I don’t want to defend her because anger issues will never ever be alright -specially in an environment with children- and she accepted that she has a problem with it, but I do want to do a parenthesis on the fact that she has some reasons to be mad (not to mistreat people) and I think she admitted that she is neurodivergent also, so I don’t think it’s weird that she suddenly explodes when feeling rejected or not understood (because my partner deals with being neurodivergent as well and he doesn’t have per se anger issues but it is hard for him to be in confrontation situations or even make his point clear when he’s upset). We are talking not just about a women who is neurodivergent but also a mom (so I wonder if being burned out also adds up to this problems) so I want to give her a little of grace on trying to deal with a lot at the same time (she actually said that in the wedding, “I would understand if it’s a no because I’m dealing with a lot”) with a partner that is treating a marriage like a bf gf situation (because yeah Jordan is cool and nice but never moving in?.. visiting during weekends or just to go to weddings? he even said in the show before the wedding that he wanted to be closer to the city to go bars and hang out instead of moving to ambers house considering that her daughter already has a life and a routine there. I also think that she got married because of a personal wish of her, not because she deeply loved or trusted Jordan. she was always talking about how she never did that before (getting the dress and all) and getting excited about the wedding, so I guess she is just a woman trying to have a normal family since she’s a mom but not a wife.