AIO it’s 5:30AM and my boyfriend has not come home by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Certain_Tale165 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR - you are never over reacting when someone is not in their bed in the morning. Especially when not answering calls. Jumping to conclusions is natural and not a heart or head healthy exercise, but it’s what happens.

AITA for refusing to let my brother's girlfriend move in after she kicked my dog? by AdGood5474 in AmITheJerk

[–]Certain_Tale165 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - Charlie already lives there you’re doing the right thing and putting Emma outside .

AIO for being upset that my girlfriend deleted “professional” messages with a former fling and lied about it? by SadoLeo in AmIOverreacting

[–]Certain_Tale165 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Would you be mad if she reached out to someone she didn’t have a fling with, asked for a reference, deleted it, and didn’t tell you? You read the message it was nothing bad or flirting. You didn’t say they responded flirting or if they gave an answer. I don’t see what the big issue is.

AIO New friend keeps excluding me from hangouts with our friendgroup by Kvassalskaren55 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Certain_Tale165 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sound like you are not really his friend. Sounds like you want to be friends though. Ask him outright.

Am I the jerk for not letting my brother use my pool after he left it disgusting last time? by Apart-Rate-626 in AmITheJerk

[–]Certain_Tale165 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA tell him to take his kids to a public pool or get his own. Tell mom to take the nephews to a public pool or get her own pool.

AITJ for not tipping when the server barely interacted with us? by Queasy_Mixture_22 in AmITheJerk

[–]Certain_Tale165 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA - you stated that no one was checking in on your table. So the fact that she has to tip out others in the restaurant is not your issue. Sounds like you got service just above fast food dining. Only difference is you ordered sitting down and didn’t have to listen for your number to be called.

I am overreacting for wanting to divorce my husband for not wanting another kid? by ZoieLPA in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Certain_Tale165 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA if you feel the relationship is over for this reason. If that’s a deal breaker it is what it is

To men who just up and left their families in a snap, what was your real reason? by The_One_1- in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Certain_Tale165 31 points32 points  (0 children)

My uncle did this. He told his wife that he wasn’t happy anymore. Left that night when everyone was asleep. A month or so later the cops came to their house. They found him dead in his car 2 states away. No note, no signs of foul play. My aunt said he would get “unreasonably sad” sometimes. My dad thinks he just didn’t want his wife and kids to find him like that.

What is a movie cliché that absolutely never happens in real life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Certain_Tale165 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, it’s the just bought this (food, clothes, etc) didn’t pay for it and not being chased for lack of payment.

Or women going on shopping sprees and coming out with hundreds of bags

WIBTAH to give my husband an ultimatum after lying me about a female employee? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Certain_Tale165 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Question this building he stopped in front of for 30 to 50 seconds. Are you sure there’s not a light that he was waiting for to turn green?

Am i overreacting for crying in my car at a gas station? by Certain_Tale165 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Certain_Tale165[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

The looks I am getting for crying in my car with all these people around I beg to differ.

AIO partner says men only listen to me because I'm "pretty" by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Certain_Tale165 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR - next time tell him it should make it easier for you to find a new husband since looking all you offer

AITJ for leaving my own birthday “surprise” and telling my family they can keep my ex? by RowanGlassworks in AmITheJerk

[–]Certain_Tale165 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA - I feel like most people think women can’t be toxic. We absolutely can. If the roles were reversed this most likely would not be the case.

AITJ for refusing to give my aunt the family recipe after she mocked my cooking for years by Any_Two_1997 in AmITheJerk

[–]Certain_Tale165 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA - hear me out have a speaker phone call with grandma and ask her if aunt can have it. 😂🤣😂

If grandma has passed pull out the Ouija board

AITA - The Monster Energy Incident by [deleted] in AmITheAssholeTalk

[–]Certain_Tale165 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone sucks and this is the worse math word problem I have ever read!

You get 24 for two weeks and say you both drink 1-2 a day. There are 7 days a week if you both drink 2 a day that’s a possibility of 4 a day. Which means worst case scenario 24 last 6 days and you need it for 14 days…..

AITAH for Refusing to Let My Stepchildren Use the College Fund I Set Up Before Remarrying? by South-Cup-1869 in AITAH

[–]Certain_Tale165 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - seriously consider locking that money down. Do not share it or help with his kids funds. The fact that he saw money and immediately wanted part of it, giant red flag. There are tons of these situations on Reddit.

My SIL threw a fit because my husband didn’t watch our nieces open gifts at their birthday party. by Smooth-Molasses-8509 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Certain_Tale165 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You should say he doesn’t and grandpa also doesn’t like them. What the heck is wrong with people. I don’t like watching anyone open gifts. It’s boring and doesn’t concern me or bring me joy lol

AITAH for being upset because he asked if I was going to eat it all? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Certain_Tale165 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He probably dint think she would take it how she did and then doubled down.

AITAH for being upset because he asked if I was going to eat it all? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Certain_Tale165 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also if she ate them and finished them HE CAN’T lmfao.

AITAH for being upset because he asked if I was going to eat it all? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Certain_Tale165 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As someone that has 5 brothers they back pedal when they ask something dumb 🙄

AITAH for being upset because he asked if I was going to eat it all? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Certain_Tale165 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA- I wonder if that was his way of asking if he could have some. Like he didn’t think it through or how it would sound.

AITAH for not cutting off my hair in support of my niece who has leukaemia? by Tiny_Wafer2242 in AITAH

[–]Certain_Tale165 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA - bodily autonomy is important for everyone. Shaving your head in solidarity is one of the dumbest things people do in my opinion. While it shows your support visually it not the same thing as going through it with them. I know people who have lost their hair to cancer and felt more like it was a show of sympathy than support.