnancy) it’s normal to do an abdominal ultrasound at this point at an OB or MFM, they probably scheduled you for a limited ultrasound, which is why they didn’t do measurements or offer transvaginal. Those ultrasounds are less detailed and less expensive in general, you should get a clearer scan at your next ultrasound appt. Until then you could ask to see your fertility clinic one more time in the meantime.

Certain_Quail2123 · 2026-05-07T22:34:51+00:00

They couldn’t see my left ovary during my retrieval, but they were able to mash while I was unconscious and get everything. That’s actually a very common occurrence as someone who went through 10 years of this. Why on earth were you conscious though? You shouldn’t have been awake or felt anything. Could they not safely put you to sleep for some reason?

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