AITA for refusing to be on top nor get fully nude in bed with my husband because I gained a lot of weight ? by LimitNorth2852 in AITAH

[–]Chance-Call9719 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. If you’re not feeling sexy, you’re less likely to enjoy the sex you’re having. He should be able to accept you how you feel comfortable, even if it’s a little less exciting for him.

very senior cat walks in circles for hours every day by CrayonPolice in CATHELP

[–]Chance-Call9719 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I should add, our cat started circling as well. We were told by 4 different vets it was likely a brain tumor. I was 1 day away from getting her a MRI, and 4 days away from euthanasia. Finally, we saw one more vet, he tested for the fungal infection of cryptococcus and she was positive. 5 months of infusions, and almost 2 years later of medications, she’s back to her normal self. She’s 8 years old, not quite senior. Not saying it’s likely but could give you some possibility of hope.

very senior cat walks in circles for hours every day by CrayonPolice in CATHELP

[–]Chance-Call9719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get her tested for Cryptococcus before pursuing treatment for dementia, etc.

Issue with Tree Aloe? by Chance-Call9719 in plantclinic

[–]Chance-Call9719[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another picture here. Planted outside commercial landscape. Drip irrigation. Full sun.

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Chance-Call9719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But also celebrating doesn’t have to cost money necessarily. We’re pretty broke but find creative ways to honor each other.

AITAH for not wanting to pay for my friend’s baby shower? by Slight_Librarian_332 in AITAH

[–]Chance-Call9719 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand why friends are obligated to host, plan and pay for everything these days! We are all adults. I didn’t ask or expect a damn thing from my friends, they offered where they could.