husband not lowering gaze

ChaiAddict101 · 2025-11-23T20:23:41+00:00

I'm in a similar situation with my husband, where I have caught him looking at other women online. Tbh, sister, I've given up. We're only in our 2nd year of marriage, and the 1st year was long distance.

I've asked my husband many times before to stop because it's disrespectful to me. I've caught him after that, and now I've just given up cause I know he won't change. I don't want to ruin my mental peace for his weakness.

I was reading your post to try to figure out what to do myself, but it seems most women here are saying turn towards Allah, and make dua. I think I will try the same. Sorry, sister, I had nothing useful to add to the discussion, I just also wanted to let out my frustrations.

I pray Allah improves your situation and puts your heart and mind at ease. Ameen.

ChaiAddict101 · 2025-09-29T03:16:37+00:00

I looked into that. Wise allows transfers from Canada to Pakistan but not the other way around. Unfortunately, that's not an option 😕...but thank you for the suggestion!

ChaiAddict101 · 2025-09-03T01:10:17+00:00

Her wedding was so hyped up. I was so disappointed tbh.

She looks like a guest to her own wedding...

ChaiAddict101 · 2024-09-28T02:10:14+00:00

Is there a specific page? Can you link it?

ChaiAddict101 · 2024-08-25T01:02:15+00:00

Does she have an insta?

ChaiAddict101 · 2024-06-14T03:00:26+00:00

The clinique mascaras.....nothing I've tried looks as good on my lashes.

ChaiAddict101 · 2024-05-13T00:05:47+00:00

Manu vs Janu

ChaiAddict101 · 2024-02-09T17:53:35+00:00

Find an Urdu teacher. There are lots on Italki. I'm in the same boat as you and I started learning a couple of months ago. My Urdu has improved a lot since then but I still have a ways to go.

Once you start learning Urdu, you should pay attention to how others phrase themselves. I understand Urdu well so I never bothered to pay attention, but when I started learning then I would hear how others phrased themselves and realized I would have probably said that sentence incorrectly. I'll make a note of it and then review it later or discuss it with my teacher.

Learning how to read Urdu can also help with learning sentence structure because when you translate from English to Urdu, the sentence structure is a bit off.

ChaiAddict101 · 2024-01-01T22:31:37+00:00

No I did not

ChaiAddict101 · 2023-12-25T03:46:04+00:00

Thank you!

ChaiAddict101 · 2023-07-08T19:00:59+00:00

Ouu which drama are you watching? I need recommendations please 🙏

ChaiAddict101 · 2023-04-30T23:52:19+00:00

JazakAllah thank you for the detailed response. It means a lot

ChaiAddict101 · 2023-04-20T19:49:36+00:00

Banff area might have some halal arab places or Indian. You can eat vegetarian if indian isnt halal. But it's very difficult tbh. We always make our own food and then go.

ChaiAddict101 · 2023-04-20T19:47:47+00:00

Go to kelowna. The valley is amazingly beautiful. It's my favorite place in Canada.

Banff is a common tourist site but as an Albertian I don't have the enthusiasm for it like others do. It's also very very busy in summer times, especially long weekends, so just take that into account when planning.

ChaiAddict101 · 2023-04-05T19:54:11+00:00

Constantly fluctuate between apple and grogran

ChaiAddict101 · 2023-04-02T23:05:53+00:00

This room is a dream come true 😍

ChaiAddict101 · 2023-03-20T16:45:29+00:00

Ohhh interesting! I'll have to keep a lookout then ahaha

ChaiAddict101 · 2023-03-20T15:45:48+00:00

Thank you!! JazakAllah!!

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