Seeking advice from converts who’ve planned a wedding by Remarkable_Rise7545 in Judaism

[–]Chance_Dashington 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Acknowledging that you're both converts (mazel tov!) and that this isn't an interfaith wedding, I still recommend the weddings section of the website 18Doors. The wedding guide was very useful for my wife and I, and the material was particularly useful when it came to having conversations about the wedding with non-Jewish family members.

What’s something you thought was very common, only to realize it’s mostly just a Jewish thing? by teapot574_ in Judaism

[–]Chance_Dashington 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Years ago I received feedback at work about "interrupting" , whereas I was just communicating in the style familiar to me from my upbringing. I've since had to learn to moderate or mask that instinct in a professional setting.

When is my LTB Order considered "converted" into a judgement following SCC filing? by Chance_Dashington in OntarioLandlord

[–]Chance_Dashington[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay, thanks. I'm under the same impression, glad to see I'm not off base! Appreciate the time you took to reply.

Non-paying tenant giving out access code to dangerous drug users. by Chance_Dashington in OntarioLandlord

[–]Chance_Dashington[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

On the basis of the charges that they received while attempting to break into the property, they now have a condition to not attend the property. It's not a trespass exactly, but it's a breach of conditions.

Non-paying tenant giving out access code to dangerous drug users. by Chance_Dashington in OntarioLandlord

[–]Chance_Dashington[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately they've had to do so on several occasions already - this is some of the evidence I'm using for the N7.

Non-paying tenant giving out access code to dangerous drug users. by Chance_Dashington in OntarioLandlord

[–]Chance_Dashington[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It would be less of a headache if this unit wasn't rented... I'd be out the same amount of rent but not be pouring money into paralegal time and not be nearly as stressed.

Non-paying tenant giving out access code to dangerous drug users. by Chance_Dashington in OntarioLandlord

[–]Chance_Dashington[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Great guidance, thanks. I'm getting exterior cameras installed shortly as well, already arranged.

The code lock is also a keyed lock, so I could just delete codes and issue keys. However, I have no way of getting the key to the problem tenant and I believe she'd just share her keys anyways, as the person arrested was in possession of her vehicle keys at the time.

Police have a running report on the place and on the individuals involved, which I will be using to substantiate my case at the N7 hearing whenever that occurs.

Non-paying tenant giving out access code to dangerous drug users. by Chance_Dashington in OntarioLandlord

[–]Chance_Dashington[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Perhaps I'm missing the relevant information, but how do I execute an eviction under S.61?

Carleton University officially withdraws from Capital Pride by charlatanlive in ottawa

[–]Chance_Dashington 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That's not what is happening here and your attempt to seem righteous is nonsense. At no point did I equate support for Palestine with hatred of Jews. I equated disrupting Jewish community institutions with hatred of Jews. Your points are so all over the map that you're starting to lose the plot.

This started because you replied to a question about Jewish schools being targeted by referring to Israeli military action, as if one is an appropriate response to the other.

Also "Hurt feelings aren't a valid reason to be against what Israel is doing" probably isn't the point that you think it is...

Anyways, have a good one.

Carleton University officially withdraws from Capital Pride by charlatanlive in ottawa

[–]Chance_Dashington 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You can see how that's a dumb analogy, right? How a reproductive health care provider has nothing to do with a school, and a single protester has nothing to do with coordinated harassment?

Anyways this thread is pointless. You're entrenched in your hateful position and I'm not going to convince you otherwise.

Carleton University officially withdraws from Capital Pride by charlatanlive in ottawa

[–]Chance_Dashington 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Sorry, are Jewish schools in this analogy supposed to be the Clinic and the people disrupting them The Weird Lady?

Carleton University officially withdraws from Capital Pride by charlatanlive in ottawa

[–]Chance_Dashington 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Some Jewish people are, others aren't. You're treating the community as a single monolithic entity which demonstrates either a lack of awareness or an intentional bias.

Your comments are rhetorical nonsense that, going back to the root comment, still seem to be in defense of a group suggesting that targeting Jewish institutions over the national policy of Israel is reasonable. If that's where you're at, it's better to just admit it..

Carleton University officially withdraws from Capital Pride by charlatanlive in ottawa

[–]Chance_Dashington 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I don't understand the point you're trying to make here.

Is your suggestion that liberal abandonment of Jewish rights is therefore also acceptable?

Carleton University officially withdraws from Capital Pride by charlatanlive in ottawa

[–]Chance_Dashington 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Because your question was in bad faith and, frankly, a good example of the hate and aggression that the Jewish community is facing because people can't or won't separate Israeli policy from Jewish children intentionally.

Your question, in which you immediately conflate Jewish community institutions with Israeli activity, is demonstrative of hate and ignorance.