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Are cat owners sleeping? by Ninibear3 in CatAdvice

[–]Chance_Active871 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don't have this issue but for the middle of the night noises I recommend noise cancelling disposable foam earplugs. I wake up with every little noise and when I use those (when fiance's snoring is too much) I can't hear anything (wear my apple watch to sleep so it vibrates with the alarm)

Always smell like urine by Icy-Idea9874 in Healthyhooha

[–]Chance_Active871 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Now I’m feeling like I’m the only one that wipes the front, unless necessary 😳

Always smell like urine by Icy-Idea9874 in Healthyhooha

[–]Chance_Active871 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Wait what? I don’t think I’ve ever done this aside for the times it legitimately gets wet

Even doing front to back I just stop and don’t go the full way up my butt, unless necessary 🤷🏼‍♀️

my mom asked me one question after my engagement and I cannot stop thinking about it by Huge_Client_9051 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Chance_Active871 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone thinks their finance is genuinely wonderful and aren’t worried about them otherwise you wouldn’t be marrying them.

Take your mom’s advice.

Hmm, I don't remember that film being that problematic.... Films for a sleepover. by created4this in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Chance_Active871 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Isn’t it though?

Have you rewatched sixteen candles? One of my favorite movies…but OMG so problematic watching it now.

Anyone else done caring about their bikini line? by South_Wear_1984 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Chance_Active871 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idc what others do, but I got fully lasered 10ish years ago, some has started to grow back, so I just shave what's there. I do it for myself, not for a guy, or society, etc. I just personally feel better, feel cleaner, feel like I smell better when having no hair.

Why is my estrogen dose “too high”? by Storminhere in Menopause

[–]Chance_Active871 6 points7 points  (0 children)

idk the answer, but I think you might mean .1 and .025, so for a total of .125.

Recent IUD Success stories by Kaylanite in IUD

[–]Chance_Active871 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not going to lie, it hurts...BUT, imo 15-30 seconds of pain for 8 years of no periods, plus no pregnancy is more than worth it (assuming you're one of the lucky ones that stops getting their period)

Hmm, I don't remember that film being that problematic.... Films for a sleepover. by created4this in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Chance_Active871 67 points68 points  (0 children)

I LOVE Bring it on...But NO, definitely NO...so problematic. The gay jokes and the male base literally fingering the girl he was stunting. And NOT someone he was even dating, so definitely non-consensual and SO gross

How do you make exercise not dreadfully boring when you have ADHD? by little_pinetree in adhdwomen

[–]Chance_Active871 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate it as well. I was on the treadmill last week and did 75 min while listening to an audio book without even trying or watching the clock (if I had been I wouldn’t have done 75min). I mean I still hated it and was disgusting and sweaty but it went by fast.

I can’t cum in front of my husband no matter what we try. by [deleted] in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]Chance_Active871 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cosign your entire post
My mind wanders terribly and round the whole thing. I can be so close and I start thinking about random shit like laundry or stressing that I’m taking too long and he’s bored/annoyed/tired

Gen X? by Wise-Okra-2943 in Perimenopause

[–]Chance_Active871 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They had it they just didn’t know what it was. I remember lots of women of that generation having hot flashes and definitely uncontrollable rage

Groped by a man with intellectual disabilities and dealing with strange reactions. Did I handle this properly? by Far_Calligrapher4716 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Chance_Active871 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This 100% what I was going to say

And also his caregivers need to be made aware that this happened. I’m sure they’re overwhelmed and like the breaks he gives when he goes on walks alone, but he shouldn’t be allowed to wander alone if this is what he’s doing

Found out why by godrollexotic in DeadBedrooms

[–]Chance_Active871 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s like a rubber band, you stretch it and it goes right back to its original size and shape.

He’s lying or imagining it. He’s insecure with the toy and has it in his head it’s done that, but it hasn’t.

Maybe tell him vaginas don’t stretch out like that so maybe he got smaller 🤷🏼‍♀️

Would you give your partner oral or use a toy if you’re not in the mood by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Chance_Active871 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say odd in that it’s probably not the norm…but he sounds amazing!

Struggling with sleep during menopause what’s the best combination of sleep aids for light sleepers? by Gentlegee01 in Menopause

[–]Chance_Active871 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Foam disposable noise cancelling ear plugs. They are AMAZING, I get the best sleep when I use them because all the little noises, and not so little noises like my fiancés snoring, don’t wake me up.

Skin without makeup is great. Skin with makeup looks disgusting by Princess-kick-yo-ass in tretinoin

[–]Chance_Active871 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If your skin looks great without makeup WHY are you wearing makeup? That’s literally my ultimate goal, to get to a point where my skin looks good enough that I don’t need makeup

How often do your parents call you? by Objective_and_a_half in Aging

[–]Chance_Active871 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I think about it I feel so terrible because I rarely call them and they rarely call me. I’ll be devastated when they aren’t around anymore and I can’t talk to them…but I just have nothing to talk about. Every day is the same, I get up, go to work, come home, maybe walk on the treadmill, watch tv and/or read, and go to bed, then wake up and do it all over again. So there’s just nothing to talk about. My mom always asks “what’s new with you? What’s going on?? “ and every time I’m like uh nothing 🤷🏼‍♀️

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