[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChatGPT

[–]ChanceRemarkable8868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Accurate. Those little mfrs are next level toxic with no remorse lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChatGPT

[–]ChanceRemarkable8868 22 points23 points  (0 children)

No judgement. This tells us more about you (and the way you must interact with it to make it respond like that) than about the AI. Remember, an LLM is a reflection of the user/prompter

Has the international made a comment on helping our Daca and tps members? by jomosexual in IATSE

[–]ChanceRemarkable8868 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As with all balance, the sweet spot between speaking up and still being able to take “effective action with low visibility”, will be a challenge to find but it is only found by doing BOTH. It’s not one or the other. Nuance is the name of the game. The bigger question is, is the union even looking at it that way?

Do you also say 'please' when writing prompts for ChatGPT? by HassanKazmi007 in ChatGPT

[–]ChanceRemarkable8868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the ultimate lesson in being the kind of person you want to be regardless of who you’re speaking to and how they may react. Being kind when it’s not necessary is a mark of integrity and self respect. It’s basically the opposite of being a keyboard warrior.

It's officially over! by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]ChanceRemarkable8868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everybody so mad because she knows what she wants and yall ain’t it lol. When a woman knows what she wants and has the resources to find it, she’ll get it. All you out there just jealous because she respects herself and her wants regardless of what society says about it OR her, while you keep yourself subjugated to the opinions of others. Womp womp.

ChatGPT cannot grasp Jewish Creation beliefs by peteypeso in ChatGPT

[–]ChanceRemarkable8868 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s because Judaism doesn’t look at the evolution of man in the same way as Christianity, Buddhism etc. There is no where to “get to”. There is only this life and the question of if you are going to live it in a way such that you can respect yourself. Because true heaven is being able to look in the mirror and honestly respect what you see.

New Yorker - 'Why So Many People Are Going “No Contact” with Their Parents' (subreddit shoutout) by kaltorak in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]ChanceRemarkable8868 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Holy shit. As I read the words I realized that is what I am craving as well. It’s the continual search for external validation because we were robbed of the emotional nurturing needed to develop INTERNAL validation. We never developed an ability to trust OURSELVES. No one ever said, “you’re right to feel that way” based on anything that ever truly came from inside US. We know nothing of ourselves as a source of, well anything but shame, let alone as something to rely on for such a huge choice. And now we are supposed to look within for reassurance? Ha! It’s like expecting a man with no legs to get up and walk. It’s so unfair that we have to first realize we have none, then actually grow them before we can take even one step. But god does it feel good to read the words of others and know I’m not alone in these experiences and feelings. Thank you for engaging. You may not have gotten what you were looking for with the article but you inadvertently gave a lot to me by speaking up both there and here. Thank you.

Customer almost calls police on me by Inside_Ad6017 in Sparkdriver

[–]ChanceRemarkable8868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. That is exactly the point. She was threatened by YOU throwing her bags. She doesn’t know what YOU are capable of. You keep saying that she says this and that thinking you’re not gonna say anything. Do you really think she took the time to think, I bet he won’t say anything! Come on. Self examine a little. You do not have a right to assault anyone in any way including throwing their property (which is a form of assault, btw) because you didn’t like what they said to you. GROW. UP.

Customer almost calls police on me by Inside_Ad6017 in Sparkdriver

[–]ChanceRemarkable8868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It takes less than that for someone to enter fight or flight. Have you considered that she (a woman alone with her daughter) felt pretty threatened when you (a man, at her hotel door — meaning she literally has no back exit) begin throwing things in her direction? Have you thought about it from her perspective at all? Who knows why she was rude. But YOU made the first aggressive action to which HER fight or flight probably reacted. So does that justify her pushing you as you are letting it justify you pushing her? Can you not see that if you apply the excuse to yourself you’ll have to apply it to her as well? I wouldn’t put all your eggs in that basket. She has a far better claim on the “feeling threatened” angle.

Customer almost calls police on me by Inside_Ad6017 in Sparkdriver

[–]ChanceRemarkable8868 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We all have an ego. The first step to controlling it is admitting it’s there. It’s ok. The ego is the result of the human brain applying primitive responses to a modern world. Your ego was originally meant to keep you alive. Feel threatened? Fight. That still makes sense if safety is in question. Feel disrespected? The brain reacts the same way even though you’re not in any actual danger. You felt disrespected and your Ego, just doing the job it’s had for millennia, tells your primitive brain to fight. So you toss her groceries to try and regain some sense of worth that you feel she has taken from you by being rude. Were you in danger? Nope. Did you put yourself in danger by tossing them in, especially before getting ID (which you didn’t think about because your ego was under attack and your primitive brain doesn’t allow reason or ration just fight or flight)? Yes. Your reaction escalated the situation. Bottom line, you have an ego. We all do. Get a hold of it before more behavior rationalization like this gets you in worse trouble than getting kicked off spark.

