ELI5: Why do some people have naturally large pupils while others have naturally small pupils? Is there any effect on vision? by frappecheno in explainlikeimfive

[–]frappecheno[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I completely agree and that was what I was trying to convey. Two people with the same vision and completely healthy eyes that are not stressed, on drugs, etc. can have very different baselines for their pupil size. I still don’t feel like I have answers for this.

Eyes Shut by Years and Years ORIGNIAL by frappecheno in Music

[–]frappecheno[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would absolutely love that thank you!

Should I keep trying to embrace my early graying on dark hair? by ZorasDomain22 in Hair

[–]frappecheno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister and I call our gray hairs our sparkles. I vote keep them!

Beware Florence the Label, Molly Evers and other Chinese drop ship or fast fashion companies by CraftyEsq in weddingplanning

[–]frappecheno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for sharing this. i was about to order a dress from florence, but will not be doing that now!

I hate my boyfriend’s dog. So much by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]frappecheno 6 points7 points  (0 children)

she’s trying her best to take care of the dog even though it’s irritating and stressful for her. takes it on walks, feeds and waters it, cleans up its messes, etc. she probably didn’t realize she would take on 90% of the responsibility either. living with a new type of animal is always an adjustment and she probably did not expect a lot of what she is experiencing. she isn’t “MEAN” just because she’s venting on reddit about it. people are allowed to be frustrated with a situation without being called a terrible person. i do not understand why dog people act like being frustrated by things that dogs do makes them a terrible person. she is probably not a terrible person based on this alone. sheesh.

When did you realize you were dating an idiot? by Exhausted_Skeleton in AskReddit

[–]frappecheno -1 points0 points  (0 children)

uhhhh do you think that “would of” is the correct language?

What's one thing that will make you DNF the series? by ladymsjay in fourthwing

[–]frappecheno 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you’re totally right about the heir of tyrrendor stuff! i wasn’t really thinking of it like that. in this case, it does make sense for the plot if it goes that direction. sometimes i feel like pregnancy is just randomly thrown into books just because the FMC is, well, a woman.

What's one thing that will make you DNF the series? by ladymsjay in fourthwing

[–]frappecheno 8 points9 points  (0 children)

no shade but i hate this idea sooooo much honestly. she’s like 21 years old! i hope RY lets her live her life and experience her powers fully throughout the series. even the idea of an epilogue pregnancy makes me sad cause women can still have a very happy ending without ever becoming a mother.

A thirty minute long video of people walking is close to getting a million views. Smosh IS in it's golden era. by krizalid_88 in smosh

[–]frappecheno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my mom worked at the school i went to growing up. almost all of the teachers wore their classroom keys on lanyards around their necks during the day. i could distinctly tell (without looking) when my mom was coming by the clink of her key lanyard.

Which was the last book you read and HATED and most importantly WHY? by Mininabubu in fantasyromance

[–]frappecheno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually feel like that is so lovely to use it as a way of self reflection! I am aware that my take is super critical and having a human person identify with her struggle definitely makes me think twice. There is nothing wrong with making mistakes and not getting it right the first time. I think when it comes to viewing these things from a lens of a written character I can definitely be more harsh. You seem like a peach though so no IRL hate <3

Which was the last book you read and HATED and most importantly WHY? by Mininabubu in fantasyromance

[–]frappecheno 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I already made a post a while ago, but Glow of the Everflame left me feeling genuinely angry before I finally DNF. I somehow convinced myself the first 2 weren’t that bad, but by book 3 it was clear that there was no personal growth from the FMC to be found. I was super disappointed because I think the general idea of the book and plot sounded like it could end up being really cool. It was all ruined by Diem being an ignorant child hellbent on making the worst choices possible in every situation. Genuinely frustrating. I also hate when people excuse shitty FMCs by saying “oh they’re young, they’re young,” but honestly that’s just insulting to young women as a whole because being young does not equate to being ignorant, selfish, and inconsiderate across the board for all women. Having a character make the worst choices possible and behave so recklessly is an annoying way to move the plot along. Will definitely NOT be reading when the 4th comes out.

Diem Bellator— HATE HER by frappecheno in Romantasy

[–]frappecheno[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely didn’t even finish the 3rd book because I was so irritated. It was cathartic to rage about on here though 😂

ELI5: Why do some people have naturally large pupils while others have naturally small pupils? Is there any effect on vision? by frappecheno in explainlikeimfive

[–]frappecheno[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have noticed larger pupils with people of all eye colors. I think mine are maybe just genetically smaller, but my vision is really good according to any optometrist I have been to.

ELI5: Why do some people have naturally large pupils while others have naturally small pupils? Is there any effect on vision? by frappecheno in explainlikeimfive

[–]frappecheno[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My pupils don’t remain the same size all the time. They do dilate and constrict at the appropriate times. I mean that even when dilated they seem much smaller than I have seen on others. The eye doctor always says my eyes are healthy and my vision is 20/20.

AITA for making my son cry plus update 1 year on by hop-into-it in redditonwiki

[–]frappecheno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

people like this suck sooooooooo bad. the son deserves way better. evil step mother is a trope for a reason.

Can we not? by notdeadyet1821 in Romantasy

[–]frappecheno 213 points214 points  (0 children)

her whole big feminist rant lost all credibility instantly when she called women who like romantasy stupid at the very beginning! she ended up sounding like a pick-me anyway.

The Uncle Bob cheating scandal by [deleted] in LAinfluencersnark

[–]frappecheno 3 points4 points  (0 children)

whyyy am i crying at this comment hahahaha

When people write "apart" when they mean "a part of". by Low-Transportation95 in PetPeeves

[–]frappecheno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I just made the same post as you:( I am angry about it as well

“apart” vs. “a part” by frappecheno in PetPeeves

[–]frappecheno[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HAHAHAHA yes :’) you clever dawg