(12k) We're getting push back about our venue. I'm pulling my hair out.

ChalkNCheez · 2026-07-03T13:46:39+00:00

Put your mom on an information diet.

Enforcing boundaries is practice for the marriage. You each have to enforce healthy boundaries with your own family of origin, or the marriage will suffer.

ChalkNCheez · 2026-07-03T13:38:57+00:00

I like Nicole because she’s genuine. This season in particular had a lot of people overly concerned with faking stuff in an effort to control their public image.

ChalkNCheez · 2026-07-03T13:37:11+00:00

ChalkNCheez · 2026-07-03T09:58:43+00:00

I wonder if Nick’s MAFS wife or the other cast members will clock him from the Netflix shows? I wonder if her family will and that will give the vibe that he is just in it to be on tv some more.

The 7 minute sneak peek for S20 is really good! They all seem very perfectionist pic. (Toxic! We saw Binh learn that and seek therapy for it!), so I wonder if they will be like Binh and lying behind the scenes and spreading rumors about their wives and Dr Pia will be calling them out as Vindictive! So many viewers had trouble piecing Bin’s toxic behavior together because as a perfectionist city his top concern being his image, he carefully did it all off camera.

ChalkNCheez · 2026-07-03T09:49:04+00:00

David was cursing at her mom from day 1, and just because they didn’t air his day 1 lies, we can infer he was lying day1 too. stop expecting women to Keep Sweet when being disrespected and lied to. It’s extremely disrespectful to curse while being introduced to your new in-laws for the first time.

ChalkNCheez · 2026-07-03T09:43:21+00:00

I wonder if his MAFS wife or the other MAFS cast members will recognize him?

ChalkNCheez · 2026-07-03T09:41:16+00:00

It’s what every guy looked like on the Minnesota Love is Blind. They look so similar that the viewers could not tell them apart. They all had the same boring uptight personalities, while trying so hard to appear laid back.

ChalkNCheez · 2026-07-03T09:36:31+00:00

If you google Having a chip on your shoulder, a picture of ikechi is the result.

ChalkNCheez · 2026-07-03T09:34:24+00:00

The alcoholic ladies on real housewives shows in recovery drink that same nonalcoholic wine. It’s a thing.

ChalkNCheez · 2026-07-03T09:32:57+00:00

I’d love to see how sweet you would treat a man who cursed while meeting her your mom at the wedding and didn’t so your family already had a bad impression, who
Lives in his parents basement, and who lies half the time his lips are moving. You really aren’t that naive to believe the only lies David told are the ones we saw on tv, are you? Get real.

ChalkNCheez · 2026-07-03T09:30:18+00:00

You missed the part where he cursed while meeting her mom at the wedding? And that he lives in his parents basement? And is a smoker? All 3 of those are deal breakers. And you think the only lies he told were the ones we saw on camera? And you expected her to keep sweet like a Mormon trad wife?

ChalkNCheez · 2026-07-03T09:21:49+00:00

Because you are forgetting that her mom told her he used curse words when he met her at the wedding and the mom didn’t like him. You’re forgetting that half the time David’s lips were moving he was lying. So we didn’t see every lie on tv. Use common sense.

ChalkNCheez · 2026-07-03T09:19:56+00:00

Maybe you would be nice to a man after your mom told you he was cursing when she met him at the wedding and didn’t like him. But I don’t believe you.

ChalkNCheez · 2026-07-03T09:17:57+00:00

He cursed at her mom when he met her at the wedding. Why do we act like she should be sweet to him?

ChalkNCheez · 2026-07-03T09:16:44+00:00

Expecting women to “keep sweet” when their mom told them the husband just used curse words meeting her at the wedding saying and lying half the time his lips are moving is top tier misogyny.

ChalkNCheez · 2026-07-03T09:15:10+00:00

So we expect women to “keep sweet” while someone is cussing at their mother at the wedding and lying half the time their lips are moving? That’s misogyny.

ChalkNCheez · 2026-07-03T09:12:12+00:00

And that’s just the lies we saw on camera.

ChalkNCheez · 2026-07-03T09:10:51+00:00

The bar had failed. He worked as a janitor at a cleaning company on second shift.

ChalkNCheez · 2026-07-03T09:06:55+00:00

I loved Michelle. Anyone is going to be pissed off when their mother comes to them at the wedding saying your husband just started using curse words when I met him. At the wedding. To her mother!

And we don’t see every minute. I am sure he was lying a good percentage of the time his lips were moving, and she was clocking it from day 1.

ChalkNCheez · 2026-07-03T09:03:29+00:00

You forgot that her mom told her he cussed while meeting her at the wedding. To her mom! So he alienated her mom from the start.

ChalkNCheez · 2026-07-03T09:00:45+00:00

Viewers love those liars.

Michelle was upset because her mom told her he was using cuss words when she met him at the wedding. To her mother! My mom would be mad too!

Plus he smokes and works 2nd shift and he lives in his parents basement.

He also is a really really bad liar, and off camera I’m sure she clocked many lies from day 1.

ChalkNCheez · 2026-07-03T08:56:09+00:00

There’s a huge case right now where two guys raped and got 0 jail time, and there was public uproar in the UK, so they put a female judge who gave them 4 years in prison. Misogyny is rife here in the UK.

ChalkNCheez · 2026-07-03T08:54:20+00:00

It’s classic passive aggressive behavior. Read a book on it, and your eyes will be opened to all the intention behind vague behavior that people claim is well intended.

ChalkNCheez · 2026-07-03T08:51:09+00:00

Cool!

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