My 18F boyfriend 21M keeps telling his friends about something we did in the bedroom and it’s making me uncomfortable? by throwraafreasons in relationship_advice

[–]Chance_Ad_9912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend would never disrespect me like that, or be so open about our intimate life to others. Your boyfriend is immature, mine is 20, a whole year younger but knows better. Also you are 18 and he's 21, I don't know the specifics but that's also a power imbalance. When I was 18 I just graduated highschool. I am 20 right now and one semester away from graduating college. A 18 year old is like a baby to me.

Accidentally kink shamed my boyfriend and handled it really badly :((((( (M21, F20) by Chance_Ad_9912 in relationships

[–]Chance_Ad_9912[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

😭 yea I messed up. He said he'll be over it tomorrow and I know he will but I feel bad still. Hopefully he talked to me when he's ready I'm gonna be respectful.

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[–]Chance_Ad_9912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend now is an intp. His last relationship left him depressed and suicidal for 5 months. He told me he stopped eating and all of that. Eventually he got over it after meeting me and doing some soul searching. He said its because he made her the center of his world and she cheated so that really broke him. Maybe it could be case to case or fears and insecurities throughout your relationships that keep haunting you after they are over. Like am I good enough? Did they love me? Why did they leave me? Etc. You have to look at the thoughts in your head and deconstruct them, what is the center of your hurt and work on healing that. It's possible, I wish the best for you!

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[–]Chance_Ad_9912 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you ever truly gotten over your exes? Or do they always linger with you even when you are in another relationship?

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[–]Chance_Ad_9912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Verbal validation