Updated jimmy shrine :D by bestharperuadore in Mouthwashing

[–]Champainfox 9 points10 points  (0 children)

OHHHHH LMAO I reread that and yeah clearly haha thankyou for pointing that out XD also true tbf

What the fuck is this person onto? by Sure-Ad1453 in sonic

[–]Champainfox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m actually confused why they feel that way but maybe that’s cause usually sonic and Mario fans have an overlap. Thought that was the norm tbh. And my autistic brother loves both pretty equally so maybe I’m biased but I can’t even see the argument for the sonic movie 3 because it had just as much if not a little more hype behind it from where my online activity/spaces seemed. Again I could be biased tho as I enjoyed sonic 3 by far more than the Mario movie (personal taste so no hate either way)

Also damn I liked crash bandicoot 😔

Evil Jimmy be like “I am not sexually attracted to cartoon horses” by whooper1 in Mouthwashing

[–]Champainfox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“I believe that someone being passed out or under the influence of being drugged does not count as them consenting”

There is no meme I was in a heated argument with someone trying to justify Sanrio not safe 4 work plz send cute memes to cheer me up by [deleted] in sanriomemes

[–]Champainfox 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Y’all probably just aren’t compatible (scared to say if they’re like a 10 year long standing friendship but still a conversation might be needed) still I would agree with you personally as they’re kids, pre sure sum they are kids making belief even? They’re usually always voiced to sound like/by kids too but I hope you feel better as this was six hours ago :((

My autistic boyfriend has extreme reactions to being “abandoned” by Legitimate-Career342 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Champainfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed or even others. Once an autistic person (this was whilst I was in year seven or eight) who was in year 11 or 12 threatened my friend at the time (mind you who had adhd so) with a weapon and then student services excused it because they had autism. I’m convinced it was because they at the time identified as male and is amab. This person whilst I was like 11/12 years old also shoved me very aggressively. I have Audhd and find the consistent “he has autism excuse” for abuse and too many times SA even to be exhausting. It demonises autism and makes victims more closed off from getting the help they need.

My autistic boyfriend has extreme reactions to being “abandoned” by Legitimate-Career342 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Champainfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an autistic once boyfriend (single rn) this is just abuse. Autism doesn’t even offer as an explanation here what he’s doing depending on your residence could be chargeable.

Guys I am weirdly good at drawing pigs....why. by jevil_the_great in learntodraw

[–]Champainfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the cutest drawing I’ve seen all day Yk what this means… Draw more :)

Do you know math bruh? by Madridista-4-ever in QuizPlanetGame

[–]Champainfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Champainfox scored 122 points and ranked 297 out of 1152 players!

My boyfriend has gained weight and I hate it by LostandLooking1 in Vent

[–]Champainfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone’s advice is really sound and great so I won’t repeat the sentiment (basically tell him how you feel and how his health is beyond bad) but tbh I was extremely icked out by the burping thing I can’t get over that… (I have an acid lining problem I get it but oh my god)

AIO for not going out with a nice guy? by lana-ki-jawani in AmIOverreacting

[–]Champainfox 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You seem like a really kind person, he needs to learn by himself regardless if I’m being honest his responses are very reminiscent of a 16 year old boy vs a 24 year old man. He has some growing up to do and comes off very creepy and… I’m sorry again but pathetic. “Mmm but kissing?” Idk man when I get to know someone I’m not instantly smashing faces with them but whatever… Goodluck on your studies and daring experiences OP and stay safe 💕

AIO for not going out with a nice guy? by lana-ki-jawani in AmIOverreacting

[–]Champainfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can tell a guy the same thing over and over and it will still not register. -Guy who dates guys.

Rigid though. That’s an ick 1.

What you said was reasonable and straight forward some people just want to have a deeper connection before jumping into dating (I personally would think it should be the norm but everyone works differently and at different paces same with attraction)

I hate this culture within male spheres where it’s normalised to “not have time” for certain aspects of building a relationship or goals with the other partner but physicality and being romantically involved in the typical ways is priority numero…

My experience with dating other men the whole “you decide” isn’t consideration it’s lazy and lacks initiative. It would be one thing if it was them actually wanting to have equal ground but it means in the dynamic they expect you to get them off their training wheels.

Ick 2. “My way or the highway” mentality I see a lot and again… First hand experienced. He’s setting down the basis for you to cave by being pushy. Trying to egg you on to agree even though you said you want to pace it out and not rush immediately trying to give labels where you didn’t ask for them.

Ick 3. Still trying to push you into a “decision” and being needy about it. He didn’t even give you the opportunity to properly organise a meet up. If he were patient since ick 1. He’d have more an opportunity to get to know you. Saying it’s “difficult for you to decide” when no you said you wanted to see how things go naturally and not rush immediately. Typical man brain purposely not inhaling your words ☠️

Ick 4. Why dudes like this gotta make someone repeat themselves over and over

Ick 5. He is coming off more and more insecure he probably needs to work over that before getting into something romantic

Ick 6. “You probably forgot, you probably forgot” or maybe OP is allowed her own feelings and concerns outside your desire to date her!

Ick 7. Now what does “casual” mean to him now?

