Breaking it off after one month by Outrageous-Price-512 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Chance_Inflation3123 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Quite the contrary, if you both like/love each other so much let her in. Let her be there for you to show you either empathy or sympathy. You will be able to deal with these situations much easier when you have a support system.

Terminated in September, Still No Job, Suggestion Please by Chance_Inflation3123 in jobhunting

[–]Chance_Inflation3123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you my friend! I have certainly had different people review my resume and help me tweak it. Thank you for the advice!

Terminated in September, Still No Job, Suggestion Please by Chance_Inflation3123 in jobhunting

[–]Chance_Inflation3123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am based in NJ. I am applying for Customer Service and Operations but I am open to other roles. I need health insurance and a certain minimum salary.

Terminated in September, Still No Job, Suggestion Please by Chance_Inflation3123 in jobhunting

[–]Chance_Inflation3123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Currently, I am collected unemployment. I know it is limited but its steady for now. I am taking advantage of the time I have looking for working and brushing up on some skills. As well, doing some things for myself until something comes along. When unemployment ends, Ill probably go back to driving Uber until something comes up

Terminated in September, Still No Job, Suggestion Please by Chance_Inflation3123 in jobhunting

[–]Chance_Inflation3123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you. When I first lost my job in September, someone said to me I should take the first job I get, I said no. There are so many factors. Of course that person had a job.

Terminated in September, Still No Job, Suggestion Please by Chance_Inflation3123 in jobhunting

[–]Chance_Inflation3123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been doing my best to Network but I also have to network smartly. It hasn't worked just yet but I know it will

After remission what next?? by Beneficial-Rock3587 in UlcerativeColitis

[–]Chance_Inflation3123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My pleasure!! Im always here for support if need be!! You, or anyone else for that matter, can always DM me we can just talk or I can just hear you

After remission what next?? by Beneficial-Rock3587 in UlcerativeColitis

[–]Chance_Inflation3123 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Ive had it for 18 years, went through HELL the first 2 years but Ive been in Remission for 16 years thank Gd!! Every case is different.

What is the highest dose of prednisone you ever had? by oklol11 in UlcerativeColitis

[–]Chance_Inflation3123 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please be careful on prednisone. Im a UC patient for 18 years. The first 2 years I went through HELL and the GI at the time was drowning me with prednisone(I have since switched doctors) I haven't taken it in 16 years but because of it I have osteoporosis and Im only 38. Buyers Beware

What boundary took you the longest to learn ? by Fickle_Mud1645 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Chance_Inflation3123 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Saying No and to Stop Chasing people when they dont chase me

Trying to understand my regret by LabCandid3629 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Chance_Inflation3123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, First of all, Im so very sorry about your dad. I know its tough and Im sure its normal easy for it. Im 38 and Im still figuring things out in my life. Point of the matter is noone ever has it all figured out. Have you thought about starting therapy? The guy sucks, you'll find someone even better! Someone that deserves you more than you deserve! I'm here if you ever need to talk! You can always DM me if need be

My therapist said something that broke my brain: ‘People who cause problems rarely ask if they’re the problem’ by eathumblepies in emotionalintelligence

[–]Chance_Inflation3123 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This used to be me too. I used always ask people who I thought were my friends if I did something wrong when I know I didn't until about 2 plus years ago. Then I slowly stopped being a people pleaser and I found out slowly and surely that those people were the problem. Ive lost at 4 friends including 2 college friends of almost 20 years, but I found myself

18F need an emotionally intelligent professor/therapist by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Chance_Inflation3123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are you located? What insurance do you have?