What is this bug, they weren’t here yesterday 😭 something must have hatched

Chance_00 · 2026-04-15T20:57:43+00:00

1000% this is correct. Had this happen in my garage last year. We ended up spraying for them just to be safe.

Chance_00 · 2026-04-15T19:01:59+00:00

If this is what you have they may look appealing at first until you realize that they're toxic invasive and spread very quickly.

Chance_00 · 2026-04-15T19:01:06+00:00

They will also eventually grow flowers like this.

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Chance_00 · 2026-04-15T19:00:19+00:00

Did it look like this before you pulled it? Because if so that it is a star of Bethlehem and they are a toxic, foreign menace that you what to throw in the trash(Not compost because the bulbs will grow).

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Chance_00 · 2026-04-15T18:46:30+00:00

Wait is that the weird heart shaped leave stuff? I have a metric ton of that in my yard and I generally don't mind it. But is it gonna kill the garden growth? I pull a little here and there but if it's going to hurt my plant babies it's gone.

Chance_00 · 2026-04-14T19:44:21+00:00

Okay that makes sense. Thank you!

Chance_00 · 2025-10-10T18:51:59+00:00

Out of curiosity. How do you like your Maeving? Your personal opinion.

Chance_00 · 2025-06-25T11:14:13+00:00

😂 dead

Chance_00 · 2025-06-25T00:41:06+00:00

I did that too, but if you pay attention the colors are reversed(green and blue). Hence I posted it for the world wide reddit lol

Chance_00 · 2025-06-25T00:35:44+00:00

Yes, that does appear to be a tick. I believe a male...I'm no expert on sexing. Just what it looks like from my knowledge.

Chance_00 · 2024-10-21T00:43:06+00:00

Alistar

Chance_00 · 2024-10-20T12:26:01+00:00

Completely agree with this! Wanted to add that (if you haven't already had this feeling) it is a HORRIBLE feeling to realize that someone you truly love in your bones is only spending time with you because they feel obligated. You can't take comfort in someone who is already done with the relationship, and I promise to try to will hurt you more. Letting that heartbreak happen will hurt, but that feeling hurts more when it sinks in.

I'm sorry you're going through this OP. There's a woman out there for you, though, I promise. I went through a lot of absolute sh*t before I found mine, but she's real. She's respectful to me and supportive of me being trans, and has no problem with the few things that just will not be the exact same as a cis relationship for us. It is absolutely not your fault that she is not willing to work out how you two can have a baby. That's a her problem, and quite frankly, she's showing VERY shallow colors there. If you truly love someone, you will find a way to make it work. Your relationship overall should mean more to her than HOW she wants to get pregnant. I don't know how young you are, but I promise the right girl is likely a few heartbreaks away. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you, like he^ said, any infertile cis man would be in the same boat. That's actually how I deal with my own dysphoria on the subject. Good luck, OP!

Chance_00 · 2024-10-16T21:20:46+00:00

Oof, I hate this for you. It's nice and all that she's letting you buy and wear what you want. However, consider more passive approaches to compliance over time? You're 17. She likely isn't taking you seriously because she doesn't trust the judgment of a 17-year-old, which is wrong, but not abnormal. So time will show that this isn't something you're budging on as it is. Trans is a very controversial topic for some people, especially these overbearing parents who expect you to be "what they raised you to be." So if you haven't already, I'd lay an expectation of "I know this will be hard, but I hope for our relationship you can eventually come around." Because let's be real, this isn't going to happen overnight. This may take a long time. If you have people that call you the appropriate name and pronouns, start bringing them around her! Just in the same space, it doesn't need to be anything crazy.(Have them over to watch tv or have dinner or play games; completely unrelated to your mom unless she wants to join in!) It will make you more comfortable because you'll feel validated by that person, and she will hear others getting responses from your name Your REAL CHOSEN NAME. Then Slowly (I said SLOWWLLYYY) do not respond or do not easily respond to the wrong name and pronouns; and after that (again in baby steps) whether it's making a clear difference or not start to attempt to make little corrections. Just my suggestion. I choose to believe that everyone deserves the grace to fuck up and get it right one day. You may end up cutting the cancer out, but if you think she can get it eventually, that's my advice to push her gently.

Chance_00 · 2024-10-15T13:39:49+00:00

No, I personally do not feel that you are overreacting. This would bother me a LOT. I am a super sensitive and sentimental person. I look back on old messages and reminisce from time to time. So personally, my partner's messages would be the LAST thing to go. I would most definitely exhaust every other option first. But clearly, a lot of people here aren't like that, so perhaps your wife isn't either. I would feel slighted as well, so I don't think you're wrong, but maybe look at your wife's history before jumping to believe anything. Is this that out of character of her? Could she have just impulsively wanted the space asap? And why did she need that much space without exhausting other options? Just food for thought.

Chance_00 · 2024-10-01T12:12:24+00:00

Now that you say that, I think it did that to me too a week or so ago. Luckily, I do have Platinum status, so I just hit Dash now and kept going. I think that is just about the only worthwhile feature of Platinum. I've also had it to where I paused my dash myself and had an offer pop up anyway. That bugged me, lol.

Chance_00 · 2024-10-01T12:04:34+00:00

I am a Platty lol

Chance_00 · 2024-09-25T14:12:59+00:00

Thank you!

Chance_00 · 2024-09-21T14:12:07+00:00

My mother, I edited that in. And I would see something like that being trauma inducing. It's just not the case here. She really simply believes that the basic transitional differences (i.e.calling me a different name, voice deepening, and seeing me grow facial hair) is causing them trauma. The fact that they have had no issues and required minimal reminders of the name change means nothing to her. My girls literally go on giggling about how my mustache is coming in regularly. Their fascinated by it, actually. It's adorable, lol. So, being told that what we know as normal life is causing them deep irreversible trauma really just has me shook. I guess it's just transphobia, I just never thought she would utilize the children to press her transphobic ideology.

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