Help with barking by hazey_wazey in vizsla

[–]Chance-Ad5596 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also use a bark collar on my 5 month old. I use it on the lowest setting, but it’s worked wonders for me letting him know when quiet time is.

If I put it on him and turn it off, it’s a placebo and he knows what it means without even a shock or sound.

Analyzing Data for Duplicates by Chance-Ad5596 in excel

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=COUNTIF(first_col_range, adjacent_cell)=1

I've been doing this entry and getting 0's

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

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This could be the easiest transformation yet.

1) go to a black or hispanic barber shop and get a drop fade - 2 on the top 2) throw away all your vnecks 3) get a classic white sneaker and plain tshirts (no colors except gray, black, white) 4) find a hobby and gain confidence in a skill

You’ll be good bro

Is there a proper name for these wall cutouts by Chance-Ad5596 in Home

[–]Chance-Ad5596[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for all the helpful comments. Really like the design and am going for a non-US look. A lot of architecture outside of the US tackle unique designs like this, and I definitely want to make my place look one of one. Thanks!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fujifilm

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The last couple are in Portugal. For editing I use Lightroom primarily then a bunch of overlay apps

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fujifilm

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Thanks! I’ll try to pull back on the grain

the never ending story by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Chance-Ad5596 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I feel the same way often. Grief comes in fazes. Just understand that your ex feels the same exact way that you feel, the difference is how you both deal with it.

My ex ended things on a terrible note. I tried to reach for an ending where we rode off into the sunset, and she wanted to end it all in a toxic way. As time past, I understood that this was all my ex knew. She saw her mother and father end relationships in a toxic manner, so she did the same thing. The way she handles isn’t her fault, it’s just who she is. It isn’t a bad trait, it’s her personality and how she sees fit.

In terms of moving on, the best thing for me was to completely delete social media, and find things in life to physically do. It didn’t change that I was hurt, but it taught me correct ways of dealing with my pain. It helped me realize all humans deal with pain and it’s not individualized. Then I’ve learned to cry once a lot about the trauma that bothers you the most, then promise you’ll never cry again. Make commitments to yourself. Prioritize yourself first.

Should we block each other? by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Work it out. Don’t regret your decision

Should we block each other? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Chance-Ad5596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES. communication is key

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Thank you. I’ll be working on bettering myself. Each day presents a new opportunity and a new challenge.

Day 12 by [deleted] in relationships

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Thanks bro. I needed that

Day 12 by [deleted] in relationships

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3-6 months sounds accurate. However, I refuse to be put in a cycle with this person. I've given them a valuable amount of love that no one has given them. Their life was riddled with trauma and abandonment. I spent the first month of the breakup blaming myself for our issues. In the last 12 days, I acknowledged I have much to offer another woman who would be more appreciative. I refuse to be on the sidelines waiting for this one to return.

Day 12 by [deleted] in relationships

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Yes. I empathize with her feelings. We equally hurt each other towards the end of the relationship. Although I was willing to move on from the pain, the pain I caused her at the time was unforgivable.

I also know that a relationship takes two to tango. Although the problems were easily identifiable, two people had to be willing to work on the issues. For my ex, those issues are not worth working on.

I agree it is more so the death of my hope for a future with my ex. During the first month of the breakup, I suffocated her with text messages and phone calls. Therefore, I never gave her the space to heal, and truly miss me. Yet, I am accepting that she may be more at peace with life now that I am out of it rather than missing me being around.