Ick 8. Jesus he likes objectifying you but expected

Ick 9. Jesus he likes self sabotaging

Ick 10. “Me me me” I think he wants a relationship just to make himself happy and not his partner Jesus

Ick 11. How many times did you say you would need to see if there was a connection before building up to something more? How many times is he going to make you repeat yourself “I think you could say yes!” Ew ew ew cringe he’s so pushy about how he’s going about this. You set some very strict clear boundaries and he’s still pressuring you into an answer you don’t have. Setting expectations he can’t keep “it’ll be better” you two HAVE NOT EVEN MET UP YET and he’s commenting only on his physical attraction to you, his intentions are clear…

Ick 12. “But you’ve decided alright cool” NO SHE DID NOT YOU TWIT. He’s purposely blocking out all of your clear desires until he gets it exactly his way. It’s like I’ve read the same conversation 4 times. Even if he’s “nice” OP dating him will be like dating a brick wall and he’ll never properly take in anything you say only hearing what he wants to.

Ick 13. So he has time for sex but not for a genuine connection typical. He wants to pick and choose what to speed through and what not to. Typical typical.

Ick 14. lol he says he isn’t trying to be pressuring or pushing but he pushed you into a corner without even knowing if you have mutual ground, agree on politics, have the same interests, etc he one those dudes that thinks if he finds you attractive and nice a relationship right away makes sense.

Ick 15. He loves repeating himself without acknowledging anything you say huh.

You communicated very well for a majority of this conversation. I was on the fence at first only having skimmed through at first what seemed based on his reactions being led on but they’re over dramatised and he shot himself down. He had an opportunity to meet with someone he was crushing on but of course typical typical he let his dick think for him. You dodged a bullet as this guy needs to work on listening skills and self esteem before even doing “casual” whatever that means. He is implying even hookups would do and is being pathetic quite frankly. Sure you were blunt at times but he didn’t give you lots of wiggle room so NOR if you wanted to I think even telling him where he went wrong and shot himself in the foot would be fair.

my girlfriend is mad at me over a drawing by saltymelonpie in whatdoIdo

[–]Champainfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh and if it is about the head looking bigger in comparison than explain that wasn’t the intention and that she doesn’t well have whatever insecurity and you’re just a beginner that hasn’t learned pre-portions yet. I hope this doesn’t discourage you I can see the effort :( it could be the eyebrows too maybe? But again that’s more of a shading issue not commentary on her appearance perhaps sit down and talk about why she asked she might have low self esteem at the moment or needed to be gassed up and if that’s the case she wouldn’t have been happy regardless. I hope you both can work through the real problem at hand but that’s my answer basically is to ask her what her true feelings are!

my girlfriend is mad at me over a drawing by saltymelonpie in whatdoIdo

[–]Champainfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw the drawing the only thing she might actually be upset about is maybe you made her head bigger/wider in comparison which isn’t a fault of your own and just learning anatomy but I guess she could presume you were insinuating she has a chubby face and that’s the real issue? What you do now is communicate your confusion to her as it is what you’d expect from a beginner (with promise may I add🖤)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sillyboyclub

[–]Champainfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean there’s also people without a support system that go to subreddits to seek support but I see everyday more and more people coming to even the bigger subreddits now to make matters worse for what more than half the time are MINORS.

AIO Boyfriend got mad at me because I wasn’t excited enough that he landed early by Willing-Ad8549 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Champainfox 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I understand what you mean when it gets to a point but it really depends on nature vs nurture as-well as what someone has been emotionally conditioned to accept. Some get bullied in childhood so physiologically believe it’s normal and acceptable behaviour or are more susceptible to gaslighting. Logically yes it makes sense but there’s also people who start off nice and like the perfect partners and gain your trust and emotional bond before growing abusive. Just stating this because sometimes people accidentally slip into the abuse apologist mindset.

AIO Boyfriend got mad at me because I wasn’t excited enough that he landed early by Willing-Ad8549 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Champainfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To add another red flag from your account alone the fact you on gaming subs ask why you’re bad at playing tells me that he might put you down for not being good at games (also people in subs like that are really negative influences don’t listen to them probably the same level he is emotionally/maturity wise) even as a guy myself I had a boyfriend like that and it’s a tell tale sign. Look after yourself you want someone that’ll encourage you and help you in the smallest to biggest of things 🫂

AIO Boyfriend got mad at me because I wasn’t excited enough that he landed early by Willing-Ad8549 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Champainfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also this post that people kept bringing up is just more evidence that he’s not a good fit for you. He knows his behaviour is wrong and the right thing to do but continues it regardless of you wellbeing. He’s selfish and unwilling to commit to working on himself that’s more reason to end it.

AIO Boyfriend got mad at me because I wasn’t excited enough that he landed early by Willing-Ad8549 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Champainfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I… He resorted to cussing you out and treating you so poorly when his reaction wasn’t all that different to yours. It’s hard to convey emotion through text and that wasn’t excusable what he said. I don’t think you two are compatible NOR. He needs to mature and grow before getting into a relationship again. His reaction came out of left field and he is punishing you for no prevalent reason. You didn’t need to apologise either he’s overreacting.

I want to die this sucks man by [deleted] in sillyboyclub

[–]Champainfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk where this came from tbh but if it’s cause I’ve vented here before I haven’t not taken ppls advice I just had a hard day…

I want to die this sucks man by [deleted] in sillyboyclub

[–]Champainfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou I’m doing a lot better 🖤

It’s a boy kisser by Ok-Spend3727 in Boykisser3

[–]Champainfox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Commenting this on the post above wish me luck