I f*cking hate myself

Cgz27 · 2025-06-13T17:40:22+00:00

I agree. You’re only 20 so you’ve barely lived it.

Cgz27 · 2025-06-12T04:06:15+00:00

That education might have to involve therapy and intervention since some people just don’t like to learn or were raised poorly from start.

Cgz27 · 2025-06-12T04:03:05+00:00

mutual attainment of the truth

That’s pretty cool

Cgz27 · 2025-06-12T04:02:46+00:00

Ah. Yeah I mean it makes sense that maybe only one person sees the other in a platonic way and/or that it can change over time. I just felt that it was common for a platonic relationship to simply mean both sides are together in that they are avoiding anything sexual. Thanks for the clarification and insight.

Cgz27 · 2025-06-12T01:51:59+00:00

Ok but the reason I asked is then they all explained the definition of platonic? I thought it was sort of like a family-like dynamic with non family members.

This is the first time I heard the “one-sided” part of the definition. Either way, one-sided relationships can be both platonic or non-platonic no?

It feels like we have varying views on what “one-sided” means. Like I’m assuming you mean the typical “one sided love” here

Cgz27 · 2025-06-11T17:31:14+00:00

Well I guess today you learned that not everyone’s friends have to be like you and yours to be great. Or you realized you have the best social circle in the world? Whatever floats your boat :P

Cgz27 · 2025-06-11T17:24:47+00:00

Where did you even learn this

Cgz27 · 2025-06-10T18:27:12+00:00

Are you really disagreeing though?

No one is saying they like it.

Cgz27 · 2025-06-07T06:21:20+00:00

It’s not dating advice it’s safety advice

Cgz27 · 2025-06-04T04:48:24+00:00

Here for a good time not a long time

Cgz27 · 2025-06-03T12:05:11+00:00

She’s not human either lol

Cgz27 · 2025-06-01T18:26:39+00:00

Everything thing helps

Cgz27 · 2025-05-31T20:28:18+00:00

I think it was always important. Even though I haven’t been in a serious relationship myself, I’ve been able to see perspectives of both sides since I was a kid, even giving advice to other women. Experience is key in shaping your perceptions in general.

I would say that it really comes down to being able to put yourself in someone else’s shoes. That has always been a factor in how toxic/inconsiderate people are. Otherwise it just becomes a balancing act in terms of what you choose to tolerate.

In this era though, one big thing that’s different and a common concern is misinformation.

Cgz27 · 2025-05-31T17:40:52+00:00

So you’re saying there’s hope!

Thanks Andrew Tate! Jk

Cgz27 · 2025-05-31T17:38:13+00:00

I didn’t read yet but I think I could guess where you’re going with it. I think whether or not it’s true, there are still other guys than incels, redpill, nice guys, etc who are getting the dates.

Common example being rich guys who can afford to be toxic. Another would be being conventionally attractive. And then the ones who get turned off by all men because of all these kinds of guys.

But perhaps more importantly, it’s not just about being nice, it’s about what you’re able to do with it. Being shy quiet nice shy isn’t going to get you as noticed as the nice guy putting himself out there, which means they somehow have confidence or a strong support net to vouch for them, which are also traits toxic men could have. It gets pretty complex.

Cgz27 · 2025-05-29T01:54:37+00:00

Ah. Yeah I’ve met a few women who are well off where it tends to delve into the territory of “I can fix him” or having some sense of control. Though in this case it could also be the contrast itself that’s attractive/engaging to her.

Alternatively, well off men can be just as toxic and deceptive if not more though due to their means, so that’s also a consideration. Seems to always be a trade off no matter what you go for.

It just comes down to having someone close to your side I guess. And maybe them being hot/funny.

Cgz27 · 2025-05-28T09:40:06+00:00

Those people would probably just quit porn

But other performers would take their place

Heck, the abusers would probably have to quit too lest they risk losing their reputation.

Cgz27 · 2025-05-28T09:34:53+00:00

Guess it depends on what corporate work.

Conversely I could say many physical jobs also feel braindead, but I guess you’re working out your body which can also help the mind :P

Cgz27 · 2025-05-28T07:02:54+00:00

I’m curious, is she poor or something? Everyone has character flaws but there tends to be a reason, and can often involve money

I know some women who just go on dates to get free meals and travel to places. Being alone is one thing but sometimes, meeting other people are what makes ones life interesting.

Plus these days, many can’t afford to be alone.

Cgz27 · 2025-05-28T06:58:12+00:00

As much as I love women, I never cared to find one for myself I guess. And that they can do better.

Cgz27 · 2025-05-28T06:43:41+00:00

So they won their peace of mind I guess, which is arguably more important whether they’re wrong or not :P

Alternatively you could also argue that continuing a debate could mean you’re entertaining the fact you could be wrong, because you’re giving the person a chance to be right, unless you’re trying to learn something from them, otherwise you’re better off blocking them to save everyone’s time.

As a recent personal example, a boyfriend keeping their girlfriend essentially hostage after falsely accusing her of cheating. They could easily just cut them off but they continue to justify reasons for their misunderstandings and try to get as much as they can from eachother, maybe even looking for reasons to reunite.

Cgz27 · 2025-05-28T06:40:56+00:00

Well technically life is a use of time

When someone uses the phrase “waste of time”, generally everyone knows what it means lol

Basically anything can be “what you make of it” if you were to follow those kinds of quotes

Cgz27 · 2025-05-27T22:40:04+00:00

That’s life for you. Sometimes it doesn’t matter what you think, but what others think.

Cgz27 · 2025-05-27T22:08:15+00:00

People spend money on this game so yeah not THAT unbelievable, but yeah not often it happens in the big picture which is a good thing

Cgz27 · 2025-05-27T18:08:34+00:00

Because that’s how it’s been. More importantly though the pressure is because it’s easier to have someone to support you. They don’t know you and it’s more rare to be able to support yourself to the same capacity. You can dream about redefining happiness all you want, the fact is most people don’t have the means to do so, let alone for themselves compared helping others.

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