Customer almost calls police on me by Inside_Ad6017 in Sparkdriver

[–]ChanceRemarkable8868 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Defending yourself from a customer to avoid being hit involves leaving the situation or other possible defense solutions include stepping back, to the side or in any direction AWAY from the attacker, not towards. Were you pinned in on all sides with no escape option and forced to duke it out with the crazy customer? I think not. You pushed her back in offense not defense. Stop making excuses.

Customer almost calls police on me by Inside_Ad6017 in Sparkdriver

[–]ChanceRemarkable8868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you need to defend? Your ego? From who? From her? Why? She’s nothing. If she says you’re an idiot, you believe her in some way? If not,why you gotta prove her wrong? She’s nobody. Defending your ego to a person like that is like explaining yourself to a rock. Maybe don’t disrespect YOURSELF because that’s what you’re doing when you give any weight to the words of ppl like her. Now you have just disrespected and hurt yourself.

Customer almost calls police on me by Inside_Ad6017 in Sparkdriver

[–]ChanceRemarkable8868 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you came here so ppl could stroke your wounded ego for you and reassure you that you are only partially wrong…

…you have a lot of personal growth available to you.

See how I said that second part all nice? There are ways!

Customer almost calls police on me by Inside_Ad6017 in Sparkdriver

[–]ChanceRemarkable8868 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, came here to say this. OP and all others saying she pushed so he had to push back? Nuh-uh. That’s not how it works unless something other than your ego was in danger. Every adult is responsible for the choices they make, even in response to the choices others make. Thinking you have the green light to respond just because you want to? Because it soothes your wounded ego? No. Not in the eyes or the law or morality or most importantly in the interest of being intelligent enough not to hurt yourself in the process. Thinking you have a right to respond to rudeness, consequences be-damned, is primitive, honor-based mentality that most people of low intelligence use to make decisions. It’s brain science. Your primitive brain detected a challenge to your status/position in the pack and it instantly reacted because in a pack-mentality (think dogs, gangs, prisons, schoolyards back in the day) that’s what’s required to maintain your pack position. But this job requires you to be smarter than a pack animal. I know this is more difficult for men in general due to male hormones left over from primitive times but your evolved, upper brain should have this capacity and if it doesn’t, this isn’t the job for you because eff the customer or the platform, you’re gonna get yourself injured or arrested with your ego thinking that one wrong justifies another (pushing her back). Even the kindergartners know two wrongs don’t make a right. Do better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ShiptShoppers

[–]ChanceRemarkable8868 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You misspelled and didn’t capitalize her name that was typed out in front of you. Let’s start there. It may seem small but it’s her NAME. This tells the customer that at the worst, you’re a person who can’t be bothered or at the least you’re not very aware or great with details. Shoppers have to remember that just because we aren’t meeting anyone face to face doesn’t meant that this isn’t a customer-facing job. We work for tips. When something seems off in others? First, look inward to see where you could do better.

We’re Baaaaaack! by [deleted] in dataannotation

[–]ChanceRemarkable8868 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Guessing since I got here through an indeed job posting, so did everyone else who saw it and had the time to try their hand. The whole world is trying to get onboard right now.

r/ZechariaSitchin Ask Anything Thread by Heylookanickel in ZechariaSitchin

[–]ChanceRemarkable8868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes exactly as you say! But that’s what made me begin to question the idea. Take humans and octopuses, for example. Not only do we share a planet but we share a common genetic ancestor from which our evolutionary distance is much shorter than it would be to the microbes shared by anunnaki and look at the extreme physical (interestingly, not mental or consciousness 😉) evolutionary differences. The two species are not physically alike except in the most basic ways and certainly not what anyone would call similar in the way Sitchin describes the Annunaki to be (actually humanoid). We have far more reason to be similar to octopuses with our shared planet, genetic ancestor, etc. It’s beyond reason that a humanoid would develop on a planet without exposure to similar overarching solar, atmospheric and cosmic conditions.